Chen Shu successfully won the Magnolia Award and the Huading Award for the role of "Iron Pear Flower" in the 2010 TV series "Iron Pear Flower", and became the focus in one fell swoop.
Become a household name star in the entertainment industry.
However, at the peak of his career, Chen Shu chose to get married.
He was a divorced man with the responsibilities of a single father, and he became my hair knot.
After Chen Shu got married, she treated her stepson as if she were her own son, and she was willing to be called an aunt by her stepson.
For the sake of his stepson, Chen Shu has never planned to have his own children in the ten years of marriage.
Chen Shu's original name was given by her grandparents, who taught in Hubei.
She was born in 1977 into an artistic family in Hubei Province.
Li Keli's mother was a flute and piano player, while his father, Chen Zongshan, was a well-known local dancer.
Under the influence of his father, Chen Shu developed a strong interest in dance from an early age.
At the age of 11, Chen Shu entered the High School Affiliated to Beijing Dance Academy and began to receive professional dance training.
After graduating, Chen Shu joined the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe and began her career as a dancer.
Chen Shu won the favor of the teachers of the dance troupe with his solid dance skills.
Chen Shu participated in the ** drama "** Voice" in 1998.
After the performance, Chen Shu became interested in the performance.
Chen Shu has been a member of the song and dance troupe for 7 years, and in another year, she will be able to get a house south of Chaoyang Park in Beijing.
At that time, Chen Shu had a keen heart to learn to Xi acting, so he gave up his house in Beijing.
She added: "When I earn enough money, I'll buy a house." ”
Be sure to buy a bigger and better one.
After graduating from Chinese opera in 2001, Chen Shu participated in the first TV series "Traveler's Story" in her life, thus officially stepping into the entertainment industry.
Since then, Chen Shu has presented many classic roles to the audience with his excellent acting skills.
Like the amorous "master of communication" in "New Shanghai Beach", the elegant and intellectual "cheongsam queen" in "Love in a Fallen City", and the "female husband" in "Iron Pear Flower", the character and temperament of each character are vividly portrayed.
With his works, Chen Shu has also won a number of awards.
He is a model of acting strength in the entertainment industry.
At the peak of her career, she chose to get married, although it was smooth sailing.
Chen Shu participated in the TV series "Acacia Tree" directed by Sun Zhou in 2007.
At the celebration banquet at the end of filming, the actors and crew sat around and talked freely.
Sun Zhou suddenly asked if Chen Shu was single.
Chen Shu hesitated a little at first, and then replied truthfully: "Yes, I am single. ”
Sun Zhou heard that they planned to introduce him to someone and let them meet and get to know him.
Sun Zhou and pianist Zhao Yinyin have been close friends for many years.
felt pity and thought that his friend was now alone, so he came up with the idea of introducing Chen Shu to her.
Under Sun Zhou's recommendation, Chen Shu got acquainted with Zhao Yinyin.
They fell in love shortly after they met.
When Zhao Yinyin first met, he introduced his family background to each other.
His occupation, family members, and family situation, etc.
Chen Shu had already learned that Zhao Yinyin had a marriage experience.
He also has a 5-year-old son named "Elephant".
The first time Chen Shu saw the "elephant" was when she went to Zhao Yinyin's house.
When the elephant heard the sound of his father's car, he came out to greet him on flip-flops, and when he saw Chen Shu, he politely shouted "Hello Auntie", and then turned around and ran into the house.
After entering the room, Chen Shu took the Lego toys she bought and went to play with the elephants.
Out of a friendly attitude, Chen Shu believes that he needs to integrate into the life of his children.
Try to get along with your child in a way that he likes.
You can try some activities that he is interested in, because Chen Shu is not familiar with some activities. Sometimes, the "elephant" would jokingly tease Chen Shu, such as "you are so stupid".
Chen Shu looked at the elephant and felt that he had had enough, so he said, "Let's go and see Dad play the piano, okay?"”
The two walked into the piano room, and because the child was short, Chen Shu squatted down and picked up the elephant.
The elephant naturally sat on Chen Shu's lap.
His behavior of being so close to Chen Shu shows that he likes Chen Shu very much, which fully demonstrates the simplicity and innocence of the child's mind.
When they first met, the atmosphere was also very harmonious.
Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin completed their marriage registration in 2011.
