When children say they don't want to go to school, parents must calm down and accept their dislike of school. At the same time, it is also necessary to express your emotions to them in a peaceful manner, and effective communication and exchange between the two parties is the key to solving the problem, and it is also what we parents must do. So, how to cultivate children's interest in Xi?What should I do if my child says he doesn't want to go to school?
1. Parents express their emotions
When a child says that he doesn't want to go to school, his parents must be very irritable and even angry, but we can't vent this impatience to their children through tantrums and nagging. At this time, parents can express their worries, express their willingness to work with their children to solve the current difficulties, and establish a sense of belonging with their children through sincere communication.
For example, if you say you don't want to go to school, I do worry, not only about your Xi grades, but also because you are afraid that you will encounter difficulties in other aspects, but you don't realize it, and you classify it as homework, and I don't know how to help youThrough such dialogues, the children's hearts are opened and they are willing to confide in their parents, and the purpose of the dialogue is to understand the children's thoughts and discuss solutions together.
My child's grades are getting worse and worse every time, and I am usually busy with work, so I don't have time to tutor him and care about him. As for the children, the pressure is also increasing!In fact, having said that, I don't know how to tutor, and I may even take the child to a detour!
Until a while ago, I saw Tutu Classroom, which is a non-profit academic institution established by integrating the compulsory education training services of Gaotu, a listed education company, in accordance with the requirements of national policies.
The current situation of children's learning Xi, examination mentality, learning Xi methods, etc., and the formulation of exclusive learning Xi plans to help check and fill in the gaps and find efficient learning methods for weak subjects Xi!It really saved me a lot of heart, and the child was a lot more active in learning Xi!
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In general, it is:
Learning Xi degree: from not understanding to keeping up!
In terms of learning Xi mentality: from not wanting to learn Xi to loving Xi school!
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2. Understand your child's stress
Just like going to work, adults occasionally have the idea that it is better not to go to work, let alone children, and now most of the tasks Xi school are very heavy, so parents must understand their children more. When talking to children, try to stand on an equal footing with them, do not blindly blame, but should guide them correctly, tell them what the purpose of learning Xi is, and learning Xi is not for anyone, but for themselves to be more relaxed and excellent in the future.
3. Cultivate their interest in learning Xi, which can be combined with children's strengths
In fact, there is no contradiction between expertise and Xi. Many children with special talents also have good academic Xi performance, because of their specialties and interests, these children will often receive praise and encouragement from school and family, and their interests will also subtly move to Xi, so that the two complement each other. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the combination when cultivating.
How to cultivate children's interest in Xi?The reason why children have problems with school boredom
1. Adverse family environmental impact
The family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Therefore, a poor family environment may have a negative impact on children's academic Xi, such as single-parent families, divorced parents, domestic violence, improper parenting styles, etc., which may affect children's Xi attitudes towards school.
2. School environment
The school environment is also an important factor in a child's behavior. If a child is bullied or ostracized at school, or has difficulty Xi school, it is also easy for them to be reluctant to listen to their teachers or not want to do their homework. In addition, if the school's education method is too rigid or not suitable for the characteristics of the child, it is easy to cause the child's disgust.
3. Percussive education for parents
Many parents hope that they have done nothing and can still gain a child who can do everything and is excellent at everything. As for the questions that the child asks, he can't explain it, or he has explained it many times, and the child doesn't know it, so it's easy for parents to get impatient and even get angry with the child.
Parents feel that their Xi explanation is very detailed and easy to understand, but the child does not understand what is going on, and parents are easy to be impatient, and it is easy to say "stupid as a pig", or "Do you have a long brain?"."Verbally attacking the child, and the child has to suffer silently and be hit. They didn't dare to object, so much so that they didn't want to do their homework again, at least not to show it to their parents. Parents' excessive emotions will hurt the child, dampen the child's enthusiasm, hate homework, and hate Xi.