Revisit "Why Sheng Xiaomo" to understand: Mo Sheng and Yichen missed 7 years, and they can still beStay togetherThe truthI watched the movie "Why Sheng Xiaomo" at least five times, and each experience brought me completely different feelings. When I first came into contact with this TV series, I was deeply impressed by the youthful energy and atmosphere that filled with it. This TV series, known as a classic, shows the yearning and expectation of many girls for love.
As the saying goes, it is difficult to find a character like He Yichen in reality, however, I think the appearance of Zhao Mosheng makes He Yichen even more unique. In the past, Zhao Mosheng took the initiative to pursue He Yichen, although this is generally easier than a man chasing a woman. But at that time, He Yichen was not only a representative of Gu Gao, but also an excellent example of both literary talent and handsome appearance, so he attracted many suitors.
However, a large part of the reason why He Yichen finally chose to accept Zhao Mosheng was because of Zhao Mosheng's personality and deep concern for him. This became a key factor in He Yichen's decision to accept her. However, a misunderstanding leads two people who are deeply in love to finally separate, and it takes great tolerance to resolve it. Zhao Mosheng went to the United States, and this long journey lasted seven years.
Seven years is undoubtedly a huge test for this period when it was just the first love at first. If it weren't for genuine love, their relationship could well have become very complicated. Seven years later, Zhao Mosheng returned to China, and He Yichen saw with just one look that Zhao Mosheng was irreplaceable in his heart.
In "Why Yi Sheng Xiao Mo", through the interaction between Yi Chen and Mo Sheng after marriage, the essence of the deep relationship between them is more profound. Perhaps it is Zhao Mosheng's frankness and He Yichen's concern that constitute the key elements of this deep emotion.
Although He Yichen and Zhao Mosheng have not seen each other for seven years, when the relationship between the two has not completely returned to its previous state, He Yichen did not hesitate to choose to receive a marriage certificate with Zhao Mosheng, which is quite confusing. Observing this episode, we may be able to perceive why Yichen is unwilling to lose Mo Sheng again, so marriage has become the best guarantee to strengthen their relationship.
Recalling the scene when he first entered the marriage hall, He Yichen often traveled on business because of his busy work, and his parents were often on the go, so they rarely went home to visit him. When the adoptive parents arrived, He Yichen never considered letting Mo Sheng meet them, which could be a challenging issue for any wife.
Although Zhao Mosheng has just stepped into the palace of marriage, the relationship between the two has not quickly returned to its original state, which makes her heart full of uneasiness and worry. Zhao Mosheng had originally arranged to have dinner with Yichen's adoptive parents, however, Chen first spent dinner with his adoptive parents and did not invite Zhao Mosheng to sit at the same table, adding a subtle atmosphere to the whole situation.
Zhao Mosheng had a deep concern in her heart, and she began to wonder if Yichen regretted the marriage, because she felt that he never really saw her as his wife. It became a crucial love in her life, however, she didn't hide these inner doubts. Instead, when Yichen returned, she chose to have a frank conversation with him.
Soon after, Yichen gave Zhao Mosheng some answers. He invited his colleagues from the company back to his home and explained something to Mo Sheng. The exchange did not meet Mo Sheng's expectations, nor did he Yichen want his close people to know about their connections. At the same time, Yichen made it clear that he had no regrets about his marriage to Zhao Mosheng.
It was precisely because of Zhao Mosheng's frankness that her doubts were resolved, and He Yichen also expressed his thoughts frankly. If Mo Sheng chooses not to reveal his true thoughts, then He Yichen may not have been aware of this, which could lead to a misunderstanding between the two.
Zhao Mosheng went to Hong Kong for an interview during the development of the plot and unexpectedly met her nominal ex-husband Ying Hui. Mo Sheng not only firmly rejected Ying Hui's proposal, but also quickly called Yichen ** and told him the truth of the matter.
Perhaps, many people think that Zhao Mosheng does not actually need to act frequently. Because of her frankness and Ho Yichen's concern, the relationship was able to avoid suspicion, thus bringing the two closer together.
Zhao Mosheng had some subtle dissatisfaction with He Yichen in his heart, but his love for her was an indescribable feeling. She is an elusive woman, and in her opinion, He Yichen does not seem to fully understand her. Despite this, she knew that only by expressing her opinions sincerely could she avoid misunderstandings, which made the relationship between the two grow deeper.
