On the Spring Festival Gala of 2022, the audience laughed when Jiang Kun and Dai Zhicheng performed "Happy Dialect", and their figures made people feel very familiar.
Dai Zhicheng, an older generation of cross talk actors, has presented countless wonderful works on the stage, but he has experienced an unbearable relationship.
Before Dai Zhicheng became famous, he and Yang Lei had a happy marriage. At that time, Yang Lei didn't care about his fame and wealth, and she was determined to marry him.
Dai Zhicheng has always put Yang Lei first after marriage, even if they have no children, but this will not affect the relationship between the two.
Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei are known as a "model couple", although anyone can get a divorce, they can't. However, Dai Zhicheng fell into a new relationship.
Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng have been divorced for 18 years, what is their living situation now?
When Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei met, one was a little-known cross talk actor in the cross talk industry, and the other was known as the "well-known sketch queen". Yang Lei also became popular on CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
When Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng fell in love, the people around them were not optimistic, because the conditions of the two were very different.
Yang Lei was very happy, Dai Zhicheng coaxed her with clever words, even if the whole world disagreed, she wanted to be with him.
After marriage, Dai Zhicheng also worked very hard, he wanted to be on par with his wife Yang Lei, and she also supported her husband and would help him in his career.
In the cross talk circle, Dai Zhicheng won a place thanks to Yang Lei's support, and his partner with Jiang Kun became more and more tacit.
Yang Lei and Dai Zhicheng's work is getting busier and busier, and they have less and less time to meet, but they talk to each other every day, and Dai Zhicheng always affectionately calls her "baby", which makes Yang Lei feel very happy.
Dai Zhicheng always called her like this, as if they were still a young couple in love, not affected by how long they had been married.
When Yang Lei was in trouble, Dai Zhicheng was always the first to stand up and support her, giving comfort and encouragement. Yang Lei feels that she is really lucky to have such a husband.
Yang Lei lives in the same neighborhood as Dai Zhicheng and Hou Yaowen and Yuan Yin. When they are not working, they will party together, and if there is no performance, Dai Zhicheng will ask his master and uncle to have dinner together.
Yang Lei and Yuan Yin would go shopping together, and then go to afternoon tea, and they got along very well when they were together, and the friendship between the two sisters was very deep.
Hou Yaowen's work is getting busier and busier, so only Yuan Yin and the children are left at home. Not only does she need energy to take care of this family, but she also has to deal with the situation that Hou Yaowen can't help in the first place.
Hou Yaowen had an urgent matter at home, and Yuan Yin had no time to take care of the children, so he entrusted Yang Lei to take care of them.
Dai Zhicheng spoiled Yang Lei as a princess at home, she had nothing to do and might not be able to help, so she went with her husband to help.
Dai Zhicheng would go over in time whenever Yuan Yin needed to take care of something, which made Yang Lei and Hou Yaowen very relieved. Unfortunately, the two of them have become restless.
Yuan Yin fell in love with Dai Zhicheng, who often cared for her, and Dai Zhicheng also fell in love with the young and beautiful aunt.
Both of them already have families, but they have never confessed and choose to hide this love deep in their hearts. However, as time went on, their relationship became more and more intimate and transcended the boundaries of ordinary friends.
Yang Lei noticed that something seemed wrong about the relationship between her husband and best friend, but she thought it was unlikely. However, she didn't know that Dai Zhicheng had confessed everything to Yuan Yin, and the two secretly had feelings.
Despite this, Dai Zhicheng is still very good to Yang Lei, and when he returns home, he still dotes on his wife as always, and always obeys her when he goes out. Yang Lei mistakenly thought that her marriage was extremely stable and happy.
Dai Zhicheng only maintained a relationship on the surface, but his heart had already set his sights on Yuan Yin, and even had the idea of divorce and marrying her.
Yuan Yin is still sober, after all, the relationship between them is not normal, and they pay special attention to seniority in the cross talk circle.
Dai Zhicheng insisted on divorcing Yang Lei, and he moved all the belongings in the house, leaving nothing for Yang Lei.
At that time, Yang Lei was busy preparing for the 2004 CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and after the performance, she happily gave Dai Zhicheng a ** celebration together, but she didn't expect to receive a divorce notice, which made her stunned.
When Yang Lei returned home, she felt even more cold when she saw the empty room. She thought about the marriage and realized that she also had a responsibility that she could not shirk.
Yang Lei decided not to salvage the relationship, so she and Dai Zhicheng completed the divorce procedures in just 22 days.
Although Yang Lei felt sad and sad in the process, she did not show a trace of sad tears in front of Dai Zhicheng.
After returning home and completing the formalities, Yang Lei saw that there was not even a mop left for her at home, and tears flowed involuntarily, and she was even more sad, so she broke down and cried.
Yang Lei had a very hard time during that time, and she couldn't even eat, which caused her to lose a lot of weight, and her good friend also lost 8 pounds because of taking care of her.
