Hello everyone, I'm Bean Sprouts Mom.
Recently, "My Family Zihan" was played bad by netizens, "Zihan Terrier" exploded, "Zihan's mother" can be described as disgraced, and as she was cued by netizens over and over again, it is estimated that she was also scared into a cold sweat.
Sub-inclusion bodySub-culvert terrierWhat is it that can trigger an "Internet carnival", this has to start with a small story.
It was a very small incident, but because of a parent who "cares about chaos", it caused a ridiculous and even somewhat absurd "Internet accident".
It turned out that the parent named Zihan's mother, after picking up the child from school, found that the baby child Zihan was actually bitten by a mosquito, which is terrible.
So she began to get angry in the kindergarten parent group, and angrily questioned the teacher:That's how you look at children in kindergarten?
And bluntly:Our family Zihan was still fine when he was sent to school in the morningWhen I came back from school, I found myself bitten by a mosquito at school.
The teacher patiently explained that the kindergarten carries out insecticide every week, but there is no guarantee that the mosquitoes can be completely eliminated. Besides,It's normal to be bitten by mosquitoes in the summer
Zihan's mother asked sharply again:Then why didn't you bite other children?
As soon as these words came out, without waiting for the teacher to answer, a group of "zi han" mothers in the group came to hug and fight.
Zihan's mother said: Heavenly Bodhisattva, the child was bitten by a mosquito and was so big that the teacher asked for the guilt.
Zihan's mother said: Your child has never been bitten by mosquitoes at home
It can be said that a word stirs up a thousand waves.
Because the teacher posted this chat record on the Internet, the comment area also exploded.
Countless "Zihan's mothers" surfaced and left messages to ridicule.
Why is our family Zihan facing away from the podium?”
Why does our family Zihan sit at the back?”
Why is our family Zihan chicken leg smaller than others?”
How can our family Zihan only show half of his face when he takes pictures?”
It's not over yet, as soon as the "Zihan Mother" incident came out, social ** and various jokes on the Internet followed, and they were spoofed by netizens to make sentences, which was simply broken.
Zihan became famous overnight, I don't know if the real Zihan's mother will be scared into a cold sweat and regret it when she sees it being cued by netizens again and again.
The popularity of "Zihan Body" is by no means a carnival of a group of people, it is as simple as that.
Regarding the phenomenon of this hot stalk, many teachers bluntly said:Netizens watched the fun, and the teacher looked in the mirror.
In fact, it is not only the teacher who looks in the mirror, but also the parents who should really look in the mirror.
In the face of this carnival of discourse, parents with similar behaviors should reflect on whether they are emotionally unstable, chaotic when encountered, and easy to shift the responsibility to the school and teachers
First of all, parents should not take care of too much, and fully trust teachers and schools.
Since the child is sent to this school, it is handed over to the teacher. It is necessary to trust the teacher to take good care of the child, and not to stretch his hand too long.
Parents often report teachers, and some think that teachers are too strict, noisy children, and punish children, which hurt children's self-esteem and belong to corporal punishment
Some people think that the teacher is "misbehaving" and that the clothes they wear are too revealing, which has a bad impact on the child
There are even parents who see the teacher's circle of friends posting "eat, drink and have fun"**, and ask to delete it, thinking that the teacher attaches too much importance to entertainment and will lead the child to deviate.
Nowadays, many teachers are really afraid of parents, lest if they say something wrong, they will hurt their children and be dissatisfied by their parents.
Therefore, many teachers are also relatively lenient in their children's requirements, and they don't want to write homework, so it's okay, as long as the parents agree.
Strict teachers produce high apprentices. Only when the teacher really fulfills the teacher's responsibilities and strictly disciplines the child, will the child's every minute in school be especially valuable.
Secondly, parents should not be glassy and overprotective of their children.
Now every family has one or two children, which are more delicate, and parents are too protective of their children, lest their children be harmed.
In fact, it is not that the child is not strong, but that the parents think that the child is weak. When it comes to raising children, parents should not be too glassy. I am afraid that the protection of the child will not be in place, and I actually do not trust the performance of the child.
Only when parents fully let go, believe in their children, and trust their teachers, will their children's hearts be stronger, more autonomous, and independent, instead of becoming a "mom treasure" who looks for their mothers when they meet them.
Only by letting go of the excessive desire to control the child, respecting individual differences, not expressing one's dissatisfaction in an excessive way, and discussing and finding solutions in case of problems, will it be beneficial to the child's growth.
Finally, raising children doesn't have to be too "delicate".
I found that some lively, healthy and sick children around me often have a "nervous" mother, who plays with you playing with sand, crawling on the ground and playing casually, unrestrained and freewheeling.
On the other hand, those who hold disinfectant and wet wipes and want children to live in a sterile environment, in fact, the child's own immunity has not been strengthened, but has been interrupted by parents again and again in free exploration, resulting in paranoid personality and lack of concentration.
Speaking of the name Zihan, I believe everyone is familiar with it. Especially the young people born in the 80s and 90s, they give their babies names, and they especially prefer the combination of these two words.
According to statistics, in 2023, there will be 18 and 12 names named Zihan for the enrollment of new students at Wuhan University and Northeast Normal University alone, respectively.
You can see its popularity.
There is a joke that when the new students start school, the teacher opens the roster and sees that they are all Zihan, what Zihan, Zihan, Zihan, Zihan are really stupid and can't tell the difference.
Especially the name "Zihan", most of the babies born after 10 are named, and it is also to the extent of rotten streets.
The reason for such a popular name is nothing more than oneGood read, which reads in a subdued tone and is catchy;The second is good-looking, the two words together look like a very learned look;The third is a good meaning, but looking at the glyphs, there is wood and water, and the five elements are not lacking, they all love to use these two words, implying that the wood is beautiful in the forest and the water is bozzy.
In fact, the name of each generation has the characteristics of each generation, which may be related to the background of the times, the national environment, or regional characteristics, or the aesthetic cognition of pop culture and characters.
Now, Zihan has exploded again, bringing people after-dinner conversations and jokes.
After talking and laughing, what do you think and feel?
Bean Sprouts Mother, MBA of Shanghai University, intermediate economist, psychological counselor, focusing on children's psychology and growth.
Like my content, follow me, and continue to share and exchange family education knowledge and parenting stories with you.
On the road of parenting, walk together and not be alone.
Related Further Reading:
Children who are "forbidden to play with mobile phones" and "play with mobile phones at will" since childhood have a big gap between the three aspects when they grow up.
Before the age of 6, the brain develops rapidly, and often eats 5 kinds of "** food", and the child is smart and has a good memory.
After my son went to the first grade, he realized that it was very important to cultivate the ability of the baby in the first three years of kindergarten.