As the old saying goes, "those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black", the world understands that the environment has a great impact on a person, but some people's attitude towards the world is to communicate downward to find a sense of existence, and a few smart and motivated people still like to make friends with people who are better than themselves, because they can learn more from excellent people. So how to make friends with people who are better than yourself, this article will ** this question.
Everyone knows that Confucius was revered as a saint by later generations, but in fact, in his time, Confucius's training classes were famous all over the world. So what should you do if you want to make friends with someone as good as Confucius? Of course, some people will say that apprenticeship is good, but in fact, there are many ** of Confucius, how many people have befriended Confucius in the real sense?
*Yan Hui. Yan Hui was a poor student who couldn't afford the tuition fees, but he was also the most valued student by Confucius. Yan Hui is a person who is true and pure, combines knowledge and action, and strictly practices the words and deeds of Confucius. Zi said: "I talk to you all day long, and I am not disobedient like a fool." Retreating and saving his selfishness is also enough to send, and he is not stupid!"What do you mean?It was Confucius who said, I gave Yan Hui a one-day lecture, and he didn't give any opinions, like he was stupid. But I observed his words and deeds privately, and he did exactly what I said, and it seems that Yan Hui is not stupid. Confucius was also touched by Yan Hui's calmness and calmness of "a spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they will not change their pleasures". This is a real friendship between master and apprentice.
*Zigong. Zigong was a merchant, and in ancient times, the status of a merchant was the lowest. Everyone knows that Confucius traveled around the world, and the chief sponsor of this tour was Zigong. Confucius accepted disciples without class, and then also provided various business opportunities for Zigong, a businessman. At the age of seventeen, Zigong worshipped Confucius as his teacher, and because he was well influenced by Confucius's Confucian culture, he eventually became the originator of the famous Confucian merchants. Of course, it is worth mentioning that Confucius's thoughts and speeches have been passed down to the world, and Zigong has also contributed to it. It's all Zigong organizing his classmates to summarize and sort it out.
In short, if you want to make friends with people who are much better than you, you must not just dream about it, but also have something that can touch people.