Yang Lei was not interested in anything, and she directly refused the offer to work because she had no heart to create.
The two of them had a good time, so I couldn't figure out why I ended up divorcing Dai Zhicheng.
Yang Lei did not tell her parents that she was going to divorce because she didn't want them to worry and knew that they were not in good health when they were old. But now her state makes her parents know at a glance that their daughter is a little worried.
Yang Lei hadn't visited her parents for nearly three years, and every time she just chatted a few words through ** and hung up, she was worried about crying in front of her parents.
Yang Lei's friends also felt guilty about her and went to her home to visit and accompany her. And Li Jindou often sends wine over, because only after drinking can she forget those things and fall asleep.
Otherwise, Yang Lei will have to rely on drugs to fall asleep. She would call her friend ** when she had insomnia, confiding her emotions until her friend waited until she calmed down and didn't hang up**.
Yang Lei once didn't call Li Jianhua very late, which made Li Jianhua feel worried, he didn't even dare to sleep, for fear of missing her ** and worrying about her emotions.
In Yang Lei's most difficult moments, we, as her friends, must give unconditional support.
Some friends couldn't be with them in person, so they sent messages to Yang Lei and said comforting words one after another, hoping that she would cheer up as soon as possible.
The next day, Yang Lei turned on her mobile phone and saw a message from a friend, which moved her. Despite the loss of her husband, she has a group of trusted friends around her who will not abandon her.
Yang Lei completely understood that she could not continue to sink, and she had to regain her strength.
Yang Lei has not been working for 10 years, since her divorce in 2004. Despite her talent, it is quite difficult to return to the entertainment industry in the context of the rapid change of the Internet era.
Yang Lei's friends were willing to lend a helping hand to help her reintegrate into the work environment and recommended job opportunities to her. However, Yang Lei no longer sees work as the focus of her life, she believes that as long as she earns the money she needs to support herself, she can use the rest of her time to do what she loves.
Whenever there is work, Yang Lei will devote herself to it;When she's not working, she's actively looking for new experiences and learning skills.
Although Yang Lei is now middle-aged, she has a very positive attitude, loves challenges, and has an excellent ability to learn. She loves to hang out with friends and fill her time.
Yang Lei once experienced a failed marriage, which made her lose faith in love. She is advised to find love again, while her parents are worried about her future.
Yang Lei refuses to remarry and has no children, but she doesn't think she will die alone because of this.
As Yang Lei gets older, she can use her financial resources to hire a caregiver or choose to live in a nursing home, where she will have a partner with her, and she will not have to worry about no one to care for her in the future.
When her parents saw that Yang Lei insisted on her ideas, they stopped persuading her. They believe that as long as their daughters are happy and happy, they are already satisfied as parents, after all, they already have everything.
After many years, Yang Lei finally completely overcame the psychological shadow. When she met Dai Zhicheng again, she was able to greet him calmly. Her friends were amazed to see this, and she said lightly: "Everything is a thing of the past." ”
No matter how much damage Dai Zhicheng caused to Yang Lei, those are in the past, and he is now living a happy life with his beloved, satisfied.
In 2004, after Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei divorced, Yuan Yin also decided to include divorce in the schedule and asked Hou Yaowen for divorce.
Hou Yaowen thinks that his performance is not good enough, and hopes to try his best to make up for the regrets of his wife and daughter. Yuan Yin was firm about divorce, and he had no choice but to comply.
It wasn't until later that Hou Yaowen found out that his wife had been unfaithful to him for a long time, but he didn't blame them, but declared that the divorce was due to other reasons.
Dai Zhicheng couldn't wait to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with Yuan Yin to get the certificate, because they had not been divorced for a long time. After Li Jindou learned the news, he went to persuade him, but he couldn't bear to let Dai Zhicheng hurt Yang Lei. He asked, "Yuan Yin is our aunt, do you really want to do this?"”
The decision to insist on marrying Yuan Yin as his wife made Dai Zhicheng boycotted in the cross talk circle, and many people around him were alienated from him, but Yuan Yin was the only one who always stayed by his side.
Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin originally thought that getting married was a happy thing, but because of the impact on his work, the two did not feel happy. Yuan Yin has been living as a housewife without any income, and the responsibility of supporting the whole family falls on Dai Zhicheng's shoulders alone.
Dai Zhicheng was forced to take on various commercial performances to make money, but due to his boycott, there were not many opportunities to cooperate with him. Yuan Yin has been encouraging him and believes that he will get better.
Jiang Kun's partner saw that Dai Zhicheng was so down, so he reached out to help, and his work status improved.
Yuan Yin took a few plays to reduce the burden on the family, but Dai Zhicheng said that he didn't need her to make money, and hoped that she would enjoy Qingfu with her daughter at home, and he would find a way to solve it.
Whether living with Hou Yaowen or Dai Zhicheng, Yuan Yin is pampered like a princess. Especially Dai Zhicheng, he takes great care of her, because his wife is not so easy to get.
