Life in the world, only a few decades, joy and sorrow, life does not bring death and does not bring away, why let yourself live so humble?
Since changing jobs, I have learned to let go, let go of the things that I thought I could change but couldn't do anything about, let go of the frustration that I was dissatisfied with when I started my business, and let go of the love life that I once thought was good but is not worth mentioning now...
From now on, I want to live for myself and be kind to myself!
To be kind to yourself, you don't have to buy yourself brand-name bags, expensive jewelry, big houses and other external materials. Of course, if you have the financial resources and are fascinated by these, it is not impossible. The "be kind to yourself" here is mostly the inner mind.
Carefully reflect on my own growth experience, study hard when I am Xi, work hard when I am Xi, work hard when I work, go to school, graduate, work, get married, have children, accompany me, follow the steps, and hardly relax for a moment. Never feel like you're good enough, not enough enough. "Today's best performance is tomorrow's minimum", "The only constant is change"...Etcetera. The company's atmosphere and social environment all require us and other "social strong laborers" to constantly spur themselves on, strive to improve, never be satisfied, always upward, and always positive.
Will it always be positive?
What is the background color of life? Happiness is an eternal pursuit, but the background color of life is certainly not 100% happy. Everyday life is like a river, gentle and magnificent. Today is no different from yesterday, as if it is gentle, and the ripples of the river of time are as magnificent as the sea. Look up at the sky and live with your head down. Happiness is just a wave embellishment, more of a calm, bumpy, and various events that affect our ups and downs.
In this way, in the ups and downs of emotions, in the events that follow, seek a moment of peace and pleasure, and be kind to yourself.
Don't be so yourself, allow yourself to make mistakes, allow yourself to be bad, allow yourself not to do it, allow yourself to be low, and allow yourself to let yourself go.
Criticism from others is an arrow shot at me, and my own criticism of myself is the second, third...The nth arrow. The arrows of self-criticism are shot at oneself anytime and anywhere, more precisely, more harshly, and more painfully. Pause Lab Says: Stop shooting the second arrow at yourself, take more care of yourself, and treat yourself like a good friend.
Yes, be kind to yourself and comfort yourself like a good friend.
Letting go of too many expectations is not to have a love for a better life, a bright future imagination, and the pursuit of dreams, but just to accept the present. Be kind to yourself as you would have treated others, accept all of yourself, and accept all of life.
Do what you want to do. Completion is more important than perfection, be patient with yourself. Praise yourself as you praise others. Speak up about yourself. Don't put pressure on yourself.
For the rest of your life, live for yourself, learn to be kind to yourself, let go of the burden in your heart, and do what you want to do while taking care of your family, do what you want to do, do what you make happy, make yourself happy, and leave no regrets!