In this world, there are many factors that we cannot choose, such as height, build, skin color, family status, and so on. However, true parenting and emotional intelligence allow us to look beyond these superficial differences and see everyone with a broader mind.
In front of short people, we should not measure their value by their height. Just like flowers in nature, they are different in height and thickness, but they all have their own beauty and uniqueness. We should use an appreciative eye to discover their talents and virtues. Perhaps, it is precisely because they are more resilient and harder in chasing their dreams that their achievements are more dazzling.
In front of fat people, we should not judge their value by their figure. Everyone will have their own body shape and physical characteristics, just like animals in nature, big and small, fat and thin, but they can still coexist harmoniously in this land. We should use a warm gaze to discover the brilliance of their hearts, their ingenuity and their kind hearts. Perhaps, it is precisely because they are able to face the world with confidence and bravely show their talents that their personalities are even more charming.
In front of people with dark skin tones, we should not talk about whether there is a difference between good and bad skin tones. Just like the soil in nature, there are yellow, white, and black differences, but they are equally suitable for plant growth. We should treat everyone's abilities and contributions as equals. Perhaps it is precisely because they have gone through the baptism of wind and rain and experienced many difficulties and challenges that their resilience and perseverance are stronger than others.
We should not judge people whose parents are divorced about their family status. Like the solitary beauty of nature, they may not be accompanied by their parents, but they can also grow into strong individuals. We should understand their difficulties and struggles with a caring eye, and give them warmth and support. Perhaps it is because they have experienced the changes in their families and endured many growing pains that their resilience is stronger than others.
In front of girls, we should not open our mouths, no matter when and where. Just like flowers in nature, with delicate fragrance and delicate posture, they carry the beauty and mystery of life. We should treat them with respect and give them equal dignity and rights. Perhaps it is because they have experienced countless difficulties and obstacles on the road to chasing their dreams that their strength and wisdom are stronger than others.
In this complex world, parenting and emotional intelligence can be the cornerstones of how we relate to others. We should not judge others arbitrarily, because this will only reduce our own cultivation and level. We should listen, tolerate and understand more, and accept everyone with a broad heart. Only in this way can we truly appreciate the beauty of interpersonal relationships and feel the sincerity and warmth between each other.