Have you ever thought that success comes first"Success"One-time.
The famous writer Slaying Dragon, in her book tells a story about using surfing to experience success.
She went on vacation to Hawaii and wanted to learn how to surf, so she drank so much sea water that she couldn't learn anything in an afternoon.
An old man saw that she was too pitiful, so he said to her: Do you see the lighthouse in the distance, when the waves reach the lighthouse, shout 123 in your heart, and jump up when you shout 3, and you can jump on the waves.
Then she looked at the waves, counted 123 in her heart, and sure enough, she jumped on the waves.
It was especially fun to stand on the waves, which were very smooth and slowly sent her to the beach.
With this experience, I found the feeling as soon as I went there.
Later, after the old man left, she continued to play later, although there were still times when she was photographed by the waves, but the feeling in her heart was obviously different.
Slaying Long himself realized that the so-called "lighthouse teaching method" is actually the essence of "timing". Using the lighthouse as a reference point, the old man helped him succeed at least once.
With this success, she found the "feeling of success" and the "feeling of learning Xi", and if she found the right feeling, she could sum up her experience.
A lot of knowledge and skills in the world can't be acquired by you just by working hard and hard. You have to do it right once to find his feelings.
I remember when I learned to swim Xi myself. Signed up for a 10-lesson swimming class.
In class, I carefully memorized the technical essentials taught by the coach, and used protective gear to practice Xi in the water according to the requirements. But I couldn't leave the protective gear, and as soon as I left, I felt that my whole body was sinking, and I felt very scared.
As a result, all the students in the class were free to swim, and I had to swim in the pool with protective gear.
At the time of the last class, the coach told me that this is the last class, and I won't be able to protect you next to you if you swim again, you must believe me this time, and follow the technical essentials I taught you, we will definitely learn, and the students next to me also cheered me up.
I was ruthless, anyway, the coach was next to me, I couldn't drown, just try, everyone else can learn, and I'm not stupid than others.
So, I took off the protective gear, and I didn't worry about it, so I followed the technical essentials of swimming, and as a result, my body still sank, I didn't panic, about a few seconds, it began to float up, and as soon as I pressed the water, my head floated out, and I could breathe.
At this moment, I experienced the feeling of being able to breathe in the water, and I learned to swim for many days.
Since then, I've been swimming better and faster.
Now in the water, you can really feel like a fish.
The reason why those who have been bosses, even if their business fails and their lives are difficult, are constantly looking for career opportunities and rarely looking for a company to work for is because they have experienced the feeling of freedom to control their own lives.
When I go to work, I can't realize how free it is to be a boss, especially after a period of making a lot of money, I don't want to live a life where I am constrained by others and have no freedom anymore.
As the old Chinese saying goes, if you are close to Zhu Zhechi, you will gradually become smarter if you follow a wise person.
I think it's the same thing behind this sentence.
If you follow a rich person, you must be able to experience the comfortable feeling brought by that kind of wealth, and build a feeling of "standing on the waves", once you have a feeling, you will pursue it.
If he also finds that the talents and qualifications of those rich people are not much better than his own, he will have more confidence to become rich people.
So, anything you want to do, such as learning Xi language, doing business, investing, doing research, or even doing your own account, you have to succeed once before you can really get started.
If you don't succeed once, no matter how many theories Xi you learn every day, you won't get started.
Okay, you don't particularly want to experience the feeling of "success" for yourself first
About the author: Rong Xinran, a former real estate planner, is now a self-**** person, and a reading blogger. Apply the idea of economic management to personal growth. Determined to break out of their own world in the field of content creation. Friends of the same way, you can find me.