Yuan Yin does what she says at home, and Dai Zhicheng can only be obedient and obedient. As long as his wife is in a good mood, he is also satisfied. Therefore, the two have been living happily ever after marriage.
When performing outside, Dai Zhicheng will tell Yuan Yin about his itinerary, and will inform the surrounding staff that if his sister-in-law calls, he must tell me.
The organizers would invite them to dinner, and after the performance, Tai would try to avoid it because his wife and children were waiting for him at home.
Yuan Yin basically doesn't do anything at home, Chengzhi Dai cooks for her, washes clothes, etc., he is a qualified "family cook".
Yuan Yin's relationship with Dai Zhicheng was not established through normal channels, and given Yang Lei's reputation, she could be blamed by others.
Yuan Yin used to be pointed at by others on the street, which made her feel very aggrieved. However, she did not disclose the incident to Dai Zhicheng after returning home.
Yuan Yin's pain, but Dai Zhicheng, as her close person, how could she not understand. He wants the outside world to point the finger at himself, not a woman.
Dai Zhicheng always stood in front of Yuan Yin and would never allow her to be hurt in any way, which made Yuan Yin very moved.
Yuan Yin sometimes prepares surprises for Dai Zhicheng at home, she knows that he has experienced a lot of injustice outside, but he will always be the head of the family at home.
Dai Zhicheng is pleasantly surprised by Yuan Yin every time, which makes him love her even more deeply, and he is more determined to be good to her and never do anything sorry for her. Their lives are low-key, but they are unusually happy.
Because of the delay in work, Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei have not been able to have a biological child of their own after they got married. Yuan Yin was eager to give birth to a child for Dai Zhicheng, but unexpectedly was refused.
Dai Zhicheng also has a soft spot for children, but he already has a stepdaughter, Niuniu, and feels that is enough. He worries that if he has another child, Niuniu will feel that the family does not need her.
Since the moment he got married, Dai Zhicheng has cared for Niuniu like his own daughter.
At the beginning of living together as a family of three, Niuniu couldn't fully adapt to it. Although she had seen Uncle Dai Zhicheng before, she suddenly wanted to live with them, Niuniu felt a little at a loss, and she shouted loudly to find her father and mother.
Dai Zhicheng wanted to coax Niuniu, but he could only quietly let Yuan Yin take care of him. He patiently worked with his wife to understand Niu Niu's preferences and bought her a favorite toy.
Slowly, Niuniu began to accept Dai Zhicheng and was able to be alone with him. At some point, Niuniu directly called Dai Zhicheng her father, which made him very excited and hurriedly shared the good news with his wife.
Since then, Niuniu and Dai Zhicheng have gotten along like biological father and daughter. Moreover, Dai Zhicheng takes care of everything about Niuniu wholeheartedly.
Dai Zhicheng found the best school for Niuniu, and invited excellent teachers to tutor her during the holidays, and encouraged her to cultivate her hobbies.
Dai Zhicheng tried his best to satisfy Niuniu's liking, Yuan Yin blamed him for not being spoiled for children, and every time he claimed that he knew what he wanted.
Niuniu is a very sensible child, she knows the hard work of her parents, so she works hard to study hard and becomes a top student in the school, which makes Dai Zhicheng very proud. Every time the school holds a parent-teacher conference, she actively strives to participate, and even takes time out to participate in the performance.
When Niuniu grew up, she developed a strong interest in chasing stars, and Han Geng especially fascinated her. After learning of this situation, Dai Zhicheng did his best to help his daughter realize her dream of chasing stars.
Han Geng happened to be present, so Dai Zhicheng brought his stepdaughter to participate in the event, and also took a group photo with Han Geng, which made Niuniu like her stepfather even more.
Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin and Niuniu form a reconstituted family, but despite this, the family relationship between them makes them a happy family of three. In contrast, Dai Zhicheng's ex-wife Yang Lei was not so lucky.
Dai Zhicheng and Yang Lei have been divorced for 18 years, and he and Yuan Yin have been married for 18 years, and their family of three lives happily.
Although Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin did not get along in the right way, they were closely dependent on each other because they loved each other deeply. Even with stigma and even loss of moral code, they are determined to overcome many difficulties and come together.
Yang Lei suffered, enjoyed happiness with Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin, and had a well-behaved child.
Yang Lei thought that their marriage would last forever, even if she had no children, she and Dai Zhicheng were very happy together.
Dai Zhicheng suddenly changed her mind, which made Yang Lei feel unacceptable, she even gave up her job, she was not interested in anything, and she lost her illusions about love.
Yang Lei is close to 60 years old, is still single, and has not married or had children. Luckily, though, she learned to live independently and enjoy happiness even without love.
Dai Zhicheng married his aunt and became a stepfather for others, thus obtaining a happy family.
Love is not the whole of life, and it is not the only existence.
Dai Zhicheng