Guiding a guy to like himself is a delicate process that requires care to remain real and natural. Here are some suggestions:
Show your true self:The most important thing is to show who you really are, not to be pretentious or pandering to the other person. Authentic and natural representations are more likely to arouse the genuine interest of the other person.
Establish in-depth communication:Establish in-depth communication with the other person to understand his interests, thoughts and feelings. Through sincere communication, you can understand him better and make it easier for him to have a good impression of you.
Show independence and self-confidence:Independence and self-confidence are attractive qualities. When presenting yourself, show your independence and confidence in life and let the other person feel your positive attitude.
Caring about his life:Show concern for the other person's life, ask him how his day is going, and learn about his hobbies. Showing a personal focus on him makes him feel special.
Reflect common interests:If you have some common interests, you can take the initiative to get involved, which can help bring you closer to each other. Shared experiences help create a deeper emotional connection.
Subtle body language:Convey your affection through subtle body language such as eye contact, smiles, and gentle touch. But make sure you don't make these movements seem too intense or deliberate.
Arouse his curiosity:A moderate amount of mystery and curiosity is an effective way to attract others. Don't reveal everything to him at the beginning, keep some mystery and pique his interest.
Actively involved in his life:If you have the opportunity, take an active part in his life, such as attending some of his activities, parties, or completing a task together. This will increase the chances of contact and allow him to learn more about you.
Keep in mind that although there are ways in which the other person's favorability can be channeled, in the end the development of the relationship is the result of the joint efforts of both parties. At the same time, respect the other person's feelings, don't be too forced or deliberate, and let the development of the relationship go naturally.