Seeing the news of "Chunyu** withdrawing from the Chinese market" on the hot search brought me back to a few years ago.
In the past few years, the Korean Wave was raging, and in addition to men's and women's groups, the hottest ones were Korean skin care products and makeup. Click on every beauty ** will almost recommend Korean products, people will inevitably follow the trend, and I have also stocked up a lot.
I checked my shopping cart and found that Korean **, lipstick, eyeshadow and other items cost me more than 6,000 yuan. This was a lot of money for a girl who had just graduated not long ago.
What's worse is that except for a good-looking infrared, I have stepped on thunder for the rest of the products. Bite the bullet and use them once or twice to put them deep in the drawer, and then throw them away as a matter of course when you move.
It never seems like I'll end well with my followers.
The stars who follow the trend always collapse, the movies they watch are almost all bad movies that are marketed, and the investments made by following the trend also end in failure. Heaven seems to be going to tell me with bloody facts: people who lack independent thinking deserve to be cut leeks.
Unlike some of my friends, my following originated from a magical experience on the Internet.
When I first went to college, I liked to visit fashion forums, and I desperately wanted to get rid of the gray-faced high school student status, and I spent my free time learning to Xi and dress myself. That forum has a post sharing his Japanese outfits, and it is very popular every day, and there are constantly comments and likes. When I clicked in with anticipation, I was disappointed.
The blogger is all dressed for Japanese commuting, with a very large and long skirt, a washed cloth bag, and flat shoes, and the whole person looks very bloated and draggy. I don't like it.
At that time, I didn't really understand the social rules on the Internet, so I commented: Would the skirt look better if it was a little slimmer?
Then I was subjected to aesthetic bullying for the first time in my life.
I received dozens of replies within ten minutes, almost all of which said that I didn't understand Japanese aesthetics, didn't understand the essence of Japanese dressing, and even made me "don't look rough". In that post that day, in addition to praising the blogger's comments, it was a voice criticizing me.
Well, that was probably the first time I felt like I'd been carried out in a crowd. I was scared, humans are social animals, and it turns out that losing a crowd is such a terrible thing. You have become the target of everyone, a thorn in the head, and a rat poop that has broken the pot of porridge. All you can do is delete the comment and run away.
This is one of the things that has had a profound impact on my personality and my life. Let me know that it's safe to be with most people, don't be a rebel, be submissive, go along with it, follow the trend, and even if the sky falls, you will stand up to it together.
Then I became a person who stood with most people. I lost my independent thinking on many inconsequential matters, and I always felt at ease that I was on the side of the crowd when making choices.
But actually, I found myself in a huge **.
There will always be a part of the world who wants to wear off the independence of another person, they are the same party, they create panic, they can't hear a different voice, they take advantage of the strength of the crowd to isolate you, attack you, force you to become the same person as them, so as to achieve their goals. This is especially true on the Internet.
So I was tricked by fans into watching bad movies, instigated by bloggers to buy a bunch of poor quality Korean makeup, and coaxed by people who needed to take over to buy a few financial products smashed in my hands.
They reaped my little leek with merry, and raised their sickles without mercy.
I don't want that anymore. For the sake of the so-called sense of security, turn yourself into a person who has no ability to think independently, a cowardly person, and a person who does not dare to say "no".
Isn't the reason why we live in a wonderful world is because everyone is an individual?It would be boring if everyone was the same.
So I won't change my opinion and idea again, even if it's wrong. After all, this world was originally a grass platform team.
This article was first published in *** Rose Growth.
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