1.The workplace is a field of interests, and people with weak selfishness will only consider themselves in the competition. Selfish and frivolous people are more ambitious, and they are more ruthless in doing things, and the concept is, "people are not ruthless, and they can't stand firmly." When striving for opportunities and resources, I will not take too much into account, and would rather let myself bear the people of the world than let the people of the world bear myself. Hard-hearted, thick-skinned, easy to get opportunities in the workplace.
2.People who are selfish and affectionate don't care about face or other people's feelings. In the workplace, this kind of person is refined egoism. Employing people forward, overtaking when not in use, without considering moral and emotional factors. For example, crossing the river and demolishing bridges, unloading mills and killing donkeys, they will do it, and they will not feel embarrassed. will be taken for granted.
3.Loyal and honest people are not good in the workplace, and in school, the general education is tolerant, kind, tolerant and friendly. I didn't understand that it's right to be kind in the workplace, but you have to be sharp, and you can't be good to everyone. You can't be a good old man. In the workplace competition, they will be very passive, and in the eyes of selfish and affectionate people, they will feel that they are fools and easy to bully. will suffer losses and lose interests. Therefore, it is important to understand human nature in the workplace. Don't treat your leaders and colleagues as friends. Work is to earn money, and you should think more about your own gains and losses, and your own career goals.
4.Selfish and affectionate people dare to refuse and turn their faces in the face of conflicts of interest and contradictions. In the workplace, it is Vanity Fair, and only in this way can there be development, instead of being submissive and having too many scruples. As the old saying goes, mercy is not in charge of soldiers, and righteousness is not in charge of wealth. Understand what the nature of the workplace is. Don't treat everyone as a good person, be embarrassed by anyone, and don't be afraid of offending people. Those who are good to themselves must reciprocate, and those who are not good to themselves must dare to refuse and dare to show their swords. In the workplace, there must be boundaries, principles, and bottom lines. It is necessary to look at the workplace relationship rationally, not to be mechanically credulous about the school, but to look at the workplace rationally in combination with reality and one's own experience. Keep your legitimate interests from being lost.