Many people's so-called maturity is nothing more than being rubbed off by customs, becoming sophisticated and practical. It is not maturity, but the premature aging of the spirit and the premature death of the individual.
You don't have to prove anything to anyone, including yourself.
Because there have been peaks, troughs have also been passed, and then there are cycles, and there are higher and lower. I am not afraid, I am not panicked, I really understand this sentence Life is a journey
No more trying to prove, not trying to explain, learning to control emotions and desires, learning to manage time and money, studying hard, and improving every day;Be tolerant and know how to make trade-offs, and choose the good and follow the friendship of gentlemen.
In order to live for himself, he gradually had the ability to love, slowly knew how to be grateful, and began to take the initiativeThose who once put themselves in an extremely embarrassing and unbearable situation turned out to be the so-called "face".
Spending the rest of my life with someone who loves me and I love at the same time is actually just a luxury, no longer talking about ideals, no longer setting goals, can't stay up late, can't drink;Secluded place, drinking tea, chatting, three or five friends are difficult to gather, like-minded people, one or two people are enough.
The rest of my life is not long, and I take pity on the people in front of me;Dreams are far away, and peace of mind is home.
Don't put your thoughts on others, get old and pay attention to others, you will be tired. Keep your eyes on your own heart, only pay attention to your own little progress, and no matter how others change, I will not move.
He is strong, he is strong, and the breeze blows on the hills.
Gradually accept the reality that everyone is born alone. Rather than being in a group, I prefer to do what I want to do quietly, have my own plan and follow my own path, have my own entertainment, and have my own space. No longer expect to find a like-minded person, used to being alone to face everything.
I like a passage from "The Guillotine Queen":
She was young.
Unknown all the gifts that fate has to offer.
It has already been secretly marked**.
When you get something, you always have to give something.
The world is really a difficult place, and it is not a good thing to say that a person is "unsophisticated", but it is not a good word to say that he is "deep in the world".
I don't think there is anyone in this world who wants to bow to their fate, but they have to bow their heads.
The definition of maturity is so difficult that there is no standard to measure it.
There is a maturity called: giving up on dreams.
Because in the adult world, there may not even be one percent of those who can fulfill their dreams. So the vast majority of people will give up chasing their dreams.
True maturity is the step-by-step experience of accomplishing your dreams.
Understand the law of the social jungle, still be able to maintain the original intention of kindness, practice a strong heart and coping ability, develop yourself well, and help those in need!
If, when the six gods are gone, you are calm and composed, and not the crowd;
If you are suspicious and suspicious, you can be confident and not argue in vain;
If you have a dream, you don't lose yourself;
If you have a mind, you won't go crazy.