In the movie "Wonderful Sayings", Yang Mi once expounded a point of view: extreme honesty and frankness are like an invincible force. In the context of Mo Sheng and Yi Chen, this sentence is appropriate. The most rapid untangling of strangeness and knots between them is actually the frankness and concern for each other.
It is precisely because Mo Sheng and Yichen successfully achieved this goal that the relationship between them was able to recover quickly. In this process, giving the other person the deepest sense of security is actually to ensure that they have full trust in each other.
Zhao Mosheng once had a superficial marital relationship, which made He Yichen have a deep misunderstanding of her. However, when he decides to choose to be with Mo Sheng, he gradually builds up a deep trust in her. Mo Sheng once considered confessing the past to He Yichen, but He Yichen resolutely refused. Because for him, true trust means choosing to accept a person, believing in her without reservation, because the past experience is in the past, and the present is what is worth cherishing.
Therefore, when Zhao Mosheng decided to confess her experience in the United States to He Yichen, He Yichen expressed his concern, saying that he did not want Mosheng's past to have a negative impact on their current situation. Even though he knew that he had gone mad with jealousy, he made the decision to trust and was determined to trust her.
Unreserved trust is not only a demonstration of love, but also a confirmation of oneself and one's marriage on a deeper level. Zhao Mosheng and He Yichen experienced a long seven-year separation, and finally chose to come together after these seven years. They are both highly responsible people who know each other's needs, which is enough to confirm their trust in each other.
In the process of transforming a relationship into a marriage, trust becomes a key element in the stability of the relationship. Mo Sheng's trust in Yi Chen, and Yi Chen's deep trust in Mo Sheng, is exactly what makes the relationship quickly repaired after a misunderstanding.
In real life, many marriages break down because of mutual distrust. When the other party's behavior raises doubts, you need to reflect on whether you are deceiving the other party. Being suspicious of someone else's behavior does not show concern for them, on the contrary, it can make them feel uncomfortable. When relationships become delicate, it's important to build trust. The relationship between Mo Sheng and Yichen has returned to the way it was when they were in love, thanks to the deep trust between them.
Showing respect to others is actually an acknowledgment of yourself and a particular relationship.
Mo Sheng had spent seven years abroad, and He Yichen couldn't help but be curious about what she had experienced during this time. For Mo Sheng, her parents' expectations for her are extremely high. Although He Chen trusted Mo Sheng, he respected her more deeply, so he chose to be cautious and decided not to take the initiative to inquire about the experience of the past seven years.
When he first entered the marriage hall, He Yichen knew the true desire of his heart. He is a narcissistic man who is obsessed with Mo Sheng's smile. The seven-year separation made him more aware of the preciousness of Mo Sheng in his heart.
However, what has always puzzled me is why the two chose to rest separately at the beginning of their marriageIs it because they are silently liking each other?Obviously, why does Yichen care so deeply for Zhao Mosheng, why did he make such a decision?Perhaps Mo Sheng also wondered if Chen had other concerns
As time went on, I began to understand the meaning of this. Perhaps He Yichen's original intention was to make the relationship between the two more harmonious, so he chose to spend the night alone first. The purpose of this is to get to know each other on a deeper level so that they can fully accept each other and thus eliminate any misunderstandings that may exist.
When you love someone deeply, I expect you, like me, to be able to give love without hesitation and let the relationship develop naturally. In this process, we should learn to appreciate each other's strengths, and at the same time, we will find many shortcomings that need to make up for each other. But in the early stages of a relationship, giving the other person respect is actually the best recognition of yourself and the relationship as a whole.
When you decide to respect others, many aspects of your life will naturally change. And when you choose not to care for others, you will also usher in a series of spontaneous events. In interpersonal relationships, imposition can only lead to gradual estrangement between people, while natural expressions of love may lead to deeper feelings.
Looking back on "Why Sheng Xiaomo" many times, it is unbelievable to find that there are two souls so affectionate in this world. They are all unique individuals, gentle and introverted on the outside, but strong on the inside. However, after in-depth observation, I gradually realized that the deep affection between them is not just satisfied with love, but is more rooted in their unique personalities and tacit ways of getting along.