My sister's son and girlfriend talked for a few months before they planned to get a license and inform us to attend the engagement ceremony.
My sister told me before that the other party is divorced, has a daughter and a man, and the woman is several years older than my sister's son.
I said, although your family's conditions are a little worse, but the marriage is a big event, it is better to be cautious, and go for a while to see if each other is suitable before deciding, what to do in such a hurry.
My sister thinks very openly, the conditions in our family are so poor, where to find such a suitable one, although the age is older, it will be distressing, the two of them have talked and laughed, and they are very happy, as for whether to have children or not, whether they can have children, it follows them, it doesn't matter, and there are no huge assets waiting to be inherited at home!
Mom said so, what else can I say?
I went to my sister's house that day, and when I entered the door, I saw my nephew's girlfriend, with a ball head, a slim black dress, which looked particularly tall, and the figure was really good.
Afterwards, I feel that the long light is okay, the near light is almost, the age is always very fair on everyone's face, it can't stand careful scrutiny, let's not scrutinize, they are a combination of big boys + mature women.
Yesterday after getting home from work and chatting with my sister for a while, my sister said that my son was on his birthday today, went to get the certificate, and sent me a screenshot, my daughter-in-law's real age was exposed at once, and asked me not to post it in the group, I am not so unreliable.
I comforted my sister, find someone older than his son, control him, correct some of his bad life Xi, the two like each other, try to live a good life, you are also relaxed, very good.
The sister said that her son's girlfriend knew that her son liked to eat sausages (the traditional one), so she bought fresh meat, made some of her own, and dried it upstairs in her house.
A few nights ago, I heard them make a lot of noise in the room, thinking that the two of them had a conflict, and when I got up, they were talking and laughing, and my girlfriend got up to make egg fried rice for his son.
Although these two things are small, they are very plus, and the details are more impressive, no wonder this nephew excludes traditional concepts, overcomes the age gap, and chooses her so firmly, there must be a reason for him.
How many women now make their own sausages for the people they like?I can't do it, but the egg fried rice is still okay.
Yesterday when I got home from work, I chatted with my sister and daughter-in-law, I asked him, are you hungry, he said, did you bring anything delicious?I said, no, I want to make you egg fried rice.
This one in the family, with a red little face, laughed hahaha: three catties of meat and hemp!
We also learn from other people's loving experiences Xi learn Xi, see, it's not that I don't want to pay, people feel numb).
Personally, there is no radical view on divorced women looking for a married man, and they are sisters and brothers, but I think that when divorced women can make up their minds to choose marriage after experiencing a marriage, they should be cautious, and once they choose, they must want to work hard to live a good life.
Besides, the nephew has an old house and an old car, and his job is still unstable, of course, he has the advantage of being young, his first marriage, and a kind and priceless heart.
I haven't heard that the woman wants a few gold, and the lion opens his mouth to ask for a lot of dowry, so he is willing to get the certificateI watched some blind dates for the elderly before, some female guests, a lot of old people, and they couldn't see through it, so they opened their mouths and closed their mouths to ask for a bride price.
Modern people keep pace with the times, the degree of tolerance is getting higher and higher, two people together, more and more unaffected by some uncontrollable factors, as long as two people have a common language, really like it.
I wish my nephew and my wife to be married forever, work together, and work together to create a better life, and the future can be expected!