Many people try to find love and fulfillment in others, but in the end, it backfires.
When a person begins to focus on himself and no longer demands the eyes of the outside world, it means that his inner needs have been greatly satisfied.
The best way to love yourself is to develop a sense of security, freedom, and worth.
Develop a sense of security
Everyone expects a sense of security, but in real life, do you care too much about the accusations or denials of your leaders, the evaluations or attitudes of your colleagues?
If so, you will unconsciously place your security in others, however, the most reliable sense of security is created by yourself.
It is human nature to crave love and care from the outside world, but we only know after countless encounters that the love we give is the most reliable.
Rather than praying for protection from the outside world, there are gains and losses;It's better to make yourself strong and pampered.
Cultivate a sense of freedom
There are peaks and valleys in life.
But when a person is free from the influence of external circumstances and always has the choice in his own hands, he is free.
Tribulations are unpredictable, and inner freedom cannot be taken away.
Those who passively avoid become slaves to fate;Those who face it positively become the masters of their destiny.
People who truly love themselves allow anything to happen, but never give up their agency and freedom as human beings.
Develop a sense of worth
No matter what happens now or what may happen in the future, your value will always be there.
In real life, many people are Xi using results to judge their self-worth.
People who truly love themselves do not associate their imperfections with their sense of worth.
When one no longer focuses on the actions and the results themselves, but finds the positive meaning behind them, one can also get the truth of life - no matter what, your value has always been there.
I was born to be useful.