On the day they received their marriage certificates, the father-in-law and mother-in-law suggested that the elephant call Chen Shu "Mommy" instead.
The elephant lowered its head, looked at Chen Shu with palpitations, and called out "Mom" softly, feeling happy when he heard the elephant's name at first, but when he saw the elephant's true appearance, his mood began to change.
He bent down, stroked the elephant's head and said, "It's okay, you can call me 'Aunt Chen Shu' in the future." ”
In Chen's view, this approach is more natural and equal.
Chen Shu once held a birthday party for the elephant at home.
The elephant invited his good friends and classmates to his home.
At the birthday party, the elephant tasted birthday noodles and birthday cake, and a group of children sat around and played games, which was very joyful.
Some parents soon came to pick up their children and take them home.
One of the parents came early, and Chen Shu shared a birthday cake with him.
Maybe that parent didn't know who Chen Shu was.
He looked at Chen Shu and suddenly asked, "Are you an elephant?"”
Chen Shu felt a little caught off guard by the parent's question, she didn't expect someone to ask such a question.
She was at a loss as to how to introduce her identity.
After a few seconds, she thought and said, "I'm the elephant's aunt." ”
He usually calls me "Aunt Chen Shu".
Chen Shu later told her husband Zhao Yinyin about the incident.
Compared with Chen Shu at a loss, Zhao Yinyin said to her without hesitation, you should tell that parent your identity bluntly at that time.
You can say, "You're the new mother of the elephant."
Chen Shu believes that the term "mother" may have a special meaning for elephants.
Although Chen Shu and the elephant's father have already gone through the marriage formalities and are legally the elephant's mother, it is understandable that the elephant calls her "mother".
Chen Shu didn't want to embarrass the elephant, so she agreed to let him call herself Auntie.
She also never prevents the elephant from meeting her own mother's mother.
For many years, Chen Shu has been calling herself "Aunt Chen Shu".
Send blessings to the elephants on the public platform, calling them "Aunt Chen Shu who loves you".
Choose to respect the wishes of the elephants.
Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin decided to hold their wedding in Bali in September 2010.
Before leaving, Chen Shu hugged the elephant and said, "In the days to come, we will live together, and I will marry your father." ”
This sentence was said by Chen Shu to the elephant, and also to himself.
She understands the meaning of unconditional love in elephants.
Chen Shu deeply felt that the feeling of this kind of beautiful feedback to himself was so strong.
Chen Shu married Zhao Yinyin, accepted his stepson Elephant, and the family lived together in harmony and happiness.
For her, it's a vow and a commitment.
From the beginning of accepting Chen Shu's family, she realized that she would have to love this child for a long time, and it would be a long process to raise and educate him.
After Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin became husband and wife, Chen Shu also took on the responsibility of teaching and guiding elephants.
Occasionally, when the elephant makes a mistake, Zhao Yinyin will get angry on the spot and reprimand his son.
It was originally out of kindness to the child, but it was overly drastic.
What follows will make her forget to have a heart to heart with her son.
At this time, Chen Shu would stand up to remind him and pull him aside to talk to him.
If you have something to do, go enjoy a meal with your friends.
I'm not going to eat with you, I'm going to simply prepare a little food at home with the elephants.
After Zhao Yinyin left, Chen Shu would go to the kitchen to prepare dinner.
Chen Shu plays games with the elephants or sits on the couch and watches TV, which is her routine after eating.
When the two talk, they will inadvertently involve things that their father has previously reprimanded or criticized him.
Shu believes in the importance of communication, so she communicates with elephants.
The father rebuked or criticized him not out of unlove, but out of kindness to him.
Teach these teachings to the elephants and enlighten them.
At this time, Chen Shu often feels like a female ** in a spy war drama, and needs to learn to observe others, gain insight into words and deeds, and seize opportunities.
Because the child will eventually grow up**, he is already a big child.
Maybe you're in a more sensitive stage of growth and might be more thoughtful.
Chen Shu often accompanies the child to watch cartoons or play games with him at this time.
Chen Shu found that the children's mood became happier when they were on TV or playing games.
When you are willing to speak spontaneously, you will be able to naturally lead to the topic you want to discuss through the conversation.
This makes it easier to communicate with your child.
Chen Shu treats elephants with sincerity and cares for them.
The elephant will feel Chen Shu's "love" for himself, so he will be willing to get close to Chen Shu.
