Looking at the contemporary post-90s, according to common sense, they have reached the age of starting a family early, but the children of a group of relatives and friends around them have not seen any movement for a long time, and their parents communicate privately, and they probably have the same thoughts and positions: marriage is not considered for the time being, living a good life, not being burdened by the family, and not reducing the current quality of life is the most important.
I also had this question with them, and they asked me: What does marriage bring you?What can marriage bring me at the moment?Marriage for the sake of marriage, for the sake of procreation, they will not do it, they will not settle for marriage, and they will not give up marriage easily, which is one of the reasons for the delay in entering marriage.
As their parents, we belong to the 70s and are educated, but the concept of marriage and childbearing in our bones still exists, but after a dialogue, we can not even exclude their views. Looking at Asian countries, the divorce rate is currently quite high in the world, and the reason for this is that marriage is not just based on feelings, but only to complete a certain task that everyone is completing at a certain age, so it leads to a lot of backing after marriage, and ending unhappy marriages under the impetus of continuous development and progress of society.
What do we gain from marriage?To borrow the children's questions, I am honest, can I say that I am happy after marriage?Not necessarily!Some are just a lifetime of hard work, for the children, for the family, for the responsibility, for the eyes of others. The pattern of a chicken-and-dog life and a family-like model made me think that this is life for a while.
Therefore, the contemporary post-90s generation is temporarily unmarried and infertile: I think it is the progress of the times and a necessary process of social development, which allows us to treat marriage and life more rationally and responsibly.