Hi guys, I'm Shanshan.
Saw a comment two days ago,People who are afraid of trouble will not have a good life in this life.
For me now, I really can't agree with it anymore.
But if this view had been put in the past, I would have scoffed:Isn't the fear of trouble the minimalism that I have always admired, minimalist and minimalist, how can life be more and more troublesome when life is simple?
After graduating, I began to live alone, and for the first time I felt that I finally had a small world that was completely my own, ready to "do a big job", but the reality slapped me in the face.
In the first month of living alone, I imagined that I had lived a self-disciplined and high-level life in a delicate vlog, but the reality was:
Because I felt that cooking was troublesome, I ordered takeout at a time, and in the end, there was not much left in the salary, and the number on the scale began to skyrocket;
It was too much trouble to dress up every day, so in less than a month my face was covered with pimples and pimples
Nice clothes?Don't don't, it's tired enough to go to work every day and you're still entangled in what to wear every day?So in the prime of my life, I returned to the pre-liberation period overnight and became rustic;
Clean up the house every day?Don't, I just want to have a good rest after work, so my nest starts to get untidy.
This kind of life that I minimized because I was afraid of getting into trouble did not bring me the happiness I wanted, but instead made my quality of life decline at a rate that was visible to the naked eye.
Murphy's Law says that the more you fear something, the more it will happen.
The same is true of trouble, and the fear of trouble will be even more troublesome.
I only thought about the brief, but I forgot that every little trouble in life can be an opportunity to achieve small happiness.
In the second month of living alone, I started to try to reach out to trouble:
When you're hungry, don't order takeout, try it yourself, it tastes good;
The clothes to be worn are not littered, but neatly folded, and the wardrobe is much cleaner;
The used things are put back in place in time, and the house, which is cleaned once a week, becomes much more spacious
Every time you change your clothes, you wash them off in time, so that you can choose your clothes every day
The most important thing is that I didn't give up buying things because the house was rented, and watching the house be decorated little by little, I felt satisfied and felt that I was really living.
Not afraid of trouble, choosing to go the extra mile seems to make my life better.
Cai Kangyong once said:
"When I was 15 years old, I thought it was difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming, and when I was 18 years old, I met someone you liked and asked you to go swimming, and you had to say I wouldn't;
At the age of 18, I find it difficult to speak English, and at the age of 28, there is a great job that requires you to know English, and you have to say that I can't.
The more troublesome you are in the early stage of life, the more lazy you are to study, and the more likely you are to miss the people and things that make you tempted, and miss the new scenery. â
Every time you want to bypass something that you don't want to learn that you don't think is necessary for trouble, turning your head will bring you more trouble and regret.
Therefore, if you are not afraid of trouble, you will have a life without trouble.
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