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Heroes, Zhang Wuji left me today, he was responsible for me, not me. I, Zhou Zhiruo, broke off with the surname Zhang!If you don't have this revenge, I swear not to be a person!”
In 1994, "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" was released, Zhou Zhiruo played by Zhou Haimei amazed everyone, and many people were upset for her: "Zhang Wuji, are you blind, you don't like such a good sister Zhou Zhiruo, like Zhao Min." ”
It is said that after Mr. Jin Yong saw it, he couldn't help but sigh:
If I knew that Zhou Haimei played Zhou Zhiruo so well, I would have revised the ending and let Zhang Wuji and Zhou Zhiruo be together. ”
People sigh about Zhou Zhiruo's feelings, but they don't know that Zhou Haimei's feelings in reality are more complicated and distressing than Zhou Zhiruo's.
1. Zhou Zhiruo's most regrettable relationship should be the relationship between her and Liming.
In 1998, at an event, Liming and Zhou Haimei were on the same stage, and Liming wanted to say sorry to Zhou Haimei, but before she could say it, Zhou Haimei had already left.
The following year, Liming held a concert and specially invited Zhou Haimei to attend.
And at the concert, she sang the song "I'm Sorry I Love You", but at this time, Zhou Haimei had already left the concert site.
Later, Zhou Haimei settled in the mainland, and Liming had no chance to apologize publicly in person.
The emotional entanglement between Zhou Haimei and Liming also involves the actor Lu Liangwei, strictly speaking, in fact, Liming is more like a third party.
In 1999, when Liming was interviewed, he once said something like this:
When you were young, you would use violence to solve problems, but now you don't hurt others, because that's not the right way. When a third party appears in a relationship, it is often the two who have problems that give the third party an opportunity. ”
Previously, there were news reports that Liming and Lu Liangwei had a conflict when they were on the set.
Lu Liangwei is Zhou Haimei's first boyfriend when she entered the entertainment industry.
In 1985, Zhou Haimei, who was still a newcomer, met Lu Liangwei when filming "Island Storm", when Zhou Haimei was just 19 years old, and Lu Liangwei was 30 years old.
At that time, Lu Liangwei was already very famous, and participated in many film and television dramas such as "Shanghai Tang" and "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", and he was regarded as a big brother-level figure in the Hong Kong film industry.
On the set, as a senior, as well as a big brother, he naturally took a lot of care of Zhou Haimei.
After a few months, Lu Liangwei fell in love with this girl who was 11 years younger than him, and began to pursue fiercely.
Zhou Haimei is about to fall into the love network carefully woven by Lu Liangwei.
Although the two did not have a perfect result in the end, Zhou Haimei did not regret this relationship, many years later, she said in an interview:
I have never regretted this relationship, although I was young at the time, but I was very sensible, even if I had to do it all over again, I would still choose to do so. ”
From this sentence, it can be seen that Lu Liangwei has the weight in Zhou Haimei's mind.
Second, after the two were together, Zhou Haimei's career also began to advance by leaps and bounds.
Not long after, she participated in a hit TV series "Intolerable Love", which set a record for Hong Kong TV drama ratings, and Zhou Haimei also became a popular actress with this TV series.
Zhou Haimei's popularity did not affect the relationship between the two people.
In 1989, after the two were in love for 4 years, they were married in a church in Las Vegas, witnessed by the pastor.
However, after also officially living together, problems between the two began to appear.
Lui Liangwei's father was sick and needed to be taken care of.
And Zhou Haimei has been pampered since she was a child, and she doesn't know how to take care of people at all, plus she has a busy career, and after returning home, she rarely does housework.
This made Lu Liangwei's family a little dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law.
At the beginning, Lu Liangwei didn't take it seriously, but after a long time, he also felt that Zhou Haimei was not a qualified wife, and began to argue.
One day, Lu Liangwei lost his temper: "The whole family is waiting for you to eat, you are still sleeping, why are you so ignorant?"”
Zhou Haimei was originally resentful, she was originally a young lady who did not touch the spring water with her hands, and she married into this family for love, but she encountered all kinds of complaints.
After hearing her husband's words, she was also annoyed: "Before I got married, that's it, didn't you know." ”
Obviously, this pair of lovers failed to complete the transition from love to marriage.
Both of them have strong personalities, and neither of them wants to compromise, which may be the sentence in Liming's words: A relationship has a third party, and it is often the two of them who have problems that give the third party a chance.
In addition, ** has a certain relationship with the marriage between the two, all kinds of oil and mistakes.
