It is often said that "people rely on clothes to dress up and horses to rely on saddles, and three points to look and seven points to dress up", which shows the importance of clothes to us. Although clothes were originally meant to protect themselves from the cold, nowadays there are many different styles of clothing, and people are paying more attention to what they wear. However, there are also some things we need to pay attention to in the process of choosing clothes, some clothes look good, but they don't fit us to wear. In this article, I will introduce you to three types of clothes that, although attractive on the surface, can be uncomfortable to wear and should be worn as little as possible.
In real life, there are always some people who don't pay attention to their appearance, they are unkempt, and they wear dirty clothes and bad clothes no matter what the occasion, and they look sloppy. These people may have a lazy personality and do not have the habit of washing and changing clothes frequently, and they always look sloppy. There are also some people who don't pay attention to the hygiene of their clothes, and their bodies are covered with stains, but they don't care about it and live a leisurely life on their own.
However, in either case, being too unkempt can leave a very bad impression on others, creating feelings of disgust and rejection. A person who is disgraced all day long can't even take care of his most basic life, and no matter how good he is in other aspects, it is difficult to make up for such defects. Even Zhang Taiyan, who is known as the "No. 1 Sloppy Master", often gets dirty and messes with his clothes, and he is ridiculed for his sloppy behavior every time he participates in a speech. As Yang Lan said: "No one has the obligation to discover your so-called excellent inside through your sloppy appearance." "So, no matter what our financial situation is, keep our clothes neat and clean.
With the improvement of living standards, people have also made great improvements and promotions in terms of clothing. In order to show their identity, financial resources and status, many people always choose famous brands or expensive clothes. Such an outfit will satisfy their vanity, and it will also attract many envious and jealous glances. However, overly extravagant dressing can make people too ostentatious and lay the foundation for their future.
In "Dream of Red Mansions", the magnificence of Jiafu was once at its peak, and all the people in the mansion wore gorgeous clothes, showing the family's wealth and extravagance. However, this wealth did not make the people of Jiafu brainstorm, but instead made them lazy and complacent, which eventually led to the decline of the family. The gorgeous clothes of Jia Baoyu, Wang Xifeng and others are only the gorgeousness of the past, and they have not continued the glory of the family.
A mature person should gradually shift from material desires to inner concentration. Only in this way can we keep our over-inflated desires and focus on managing our lives so that they can prosper.
No matter how good the clothes are, there will be a day when they are worn out, and no matter how glorious the past is, it will become a thing of the past. Some people have a special affection for old clothes and are reluctant to throw them away and keep them in the closet. Just like memories of the past, they are always hidden deep within us, emerging at a particular moment.
However, an old garment is, in some way, no longer fit for us, and it doesn't fit and doesn't fit properly. In the same way, some of the painful memories and experiences that plague us should no longer appear in our minds, they should be sealed in the dust.
Su Shi is a good example, although his career was not smooth, he did not indulge in the failures of the past, but inspired him to continue to create, and wrote many famous stories through the ages. He did not drag the baggage of the past, and his mind became open-minded. People who let go of the past can have the present and embrace the future.
The appearance in front of people can often determine the success or failure of a person, and what a person wears is what kind of person he is. Therefore, we should take some time to tidy up our lives and make our lives neat and orderly, so that fate will be kind to us. Taking some time to dress yourself up will not only boost your image, but it will also give you the confidence you need to face life's challenges. However, we should also be careful not to pursue the external appearance too much, and not to blindly follow the trend of fashion, and ignore our own inner quality and real needs.
Choose clothes that suit you, according to your figure, temperament, occupation and occasion, don't be swayed by other people's evaluations and eyes. Sometimes, simple and comfortable clothes show off our personality and charm better. It's important to wear your own style and not lose yourself by blindly pursuing fashion.
In life, we should pay attention to the construction of personal image, but we should pay more attention to the cultivation of inner cultivation. Only a balance from the inside to the outside can truly achieve the harmony of clothing, food, housing and transportation. So, don't just look at the appearance of the clothes, but also pay attention to how the clothes feel and comfortable for you. Don't grieve yourself for the sake of fashion, choose clothes that suit you, so that you can truly show your charm and confidence.