The movie "She Who Disappeared" makes people regret what happened to Li Muzi, and the Wang You family in the last century also had a similar experience. Although it is different from Li Muzi's experience, the comparison between the two can still cause people to reflect deeply on social reality. When Wang Youjia died, no one collected her body, leaving only a sentence "You turned out to be this fate", her life's love, hatred, hatred and despondency, why did she show her dissatisfaction with the world?At the age of 20, Wang Youjia, who had just graduated from the University of Wisconsin in the United States, got engaged. Although they didn't know much about their fiancés, they still made a hasty marriage. At a gathering in Tianjin, she got acquainted with Luo Longji, who had unique insights, and these were areas that she had not been involved in, which attracted her attention.
In the context of a decadent society, the Wang You family is eager to display their talents, but they feel bound and unable to vent. Luo Longji's words touched the softest place in her heart and brought a breakthrough in her life. She resolutely canceled the marriage contract, lived with the married Luo Longji, and chose to live more wantonly. Although it was different from Li Muzi's experience, Wang Youjia eventually lost to himself and the world. Luo Longji successfully divorced after negotiation with his wife, and became a legal husband and wife with Wang Youjia. But they break with conventional wisdom and promise each other freedom from family status. At first, they were very affectionate, but the good times did not last long. Luo Longji came home later and later, became more and more impatient, and lost interest in feelings.
Although Wang Youjia knew that her husband was very attractive outside and did not blame him too much, the indulgence again and again made Luo Longji lawless. Once, a friend of Wang You's family came to her for a love letter to Luo Longji, but Wang Youjia found that there was a divorce letter among them. She found an astonishing number of letters exchanged with her friend Yang Yunhui in Luo Longji's drawer, and Luo Longji seemed to have deep affection for Yang Yunhui, and even promised to marry her after the divorce. These words pierced Wang Youjia's heart like nails, and she was overwhelmed with grief and left home. She went to India and England successively, and finally completed the divorce procedures with Luo Longji after the victory of the Anti-Japanese War. The Wang family has become very cautious after a failed marriage, but there are still some bosses who like her, including Tang Jishan, a tea merchant.
She obeyed her heart and became Tang Jishan's fifth wife, although the world ridiculed her at the time for "marrying the eldest to be a merchant woman". Home was thought to be a place where people could feel at ease, but it was not easy to find such a place. History always repeats itself, and after Tang Jishan's family moved to Taiwan, they began to love each other, but the test of time did not make this relationship deeper. Tang Jishan is very busy and needs to do business outside, so she has little time to spend with her family, and the sense of alienation between husband and wife gradually deepens. When Tang Jishan's relationship with the local hotel girl was learned by Wang You's family, her reaction was extremely fierce, but Tang Jishan's response was more like a mockery, mocking Wang You's family's failed marriage. Tang Jishan left, leaving the home she thought she was. But Wang You's family still needs to survive.
She tried to start her own business, and Hong Kong seemed to be the best option, but due to financial constraints, she could only do small business, earn a small income, and often had to live a barely subsistence life. She tried to expand her production and find a partner, but due to her lack of experience, she ran into **, eventually lost all her possessions, and even tragically died on the street in 1967, and no one took her body. Wang Youjia is brave, she pursues her love and jumps out of the shackles of the world. But she is also weak, encounters difficulties and failures, and always chooses to escape. Doing so brought her only the fate of going from one failure to another. Maybe it's her bad luck, maybe it's ill-fated, but it all seems to be just an illusory dream, and she doesn't know when she'll wake up.
She once ignored the importance of loving herself on the way to pursue love. If she can put her feelings and needs first, then what the outside world thinks of her is less important. If she can't even love herself, how can she ask others to love her?She put her position so low, should she expect others to hold her in the palm of her hand?