In short, the two finally broke up, but they did not go through the divorce procedures.
It wasn't until 1996, before Lu Liangwei got married, that the two went to formally go through the divorce procedures, but they were told by the ** staff that they registered their marriage in the United States and had no legal effect in Hong Kong.
Zhou Haimei suddenly realized that she had never married Lu Liangwei in the real sense.
3. In 1990, Zhou Haimei and Liming met during the filming of "Back to When I Was Unmarried", and then Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei broke up, and there was also news that she and Liming were in love.
At that time, there was also news that it was precisely because Zhou Haimei fell in love with Liming that she broke up with Lu Liangwei.
After Lu Liangwei knew that his wife was empathetic and didn't fall in love, he also beat Zhou Haimei.
Later, in the variety show "Zhiyun Dinner", the host Chen Zhiyun also specially asked Lu Liangwei this question: "Did you beat Zhou Haimei because you were jealous." ”
Lu Liangwei denied beating people, but answered Zhou Haimei's empathy from the side:
I didn't go into the matter and if she thinks it's happy, do it, we men, honestly, can afford to lose, if you find someone better than me, someone who is more suitable for you, you sue me, you go, I so. ”
It's a pity that Zhou Haimei and Liming don't have a good ending.
Even when he was in love, Liming never publicly admitted this girlfriend, after all, he was the king.
The king of heaven has never recognized me. ”
In 1994, when Zhou Haimei was interviewed, she said this with a resentful expression, and a few months later, Liming admitted her relationship with Zhou Haimei in "Super Sunday".
It didn't take long for the news of the two breaking up.
And Zhou Haimei also released two songs this year, namely "Sunrise Love" and "Dead Heart to Love".
It was also this year that Zhou Haimei's "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" was released, and her role as Zhou Zhiruo was distressing, perhaps it was because of her own feelings that she was able to interpret this role so vividly.
The love scene was frustrated, and Zhou Haimei's body also lit up with a red light.
Fourth, Zhou Haimei was diagnosed with lupus erythematosus, a very difficult disease.
Zhou Haimei, who was popular, had to temporarily fade out of the entertainment industry to treat her illness.
In 2005, Zhou Haimei fell in love again, her boyfriend is an architect who is 7 years younger than her, there is a huge gap in status and age, but this relationship is Zhou Haimei's most beautiful relationship.
Before the two fell in love, the architect's life was simple.
There is no refrigerator at home, no TV and no kitchen is renovated.
For the first meal after the two were together, Zhou Haimei squatted on the ground and fried a plate of mapo tofu for her boyfriend, she said: "We have to have a refrigerator, I like to drink cold drinks and eat ice cream in summer." ”
The next day, my boyfriend bought a refrigerator.
Not long after, Zhou Haimei said again: "It's so boring to stay at home, why don't we buy a TV." ”
The next day, there was an extra TV in the house.
Such details abound in the process of getting along with the two, and her boyfriend gave Zhou Haimei endless love, and Zhou Haimei was 37 years old this year.
It's a pity that this relationship is also fruitless.
Fifth, the main reason is that Zhou Haimei suffers from lupus erythematosus, which makes her shy away from marriage, she dare not get married, let alone have children, and is afraid of passing on her disease to her children.
In the next twelve years, the man's family urged marriage and birth countless times, which made Zhou Haimei feel tired.
But for the man, starting a family is an indispensable stage in life, and even if the man agrees, his family cannot agree.
In the end, after 12 years of passionate love, the two parted ways.
This year, Zhou Haimei is 49 years old, and she is no longer young.
Since then, Zhou Haimei has never had a relationship come out again.
A few months ago, Zhou Haimei shared a **, but it rushed to the hot search, she said:
I really like myself, I have a good personality, I look good, there are many people who love me, and I also have people who love ......”
This is a very normal sharing life, but the comment area seems very abnormal.
There are a lot of malicious comments :
You have such a good appearance, it's a pity not to leave a descendant.
So loving, why don't you have a baby with you.
well-known actress, 56 years old, unmarried and living alone" several keywords were combined together, which directly detonated the Internet, for these remarks, Zhou Haimei replied with 5 words: "Can you manage it!."”
Yes, whether to get married or not, whether to have children or not is a private matter.
Taking a step back, what about that woman who doesn't want to marry her beloved, protect each other for the rest of her life, and don't want to have her own children?
However, in this world, there is also a lot of helplessness and regret.
In the end, people are forced to live a life they don't want to live, not only Zhou Haimei, but also you and me in front of the screen