Wen Wan said in a mood**All works are original"The people regard food as the sky, and marriage takes the kitchen as the temple. In a family, the kitchen is not only a place to cook food, but also a place for couples to communicate emotionally. Want to know if a couple has a happy married life?Then we have to look at this part of their house—".Kitchen1. The degree of "liveliness" in the kitchen exposes the tacit understanding of husband and wife"A symphony of pots and pans, playing a marriage harmony. My friend's parents, who have been married for decades, have been the liveliest place in their house. The father was in charge, the mother was in charge, and the two chatted while doing it, sometimes amusing each other. Their tacit understanding is not only shown in their cooking skills, but also in their daily lives. I once asked my friends why their parents were so affectionate"Maybe it's because they've found a common language in the kitchen," he laughs”Second, the cleanliness of the kitchen reflects the life attitude of the couple"If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?The same applies in the kitchen. My neighbors Xiao Li and Xiao Wang are newlyweds, and the kitchen is always clean and tidy. Every time I visit their home, I can see that the kitchen countertops are spotless and the cutlery is well arranged. Xiao Li told me: "We feel that a clean and tidy kitchen can bring a good mood and a healthy body. Indeed, from the details of the kitchen, it is not difficult to see their love and seriousness towards life.
3. Creativity and surprises in the kitchen add to the spice of married life"Life needs a sense of ritual, and marriage needs freshness. My cousin and cousin-in-law are notoriously "foodies" and their kitchens are always full of ideas and surprises. One time I was a guest at their house, and my cousin-in-law made a "heart-shaped pizza" with the words "I love you" written on it. My cousin said with a happy face: "This is his little surprise for me, I can feel his love in the kitchen every time." "Looking at their busy figures and happy smiles in the kitchen, I deeply felt the beauty and joy of married life. Fourth, the division of labor and cooperation in the kitchen shows the mutual support of husband and wife"Men and women are matched, and they don't get tired of working. In the kitchen, the division of labor between husband and wife is just as important as cooperation. My uncle and aunt are a typical pair of "kitchen partners". The uncle is responsible for chopping and stir-frying, and the aunt is responsible for washing the dishes and cleaning up. They never care who does more and who does less, and always cooperate with each other tacitly. In their kitchen, I don't see quarrels and dissatisfactions, only mutual support and silent giving. This tacit understanding and dedication is the most valuable wealth in married life. 5. The taste and memory in the kitchen connect the emotional journey of the couple"Taste is the memory of the longest. Every dish, every taste in the kitchen, carries the emotional journey of the couple. My grandparents have been working together for half a century, and their kitchens always have a unique aroma – the taste of braised pork, which is grandma's favorite. Grandpa said: "Every time I smell this, I think of those hard and beautiful days I spent with my grandmother when I was young. This interweaving of flavors and memories makes their married life more colorful.
Conclusion:Although the kitchen is small, it carries the emotional exchange and tacit cooperation between husband and wife;Although the kitchen is ordinary, it bears witness to the happiness and beauty of married life. Therefore, "whether the married life is happy or not depends on the 'kitchen' at home!.""Here, we can not only taste the taste of food, but also feel the temperature of love. May every couple find their own happiness code in the kitchen!