Money is the touchstone of affection, and it can test sincerity. In love, don't worry about the bad reputation of a gold worshipper, and don't dare to talk about money with a man generously. If a man really loves you, money will not be a sensitive topic between you, but will spend money generously on you. In the relationship between money, the meaning is not only money, but also these. 
1. Money is a man's attituderead a little story: Fei Fei and her boyfriend are about to get married, and the two of them each contributed half of the money and paid the down payment on the house, and the names of both parties were written on the house. In addition, Fei Fei also asked her boyfriend for an extra 80,000 yuan in dowry. My boyfriend's parents didn't understand it and thought that they had already made a down payment on the house, so why did they need the bride price?
Even because of this, the yin and yang were dissatisfied with Fei Fei, and the two families had a very unpleasant quarrel. Fei Fei said that the bride price is a man's attitude, although the other party has already made a lot of money out of the house, but he has also contributed a lot of money, and he can't get married, and the other party has not said anything at all. There is a saying:A man who loves you will only feel that he has not given you enough, and will not feel that he has given you too much. He can also see your efforts and will give you double the love. And men's attitude is also reflected in money, people who are willing to spend money on you, and those who don't care about you financially are the ones who are willing to give you more tolerance. 
2. Money is a man's promiseThe male colleague in the unit has been working very diligently recently. In the past, he was always late and left early, and he rarely took the initiative and supervised the task of applying for the first class. We all joked about him that he was going to be a desperate thirteen. The male colleague told us that he wanted to get married, and he was afraid that he would not be able to give his girlfriend a better life, so he took advantage of his youth to earn more money so that the other party could follow him at ease. 
After two people get married, they must not only have the romance of wind and snow, but also need to have the reality of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Men who are willing to give you money are more reliable. He will work hard to earn money with practical actions, and will not let you work too hard and suffer all the grievances of making money. Money is the embodiment of his desire to give you a better life, and it is his commitment to take care of you with all his heart. 
3. Money is a man's abilityI've heard a saying:The first half of a person's life is given by his parents, and there is no way to influence it, but the second half of a person's life is decided by himself, and if he does not live well, it is a kind of incompetence. If a man has been working for many years, and when he is old enough to get married, he still has no money in his hands. Either the ability is not in place, there is no strength to make money, and with such a man, he is destined to be poor and tired;
Either they don't have a good self-awareness, they don't have a good ability to protect money, they like to spend money indiscriminately every day, and they can't keep their wealth. Marriage is a lifelong affair, not a momentary pleasure. You can choose to be with a man because you love him very much, but you need to consider what kind of life you want to live and make a decision whether to marry him. Once a woman chooses a man, she chooses the life that this man gives. 
Whether he has the ability to meet the life you want at the moment can be seen from whether he has money and whether he has the ability to make money. When choosing a partner, we can forgive a person for having all kinds of unsmooth situations in life, or we can forgive a person for temporary cognitive defects, accept his cognitive awakening, and work hard from now on. But you must not forgive a person who obviously can't give you the life you want, but blames all the faults on you, thinking that you want too much. 
A good man knows how to spend money on women. This is a proof of self-ability, a manifestation of a woman, and an act of giving a woman a sense of security. A man who dares to spend money on you and talk to you about money is really willing to give you the best love.