Author: Wen Qiusheng.
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated.
A parent's love for their children is the most selfless and deepest.
No matter how old the children are, they are still worried about them all the time and want to share the burden for them.
In fact, parents' excessive love and protection for their children is sometimes a burden to their children and is not beneficial to their own lives.
When getting along with their children, parents should grasp the degree of giving. When the time is right, choose to let go and let them face their lives alone.
No matter how much you love your children, you can't do the following things, don't be exhausted of blessings
Once when I went to visit a relative, I saw my relative's son, who was in his twenties, lying on the sofa and playing with his mobile phone.
When he was thirsty, he called his mother to pour him waterI wanted to eat snacks, so I instructed my mother to go downstairs to buy themEven the fruit had to be peeled by his mother and handed to him.
While eating, the son glanced at the table, there was nothing he liked to eat, and lay back on the sofa.
His mother, afraid of starving him, hurried to ask him what he wanted to eat. The son said that he wanted to eat a hamburger, and the mother herself was hungry and went to buy him a hamburger.
The son has become Xi to his parents' efforts for himself, and has never considered his parents' hard work, nor has he thought about how to repay his parents.
No matter how much you love your children, don't spoil them too much, and don't overly accommodate all your children's requirements.
The bottomless doting and maintenance of parents makes their children only ask and do not know how to be grateful.
When children are Xi to being cared for, they will take it for granted that their parents give everything for themselves.
Parents spoil their children excessively, which not only makes them unable to stand on their own feet, but also increases their own pressure and burden.
As a parent, you will grow old one day. If, one day, when they are old and unable to meet their children's requirements, their children will not know how to deal with themselves. And in his old age, he will also become troubled.
In the process of their children's growth, parents should not blindly tolerate their children's mistakes, but should establish a correct view of right and wrong for their children from an early age.
I've seen such a paragraph**, and I remember it deeply, and I said:
A little boy gets into a fight with the other children and gets scratched in the face.
After the parents found out, they brought their family members to the door to fight, vowing to seek justice for their children and not let their children be wronged.
Parents' behavior forms an inherent impression on children, causing children to only use fights to solve problems when they encounter them.
When children become adults, they often get into trouble and like to use violence to solve problems. Later, because of picking quarrels and provoking trouble, the circumstances were serious, and he brought trouble for himself and was imprisoned.
Jenny Arim said: "It is not terrible for a child to have shortcomings, but it is terrible that the parents, who are the leaders of the child's life, lack the correct concept of home education and the method of teaching their children. ”When a child does something wrong, make sure he realizes his mistake and at the same time, make him pay for his actions.
Parents neglect to cultivate their children's personalities, which is tantamount to blocking their children's future.
No matter how much you love your children, don't neglect the education of your children, and don't let yourself regret it.
Parents love their children, eager to take out their hearts to their children, as long as the child has any difficulties, parents must be full support, without hesitation.
However, no matter how much parents love their children, they should not provide unconditional financial support, but should teach their children to be independent.
The unconditional financial support of parents will make their children form a dependency mentality.
In the future, when children encounter problems, their first thought is to seek help from their parents. I will not think about how to solve the problem and take the responsibility that I should take in the first place.
Children are Xi to relying on their parents, and they can never grow up and manage their own lives.
Parents should learn to let their children face the problems in life alone and withstand the storms in life on their own.
Only when children learn to grow stronger, more independent, will they be able to take responsibility for their own lives.
On the road of life, some parents feel too sorry for their children and want to protect their children under their wings and bear everything for them.
Parents are for the good of their children, for fear that their children will suffer hardships and be burdened, and that their children will not be able to bear their responsibilities.
When children do something wrong, parents bear the consequences on behalf of their children and take care of their children's lives. But parents can't protect their children for a lifetime, and it's not a consequence, and parents can bear it instead.
Parents can't accompany their children through a lifetime, and the road ahead must be walked by their children themselves. Some responsibilities must always be shouldered by the children themselves.
Only by letting go in time and letting the children go through the wind and rain and experience the tempering can it really be good for the children.
Children know how to take responsibility for their own lives, and parents can enjoy their old age with peace of mind, and life will be fulfilled.
When getting along with children, you also need to be measured.
Parents love their children, but at the same time, they should not neglect the nurturing and education of their children.
Grasp the degree of dedication, don't overdo it for your children, so that your children can get better growth and experience.
Cultivate children's independence and good character, let them taste the various flavors of life, and manage their own lives.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.