First of all, people who are too kind often lack a sense of self-protection and are vulnerable to harm and use by others. They can be taken advantage of or deceived because people who are too kind are usually less likely to reject others or set boundaries. This makes them easy to become soft persimmons in the eyes of others, and they are easy to be used and exploited by people with ulterior motives.
Second, people who are overly kind may focus too much on the needs and interests of others and ignore their own. This can lead to them sacrificing their own interests and needs to meet others, which can harm their physical and mental health in the long run, and even affect their personal development and growth.
In addition, people who are too kind may not be able to establish clear boundaries in their interpersonal interactions, which is not only detrimental to healthy interactions, but can also lead to undue responsibility or stress on their own. This can cause them to lose their uniqueness and value.
To sum up, one cannot be too kind. Learn to express your refusal reasonably, stick to your personal rights and interests, and give a moderate helping hand on this basis, so as to be compassionate and principled, so as to better protect your own well-being and the well-being of others.