Faced with the problem that 17-year-old children do not want to go to school, as parents, we must control our emotions and do not give them any radical education before they are ready. For example, forcing them to go to school can easily aggravate their school boredom and is not conducive to follow-up guidance, so this is what our parents need to know and do. So, how can junior high school kids improve their grades?What to do if a seventeen-year-old doesn't want to go to school anymore
1. Do a good job of communication
When a 17-year-old child does not want to go to school, parents should communicate better with their children, do not impose their own ideas on them, try to communicate with their children as friends, listen to their ideas patiently, and give their own suggestions with an equal attitude. At this time, parents can tell their children that they are not dissatisfied with him, let him know what parents expect from him, and at the same time explain to him the harm of indulging in games, and explain the importance of going to school for future life development, so as to eliminate his mentality of not wanting to go to school.
2. Do an in-depth understanding
There needs to be a deeper understanding between parents and children about the thoughts and reasons why 17-year-olds don't want to go to school so that they can better help them. Sometimes, children may be reluctant to go to school because of psychological pressure, difficulty in learning Xi, or interpersonal problems. In this case, parents need to have in-depth communication with their children and try to find a solution to the problem.
Parents can also encourage their children to go to school by providing support. They can help children develop Xi school plans, provide Xi resources and help children solve problems in school Xi, in addition, encourage children to participate in extracurricular activities to improve their interests and self-confidence, which can help children face school Xi more positively, thereby improving the school boredom of 17-year-old children who do not want to go to school.
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3. Be a qualified listener
Faced with the problem that 17-year-old children do not want to go to school, as parents, we must be good listeners, listen to children's voices, and see children's emotional changes. It is more important to provide a helping hand to your child with a calm mood, and do not scold your child at every turn, because the instability of parents will only make the child gradually move away from you. Because they know you don't understand them, you can't help them. At the same time, you need to be a role model for your children to "lead by example", and your parents' words and deeds are more effective than any preaching.
4. Help them face difficulties head-on
Faced with the problem that 17-year-old children do not want to go to school, parents should let their children have a correct understanding of the difficulties in learning Xi in their daily school Xi, and strive to let them overcome these difficulties Xi. School boredom is not a problem of a few people, it is a problem of many people, so parents should also face up to this problem.
How can junior high school kids improve their grades?Reasons why seventeen-year-olds are tired of school
1. Excessive pressure
Because at this stage of puberty, the seventeen-year-old child is not mature enough, although it is developing physically and psychologically. Some expectations from parents and teachers will make them feel a lot of pressure, so they will choose to escape, thinking from the perspective of children, they will feel that there is no pressure if they don't go to school, and there is nothing more difficult for children than going to school, so they will have the problem of school boredom.
2. The goal of learning Xi is not clear
If the goal of learning Xi is not clear or the method of learning Xi is not right, and the repeated failures in the exam, it will definitely hit the confidence of teenagers to learn Xi, thus producing an inferiority complex, so it is easy to cause the occurrence of boredom in learning. Therefore, when teenagers are tired of school, parents should not blindly scold, but should find the root cause of their children's boredom and guide them in a targeted manner, so as to improve their children's interest in learning Xi, which is the root of the problem.
If parents can often say to their children: "Look how fast you do", "It's awesome, come on", "It's great, I don't need to remind you all the time", the child will be exposed to positive external stimuli, and the child will consciously remind himself to hurry up next time he does things in order not to disappoint his parents.