Gentlemen, let's take a truth or dare!Today I want to discuss a cliché question: which one to choose as a wife, the beautiful one who can't cook, or the ugly one who can cook?
First, let's look at the background of this question. In traditional Chinese culture, women should be gentle and virtuous, and they should be able to go up to the hall and down to the kitchen. In the past, men worked hard outside the home, and women taught their husbands and children at home. However, with the progress of society, women are no longer just housewives, they can also work hard outside the home, and even better than men in some fields.
However, here's the problem. If you had two women in front of you, one who was good-looking but couldn't cook, and the other who was ordinary-looking but did a good job, which one would you choose as your wife?
Let's first listen to the opinions of netizens. Netizen 1: I choose a beautiful one that can't cook. I can teach her to cook, or we can go out and eat together. After all, being beautiful can make you feel good.
Netizen 2: I choose to cook and it's not beautiful. Because I can cook, if she can cook too, then we can share this hobby together. Moreover, it generally doesn't matter what she looks like, as long as she has inner beauty. Netizen 3: I choose the beautiful one. Because I can get a babysitter or eat out. It's important to save face. 
Seeing this, do you think this question is difficult to answer?In fact, everyone's answer is different, and the key is to look at your own values and lifestyle. Oops, that's a real headache!Which one do you want to choose as a wife, the beautiful one can't cook, or the ugly one but can cook?This is simply a big problem of the century, and it is even more difficult than choosing a hot pot base!
If you're an outward-looking person, you'll probably choose the pretty one, even if she doesn't know how to cook. Every day when I look at her beautiful face, my mood will improve. Even if her cooking is a mess, you will feel "worthy of my wife, just beautiful!".”
But if you pay more attention to inner quality and practical life ability, then you may choose the one who can cook, even if she is not pretty. After all, eating is a major life event, and what a wonderful thing it is to enjoy food every day!Moreover, people who can cook are usually more interested in life and know more about life.
However, it is important to remind everyone that a person's appearance is not the only measure of a person's worth. In the same way, a person's cooking skills are not the only measure of a person's worth. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and we should learn to appreciate the strengths of others instead of only seeing the shortcomings of others. 
It's like I have a friend whose girlfriend is a big beauty, but he's always a little hesitant. We asked him why, and he said, "She's really beautiful, but I just want to eat what she cooks, not just look at her appearance!"."Hahaha!
So gentlemen, what are you going to choose?Do you choose a beautiful girlfriend but have to endure her cooking, or choose an ordinary girlfriend but can enjoy her food?That's a real headache!But don't worry, we're just playing Truth or Dare, and we don't really have to choose a wife. If everybody is happy!
The last thing I want to say is: no matter which one you choose, the most important thing is to find someone who appreciates and respects each other. Because only such a marriage can be happy for a long time. 
Moreover, mutual appreciation and mutual respect are not only present as couples, but also in the daily lives of each of us. When you appreciate the good in others, you also gain respect and recognition from them. Such interactions are pleasant and happy. Therefore, whether it is in choosing a wife or in daily life, we should be more appreciative and respectful, and less critical and accusatory.
After all, no one is perfect, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Our task is to learn to appreciate the good in others and give them enough respect and recognition. Only in this way can we find true happiness and joy in life. The article describes the process, **all** on the Internet, this article aims to advocate positive social energy, no vulgarity and other bad guidance. If there is any copyright or character infringement issue, please contact us in time, and we will delete the content as soon as possible!If there is any doubt about the incident, it will be deleted or changed immediately after contact.