Whether a marriage is happy or not, look at these three places in the family, it is clear

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-30

Some people say:

"The best testimony of marriage is not a vow, not a ring, but a home. ”
The feeling of marriage is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-aware. It's not easy to stay married.

As Ma Yili said: "Although it is easy to fall in love, it is not easy to get married, but do it and cherish it." "Whether the husband and wife are really happy can be seen from the details, and these three places in the home will also expose the truth.

1. Kitchen: The taste of love in fireworksIn the TV series "Meritorious", in Tu Youyou's house and kitchen, there is always Li Tingzhao busy. In order to support his wife's career, Li Tingzhao took care of all the housework. Tu Youyou devoted herself to scientific research. But as soon as you get home from work, you can eat a hot meal. The two chatted while eating, savoring the food, and also exchanged a day's work and life trivialities. Through the screen, you can feel the smell of love in the house full of couples. Some people say:

"Life is a bustling vegetable market, a kitchen full of fireworks, in firewood, rice, oil and salt, in washing vegetables and washing dishes."
There are many ways to express love, and cooking for a loved one is undoubtedly the most heartwarming and warm. The kitchen is a warm haven for family life, a mirror that reflects the level of care that couples care for each other. Truly loving couples will take care of each other in this harbor and prepare every dish with care. In their busy cooking schedules, they show their care and care for each other, and this affection is like the aroma of cooking, which permeates the whole family.

2. Bedroom: warm and loving detailsIn the TV series "The World", the unpretentious love between Zhou's father and Zhou's mother deeply touched many people. Once, Zhou's father rushed back from other places, and Zhou's mother felt very happy and excited in the face of his long-lost wife. Before going to bed, Zhou's mother excitedly chatted with Zhou's father about family life: Chunyan and her mother told me that her TV is rarely turned on, why, she wants to save all the TV programs and watch them with her old man. I've been saving up for years, so I'm going to tell you ......Wang Xiaobo said

"If a person can make you wake up happily every day and sleep peacefully every night, then you are not in love with the wrong person. ”
For couples in a marriage, the bedroom is not only a place to rest, but also an important place to communicate with the closest people. Before going to bed, couples can share their interesting stories and inner feelings with each other, even if it is just a few trivial "nonsense", which can relieve the fatigue and stress of the day. In this way, the bedroom becomes an important space for couples to listen, understand and love each other.

3. Bathroom: clean and loving

I've heard the saying:

Whether the marriage is good or not, you will know by going to the bathroom of his house.
I saw a ** on the Internet, because my husband felt sorry for his pregnant wife and was worried that it would be inconvenient for her to bend down to wash her hair with a big belly. I deliberately bought a shampoo chair that you can lie on. Every day after work, he would seriously wash his wife's hair in the bathroom and carefully dry her hair with a hair dryer. Finally, clean the entire bathroom from hair and stains. In addition, my husband also considerately took on housework such as washing clothes, washing dishes, and taking out the garbage. Despite the hard work of the pregnancy, the wife still felt very happy and satisfied. Couples who truly love each other know how to treat each other with tolerance and understanding, even if it is a seemingly trivial matter like cleaning. They understand that the trivial things in life also require each other's dedication and care, and only through mutual understanding and support can the relationship between each other be stronger and happier.

Conclusion:

Sanmao once said:

"If love doesn't fall on the little things like laundry, cooking, counting money, and taking care of children, it is not easy to last long."
A lasting and stable marriage requires the dedication and careful maintenance of both spouses. True love is not just demonstrated by loud proclamation, but is embodied in the details of daily life.

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