After 3 years of accompanying his wife to fight cancer, Mr. Li regretted not making an appointment f

Mondo Health Updated on 2024-01-30

Mr. Li complained:

My wife has terminal cervical cancer and hasn't eaten for a long time, so she only relies on intubation to stay alive. I also feel bad when I see her in pain every day. She is only 30 years old, she is still so young, and her family has already sold all the garages to her for treatment, and it has cost nearly a millionThat's a big loss, but she's like this, I don't know how long I can live?”

Mr. Li and his wife have a deep relationship, and they have a lovely son. A family of three is happy.

One day, Mr. Li heard that there was an HPV vaccination at the community health center, so he asked his wife to make an appointment for the injection, but his wife felt that it was troublesome to make an appointment because she was busy with work, so she did not go.

About a year ago, my wife found that she was not feeling well, and she went to the hospital for examination and was diagnosed with cervical cancer. At that time, his wife had a desperate expression, and Mr. Li's heart was broken.

Diagnosed with cervical cancer

He kept encouraging his wife, and they faced it together. With his encouragement, his wife accepted **, she was only 30 years old, so young.

In order to treat his wife's illness, Mr. Li sold his car and house. After the operation, they still needed several cycles of chemotherapy, and their wife's condition improved after a period of time, and they were very relieved.

As the cycle of chemotherapy increased, it became more and more obvious that my wife had some adverse reactions and was very uncomfortable. Watching her gradually lose weight, he couldn't bear it anymore.

Chemotherapy affected my wife's immunity, and her body became weaker and weaker. Moreover, the medical expenses were like running water, and Mr. Li felt suffocated by the cost.

Cancer cells spread

At the beginning of this year, after a re-examination, the doctor found that her condition had deteriorated, metastasized, and had metastasized, and she was already in the terminal stage of cervical cancer.

At that time, they accepted the doctor's advice and used bevacizumab as a targeted**, and my wife's condition improved to a certain extent.

But the good times did not last long, due to the spread of cancer cells, my wife's condition became worse and worse, she could no longer eat, she had not eaten for a long time, her body was full of tubes, and she relied on intravenous infusion to supplement nutrition every day to maintain her life.

Every day looking at her painful appearance, Mr. Li would secretly wipe his tears. The cost of the year** cost almost a million.

Mr. Li was a little disappointed and thought, if he spent so much money and couldn't save a person's life, wouldn't it be empty of people and money?It is equivalent to the struggle of the previous years in vain, and it is too much of a loss.

But seeing his wife like this, thinking of the picture of their happy life in the past, he couldn't bear it.

Mr. Li went to consult his wife's attending doctor, and Mr. Li asked the doctor if his wife had been injected with **HPV vaccine two or three years ago, would she not have cancer?

The HPV vaccine is very effective

Doctors say that the HPV vaccine can greatly reduce the chance of cervical cancer, genital warts, and cervical intraepithelial neoplasia, but vaccination does not mean that cervical cancer will not occur.

The vaccine can prevent more than 90% of cervical cancers caused by the HPV virus, but not 100%. The causes of cervical cancer are complex, and there are other causes besides viral infections.

Mr. Li asked the doctor again, his wife is in this state, I don't know how long she can live

The doctor said that his wife's current situation is not optimistic, the cancer cells have metastasized and spread, and the effect of chemotherapy is not very good.

But the patient's mental state is not bad, according to such a state, it is possible that her survival time is about two months, and it is recommended that he be psychologically prepared.

Mr. Li asked the doctor, do you still need ** in the terminal stage of cervical cancer?

The doctor said that cervical cancer is the most common malignant tumor in women, and the effect will be better in the early stage, but it is difficult in the late stage.

This disease is mainly caused by high-risk HPV virus infection, and other factors such as multiple productions, immune deficiency, smoking, etc.

There are no symptoms in the early stage of the disease, and most of them are found during physical examinations. As the disease progresses, there will be irregular bleeding, discharge, and in the late stage, the surrounding organs will be violated, resulting in urinary urgency, abdominal pain, leg swelling, weight loss, kidney damage, organ failure and other problems.

In the advanced stage of cervical cancer, chemotherapy, radiotherapy, targeting, immunization, etc., choose the appropriate way to alleviate symptoms and improve the quality of life of patients.

Mrs. Li has been receiving targeted ** since this year, and this ** also has certain ***, such as rashes, gastrointestinal symptoms, etc., plus the tumor metastasis to various organs brings many complications, ** is relatively difficult.

There was cancer pain at the end of the stage, and she was given targeted analgesia**. Now Mrs. Li doesn't have much time left, and her physical condition and condition are no longer suitable for surgery**.

Patients in the terminal stage will have strong pain due to the pelvic cavity being infiltrated by cancer, and may also have ** massive bleeding and shock, ** increased secretions, and may also have a peculiar smell.

It is recommended to treat the symptoms symptomatically** and palliative treatment of metastatic lesions**, and pay attention to nutritional supplementation and anti-infection. The purpose of this stage is to relieve pain and prolong survival.

Family members care more about the patient's mentality and emotions, listen to her needs, encourage her to face the disease positively, and try to meet her wishes.

Mr. Li nodded, agreeing with the doctor's opinion. He would go to the hospital to accompany his wife every day after work, and one night more than two months later, Mrs. Li passed away due to multiple organ failure, blood pressure and heartbeat dropped rapidly.

This is the end of the story

Eventually, after a year-long battle with the disease, Mr. Lee's wife passed away due to multiple organ failure. This tragedy not only left a deep wound on Mr. Li and his son, but also sounded a wake-up call for all of us: the importance of health cannot be ignored, and prevention is always more important than **.

Director Han also reminded everyone that it is everyone's responsibility to cherish and protect the health of their families. In the face of the fragility and impermanence of life, we should be more aware of the preciousness of love and companionship in life. Although we can't control everything, through timely prevention and care, we may be able to change the trajectory of life to a certain extent. Cervical cancer

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