The word "coincidentally" is strange, and the strange thing is that the people who say "coincidentally" are often very inappropriate.
Personally, I like to use the word "coincidence".
I used to have a crush on a girl, and it happened to be as fond of reading as I was, and it was an idle book.
As a result, she could often see that I happened to be reading a certain book, and it happened to be something she liked to read.
Then, she started borrowing books from me for three years.
But she never knew that I had already bought her best friend, and I knew what she read every night.
For example, she watched Jiangnan's "Emperor of Light", and I will soon appear here in the first part of "Kyushu Ethereal Record".
She didn't know that early the next morning, I quickly ran to the Xinhua Bookstore at the South Gate, and the whole bookstore looked for all the books in the "Kyushu Ethereal Record" series, and when I came back, I had to put the books under my ass and sit hard to add a few feet, so as not to look too much like new books.
I never let her know that none of this was a coincidence.
Because I know that she believes in fate, and it just so happens that I believe in fate too.
I thought she would know when fate came.
Seven or eight years later, she still told me on the Internet, it was strange how I had different tastes from when I was in college, and I couldn't go with the books I said.
Of course, because I lost her best friend, and her best friend is no longer with her.
I have seen people who like to use it as much as I do, and it just so happened that at an engagement ceremony, the girl happily took the microphone and said that the two had known each other for many years.
For more than a year, every morning when the girl gets up for a run, she will happen to meet the man, what a vulgar way of picking up girls in romance dramas!
During this period, I also moved twice, but each time I met a man running after a few days, and it was rare to have perseverance.
The girl looked happy and wanted to say, but the man grabbed the microphone and said
Didn't I say it many times, and I counted the time every day to keep watch, and I already knew about your move from your friend.
The friends burst into laughter, and it seemed that there were quite a few people who knew.
The girl said unhappily, but I have always regarded it as fate!
I was thinking that if he hadn't said it, you would never have known how much care a person had behind those coincidences.
Finally, I would like to ask in particular: do you still run together after you fall in love?As far as I know, the man has gained more than 40 pounds in the past two years after meeting the girl, and it is estimated that he will not be able to run for a long time.
A senior sister who knew me well in the early years told me, do you know, ten years ago, I could judge whether a person is single, whether he has a favorite person, and whether the person he likes can be based on a person's demeanor, handwriting, Xi life habits, class time, eating speed, small notes written, etc., whether he is single, whether he likes someone, and whether the person he likes will be me. After class, I will judge that he may go ** according to many small clues, and then pull my friend to pretend to meet him, but his head is so low that he doesn't even dare to look at his face, even if he takes the initiative to greet me.
After a long time, I found that in the blog he wrote, there would often be "she" next to the female character, knowing that he was also in love, knowing what kind of person the girl was, I would judge how they probably met, and I would speculate about what kind of girl he liked, and I would change myself according to these. However, no matter how much I changed, I knew that I could never be that person again, at least not the person next to him.
I don't know if all girls are born with these abilities, but I think it's the only thing I didn't need to learn in my short youth Xi learned naturally. Ten years later, I felt stupid when I recalled this, and what was even worse was that I found that the reason why I lost this ability was not because I couldn't do it, but because I was too lazy to do it.
She asked me if you think it's strange that at the age of twenty, when fate is supposed to be happening everywhere, we are all pretending to be shy, and we will do such small things, trying to create fate. When I was thirty years old, I should not have believed in fate, but I believed that things were man-made, but I was unwilling to take the initiative to do something called "fate".
I was confused for a long time after hearing this, until later I finally understood, we used to eat snacks at roadside stalls, never disliked unhygienic, and then when we had money, life is getting better and better, we began to feel that although the roadside stalls are delicious, but unfortunately always feel unhygienic, picky here and picky there, in fact, to be honest, the hotel is really clean?The same is true for love, there is no doubt that the aftertaste of first love is the best, so that later we can no longer be easily tempted and become more and more picky. Although we tell ourselves in our hearts that it is because we don't think as easily as our first love, and although we all want to be desperate and don't think about it as much as we did at the beginning, the truth is that we can't do it subconsciously. And the so-called fate is that at the beginning, we would be confused because of a smile from a boy playing basketball, and now we are facing a basket of roses but only silently calculate in our hearts how much money the other party has spent and how much sincerity there is.
It's our hearts that become hard and soft, so we no longer believe in fate, create fate, and say that we want to be desperate, but our hearts are still doubting everything.