In a program, Chen Shu once shared some stories of her life with elephants.
She was touched for a long time by a gentle hug from an elephant, and people from Chen Shu's company came to look for her, so they went to Chen Shu's house and talked to her in the living room.
The elephant was eating on the other side, and Chen Shu was also aware of this, but he didn't pay too much attention to it.
Chen Shu was talking to someone from the company when the elephant suddenly approached her back.
Chen Shu, who was sitting on the sofa, suddenly felt a wave of startle because the elephant suddenly hugged her from behind.
Ask if the elephant is experiencing any problems or needs.
The elephant kept holding her, refused to let go, and said a few words: "It's okay, it's just that I'm done eating." ”
Okay, Auntie wants to talk to this sister about something, you go to do your homework first. Chen Shu said.
After hearing this, the elephant obediently returned to his room and began to do his homework.
That night, Chen Shu told her husband about the incident and expressed his wonder why the elephant suddenly hugged her.
Zhao Yinyin said: "The child may be expressing emotions, which shows that he likes you and is willing to be close to you, which also shows that he trusts you."
Zhao Yinyin's words made Chen Shu feel a small hug from the elephant, and they hoped to show Chen Shu their closeness to her through the child's sincere reaction.
To like is to like, not to like is not to like, there is nothing ambiguous.
The reason why the elephant was able to take the initiative to hug Chen Shu shows that it accepts Chen Shu from the bottom of its heart and is full of trust in Chen Shu.
Since Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin got married in 2011, Chen Shu has not been able to become a mother as he wished.
After everyone initially mistakenly thought that Chen Shu was "Dink", Chen Shu later said on the show that the reason why she no longer had children was because she had a stepson, Elephant.
Once, Chen Shu participated in the "Reader" program hosted by Dong Qing.
When Chen Shu was asked by Dong Qing on the show which article she wanted to read aloud in reverse reading, she replied that she wanted to read Liu Yu's "A Man Should Be Like a Team", and she planned to read this article to her son "Elephant" at home.
The elephant's body made Chen Shu understand what unconditional love is.
When talking about the matter between himself and the elephant, Chen Shu was also choked up with excitement.
Dong Qing asked Chen Shu as a mother on the show: "Will you still consider having your own child?"”
Dong Qing's question was unexpected by Chen Shu.
Chen Shu was stunned for a few seconds, then turned his head slightly, tears flashed in his eyes, and the corners of his mouth twitched slightly.
It is enough to show our love, as long as we are genuinely good to him.
This is equivalent to indirectly admitting that he will not have any more children.
In Chen Shu's concept, if you love Zhao Yinyin, it means accepting everything from him and becoming husband and wife.
Not only to like him as an individual, but also to like his family.
Although "Elephant" is her stepson, Chen Shu loves him like his own son.
In order to take care of his stepson, Chen Shu chose to give up the opportunity to have his own biological child.
Many people were moved to tears by the phrase "just love him well".
Although Chen Shu has no biological children of her own, she gradually infiltrates the elephant's heart with her love.
*Often** Chen Shu and his stepson elephant holding hands at the airport.
The two walked side by side, talking and laughing, and it seemed that their relationship was very harmonious.
In 2021, a family photo** was posted on social platforms, showing a couple and their children.
Zhao Yinyin sat on the chair, and Chen Shu stood behind her in a red dress.
Chen Shu held his stepson's elephant's shoulder with one hand, and his husband's shoulder with the other, while his stepson, elephant, squatted beside his father.
As they grow older, they also develop to look similar to their fathers.
The scene of a family of three reuniting gives people a sense of happiness and contentment.
As an actor, in his career, Chen Shu has become a representative of the entertainment industry with his excellent appearance and strength.
Chen Shu can be called "China's good stepmother" in the family.
Some people say that "it is difficult to be a stepmother", but Chen Shu's way of treating his stepson can be described as "a good stepmother in China".
Because I love my husband so much, I choose to tolerate and accept everything about him.
For the sake of her "stepson" Chen Shu, she gave up giving birth to her own child.
Chen Shu was already his mother, from the moment he accepted the child.
Chen Shu emotionally emotionalized his "stepson" with love, although the two were not related by blood, they were as close as their biological mother and son.
I hope that Chen Shu's career will flourish and the whole family will live a happier and happier life.
Chen Shu