Meta-view--- not every point of view can be called meta-view.
To fall in love is to appreciate each other's strengths, but a perfect marriage is to accept each other's shortcomings. It's easy to fall in love because the advantages take you down, and it's hard to get along because you have to accept the shortcomings.
Therefore, if you want to be in love for a long time, in addition to talking about each other's advantages, you must also understand each other's shortcomings, and let each other understand your advantages and disadvantages
How many relationships have you had before?
It's in the process of getting to know him that you like it more and more, and the end leads to emotional out-of-control, and then messes up. When you like someone, you have to attract him and let him know about you, and in the process, he will naturally like you more.
So when you start a relationship, remember to replace asking the other person what they are doing and what they are eating with what I am doing and what I have eaten.
Some people like a person, but they can't find a way to get close to each other, here is from the perspective of the number of buckets: 14 type life [love strategy], let you act bravely and quickly capture the right person!Don't miss out on your love.
Let's talk about it with Mr. Yuanguan!
1 The main star of the life house: seven killings, breaking the army, incorruptibility, greedy wolf.
Method: Direct duel.
There are friends from the above main stars in the house of life, and their love personality has always been direct, if they are interesting to you, you will soon receive a response, and you can fully feel whether they are enthusiastic or perfunctory to you.
So there's no need to play any ambiguous games there, and let the other party know generously!
Don't start with a friend, he prefers to be more direct, if you like me, let me understand how I feel, so that I know where to put you, or what kind of answers and responses to give you.
2 main stars of the life palace: Ziwei, Tianfu, Wuqu, Tianxiang.
Method: Satisfy desires.
Friends who have the above main stars in the natal house have little resistance to the object of satisfying their desires, and the meaning of a soul mate is not a spiritual pursuit.
It's that when they like someone, you identify with their interests, and that makes you feel very comfortable and understood.
Therefore, accompany her to do what she wants to do, perhaps to explore and discuss things that are interesting to each other, or to have a tasteful meal, and to accompany her to feel all kinds of beautiful details and atmosphere in life, so that you can truly understand each other.
3. The main stars of the house of life: the sun, the giant gate, and the heavenly machine.
Method: Friends upgrade lovers.
There are friends of the above main stars in the natal house, and according to their character, there will be no such boundary that they can't be lovers if they become friends, so let them feel comfortable with each other first, and then they will have the opportunity to collide with ambiguous fireworks.
When interacting with people with this kind of personality, it is especially easy to remember that not giving ya strength is the basic principle, and it is especially easy to start with friends.
Because they are afraid of confirming relationships and hate the heavy responsibilities that come with which relationships, only by starting with friends can they let down their psychological defenses.
4 main stars of the house of life: Taiyin, Tianliang, Tiantong.
Method: Habit becomes natural.
Friends with the above main stars in the natal personality are really scary things for them!
If you slowly approach her life and she becomes dependent on you, or if you find that you have become a habit in her life, she will naturally see you as a part of her life.
This habit is natural, and it makes them feel particularly aware of security. But the habit mentioned here is not to forcefully ask the other party to keep up with your pace, but to integrate naturally like a good song in life, a warm wind, so that he feels that he is accompanied but has no sense of power.
Metaview Postscript. Have you remembered the above love stealing strategies?
This is just the first step to build a good impression at the beginning, if you want to have a better chance of winning, you can know the answer by looking at your purple micro disk;Or just ask a teacher to explain your ideal type for you.
Classmate, which is the main star of your life house?See how your feelings are