As the saying goes, no one is perfect, even a saint is imperfect, a person must have shining advantages, but also has its shortcomings that can be glimpsed, and all people with high moral realm will praise the advantages of others and tolerate the shortcomings of others.
In the face of other people's shortcomings, we can not be picky, but with a kind attitude to tolerate, when you are critical of others, it is equivalent to picking on yourself, your own shortcomings will also be exposed, when you are praising the advantages of others, in fact, the side is also praising yourself.
Everyone has imperfections, some people are less courageous, some people are not diligent enough, some people are not serious enough, some people are not positive, these are all shortcomings, we will find that the threesome must have my teacher, as long as you learn Xi the strengths of others, you can also improve yourself, perfect yourself.
Tolerance is a virtue, the sea is inclusive, tolerance is great, the heart can be like the prime minister's belly can support the boat, can accommodate all things in heaven and earth, can accommodate rivers and lakes, can accommodate thousands of people, there are not only sentient beings in the heart, but also all living beings, in the realm of compassion and great love is a state of Buddha.
For the advantages of human nature, we must praise, human shortcomings, we must be tolerant, life in the world, people have self-knowledge, know themselves, and then know others, self-knowledge is a kind of wisdom, know our own shortcomings, and then try our best to improve it, promote strengths and avoid weaknesses, this is wisdom.
Husbands and wives should tolerate each other, don't lose their temper because of a small temper, don't lose their temper because of a very small thing, causing husband and wife to be incompatible, life in the world, to learn tolerance is to tolerate everything, tolerate each other's shortcomings, tolerate each other's bad things.
No one is perfect, so you must learn to tolerate, you must maintain a peaceful attitude, don't spoil your mood because of a little thing, because a grain of mouse feces will spoil your own good day, which is a bit of a fuss, when you reach the realm of tolerance, you will find that there are flowers and sunshine everywhere outside.