The best way to interact with people is to separate topics. Just like in love, loving someone is your own business, and it has nothing to do with whether the other person reciprocates the same feelings;Whether the other party loves or not is the other party's business, standing in the position of self, not only can not be controlled, but also incapable. So, if a man doesn't love you anymore, don't do that, because you won't wake up the person who pretends to be asleep at all. 
1. Unwilling to accept the facts and self-harmMy girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend before, and I couldn't stand it. She locked herself in her room, creating an atmosphere that seemed to be a monk, and often posted some painful texts in her circle of friends. Not only that, but I cried many times. Every time I cry silently, I say that I don't want to eat, I can't sleep at night, I feel like my body is hollowed out, it's very uncomfortable, and I even think of a very extreme way to solve the pain. 
Many girls find it difficult to accept the truth after falling out of love. Especially when you see a man who once held himself in his arms and said sweet words, he will become even more unwilling to turn around and treat other women in the same way. In fact, the normal development law of love is that it will disappear or shift, so when love does not exist, blindly paranoid and unwilling to accept reality, and even want to do self-harm, can not save the hearts of others, but will only bring the most real harm to yourself. 
Second, become more humble and struggle to retainremembered that when I just broke up with my ex, I also kept it. The day we broke up happened to be the second anniversary of our relationship, and I knew that his attitude towards me had become very cold, but I thought that as long as I worked hard, I could restore the relationship to the same as before. I carefully prepared roses and painted a nice makeup. It is said that confession needs to be done by boys, but I think that since I love it, it is understandable for me to take the initiative. 
In retrospect, I felt like a fool, walking through the crowded streets, handing him flowers, saying nice things to him, only to be rejected by him indifferently. I cried and begged him not to break up, but he ignored my pleas and turned around cruelly, I was like a pile of stinking garbage, and told him to get away quickly. If a person changes his mind, he will not look back. The more humble your posture is, the easier it is for him to feel that the decision to break up with you is the right one, because you are not attractive and do not show any charm that will make him change his mind. Love does not rely on begging, but on its own ability to shine so that he takes the initiative to approach and is willing to cherish it. 
3. Don't choose the road in a panic and start the next loveThere is a saying: the best way to forget someone is time and new love. Many people have chosen a new love, which seems to be the lowest cost, which can allow us to quickly forget a person, but using love to defeat love is tantamount to drinking doves to quench thirst. Some of the dust was covered on the surface, but in fact it was still there, and the bloody thorn had not yet been fully pulled out, and it was stinging frequently in our flesh. 
A person's heart is not sorted out, so he hurriedly starts a new relationship, and the love of the new love will also be bumpy, with the wrong state in one love after another to eat its suffering, enjoy only the bitterness of the wind of love is the gravel, in the heart to draw one wound after another. Treating a new love as a medicine for an old love will only make a new relationship go to the same fate again. To start a new relationship in a panic is irresponsible to oneself and unfair to the other party. Every relationship has its own destiny. 
There must be a special meaning for someone to appear in your life. Those people who are short-lived and make you feel beautiful but can't keep them may be to teach you to cherish them. So, when a man is not in love, the most important thing you need to do is not to do anything for love and keep the other person. It's about accepting the law of emotional development, accepting the fact that the other party doesn't love, asking inward, what kind of gains this relationship can bring you, recognize and awaken in the failed relationship, and then continue to pack your bags and go into the distance.