Everything in life is a passerby.
It is not from other people or things that afflict you, but from false illusions in your heart. Don't be afraid of losing, because you can't have it all. What is lost is only the passers-by in your life, and they have never really belonged to you. There is no need to be afraid of harm, because what can hurt you is actually the trials and tribulations that you must go through in your life.
The troubles and challenges in life often stem from our expectations and attachments to things. We often get caught up in our own imaginations, thinking that things should be this way or that. And when reality doesn't match our imagination, we feel disappointed and miserable. But in reality, these things do not necessarily conform to our imagination, they just exist and develop according to their own laws.
In the same way, we need to understand that everything in life is a passerby. Whether it's a loved one, a friend, a job opportunity, etc., we all lose them. But remember, these are not what we really need, they are only temporary companionship or opportunities. When we lose them, we can re-examine our lives and find what belongs to us anew.
When faced with difficulties and challenges, we need not be afraid. Life's difficulties and challenges can hurt us, but these hurts are not something we can't bear, they only make us stronger and more mature. When we face difficulties and challenges, we can choose to face them bravely, learn from the experience and lessons, and make ourselves stronger and more confident.
Finally, we need to understand that everything in life is a passerby. We can't control the changes in other people and things, but we can control our own mentality and attitude. When we face the troubles and challenges in life, we can choose to think calmly, face them positively, and move forward bravely. Because only through continuous growth and progress can we become our true selves and have a better life.