Every year before the start of school, there is always a poignant scene: students who are called "children in dilapidated buildings" are still anxiously making up their homework in the last few days of summer vacation. They either take advantage of the faint light of the toilet in the middle of the night, lie on the ground and desperately rush to do their homework, or doze off in the process of doing their homework, and are frightened by the panic of waking up suddenly, or crying for help while picking up **, not believing that school will start tomorrow. "The children who are in a dilapidated building to meet the deadline", the nickname itself is artistic, describing these students who are forced by time.
Their pain is not simply due to the pressure of homework, but more often due to the inaction of parents. On the last day before the summer vacation, the school will hold a parent-teacher meeting to explain to parents the arrangements for the summer vacation in detail. In addition to precautions, such as drowning prevention, abduction prevention, food safety, etc., special emphasis will be placed on how to arrange work and rest time scientifically and reasonably to avoid completing homework before the start of school. Some schools will even send out a letter to parents detailing the arrangements and precautions for summer homework. However, sadly, parents often forget these contents after their children's vacation, or do not have the patience to supervise their children, and some even choose to send their children to summer remedial classes, completely ignoring the problem that their children still have summer homework.
As a result, behind every "child in a dilapidated building rushing to meet the construction deadline" stands an inactive parent. This is not a reproach, but a reminder to rethink our role in our children's education. The purpose of summer homework is supposed to keep children Xi and consolidate knowledge during the holidays, rather than racing against time to complete homework before school starts. As parents, we should participate in parent-teacher conferences to learn about the school's guidance on summer vacation life and help children make reasonable plans. During the holidays, we need to keep a close eye on our children's Xi progress and encourage them to complete their homework on time and avoid cramming before school starts.
Of course, we also need to understand the stress and distress that children face and help them find effective solutions. We can consult with our children to make a reasonable schedule and plan to break down their homework tasks, and we can also encourage them to seek help from teachers or classmates. Just like what the Hefei Municipal Education Bureau did, a two-week grace period was set aside for students who did not complete their homework during the summer vacation, and although many parents did not understand that doing so would lead to the end of their homework, it was actually a way to break the silence and save the mess for those who did not fulfill their parental responsibilities.
Parents play an important role in their children's development, and we are not only their support, but also their guides and supporters. The summer vacation is about to pass, and I hope that every parent can take active action to stop our children from becoming victims of "dilapidated buildings to meet the construction schedule". Let's work together to create a better Xi environment for children so that they can have a happy holiday season. I'd love to know your thoughts on this issue. Please leave a comment and discuss with us. (The source of the picture is the network, it has nothing to do with the text, please delete the suspected infringement).
Every year before the start of school, we can always see such a heart-wrenching scene: those students who are nicknamed "children in dilapidated buildings to catch up with the construction period", in order to complete their summer homework, have been fighting until the last moment, and even when there are only a few days left before this wonderful holiday, they still anxiously squeeze out time to catch up with their homework. This kind of scene makes people feel sad for them, and what is even more worrying is that there are inactive parents standing behind it. During the summer vacation, the school will hold a parent-teacher meeting to introduce the summer arrangements to parents in detail, with special emphasis on how to reasonably arrange the work and rest time and homework completion time. Unfortunately, many parents put these instructions behind them, and even send their children to summer tutoring classes, completely ignoring the issue of summer homework. This article will discuss the reasons behind it from different perspectives and give some suggestions.
Before each child's summer vacation, the school will inform the parents of the summer homework arrangements through parent-teacher meetings and other channels. But why do so many parents ignore these contents?
First of all, some parents may not take the importance of homework seriously. They think that summer vacation is a time for children to relax and rest, just let them play and do what they like, so they don't care about summer homework.
Second, some parents may have misconceptions about education. It is believed that education should be the school's business, and that parents' responsibility is limited to sending their children to school, and the rest is left to the school. Therefore, during the holidays, they do not care about their children's Xi, let alone remind them to complete their homework.
In addition, parental neglect may also be related to their own work pressure and busy life. For parents with busy schedules who may also need to take care of their own career and family expenses, summer homework is just an add-on to their heavy workload and can be easily overlooked.
Finally, some parents may lack the knowledge and methods to educate. They don't know how to arrange their children's summer school Xi plan scientifically and reasonably, nor do they know how to guide their children to Xi effectively.
All of the above reasons have led parents to ignore their children's summer homework, so that children only start to catch up before the start of school, and even stay up late to make up for homework, resulting in their physical and mental health being affected.
For those who have been described as "children in dilapidated buildings", rushing to do their homework is a painful experience. So why are parents reluctant to let their children catch up with their homework before school starts?
First of all, rushing homework brings a lot of stress and anxiety to children. The stress of staying up late every day to complete a lot of homework is detrimental to your child's physical and mental health.
Secondly, rushing homework will affect children's Xi effectiveness and interest. It is difficult for children to truly understand and digest what they have learned when they are in a hurry, resulting in poor learning Xi and may make them lose interest in learning Xi.
Third, rushing to do homework will increase the symptoms of back-to-school syndrome. While catching up with homework, children may also need to adjust to a new school environment, teachers, and classmates, and this stress stack can lead to the emergence of back-to-school syndrome, which can make children more miserable.
In the end, it is indeed an irresponsible parental performance behind the rush to do homework. Parents should play an important role in guiding their children to manage their time wisely, Xi and have fun in a planned manner, rather than making them rush to catch up with homework before school starts. Such inaction can have a long-term impact on a child's development.
In order to prevent children from becoming victims of "dilapidated buildings", how should parents play a good role in education?
First of all, parents should attend the school's parent-teacher conference to learn about the school's guidance for summer vacation. In this way, you can effectively grasp the arrangements and requirements during the summer vacation, and help your child make a reasonable plan.
Secondly, parents should pay attention to their children's Xi progress, encourage them to complete their homework on time, and avoid cramming before the start of school. Parents can discuss with their children to make a reasonable schedule and plan to break down homework tasks to help them complete their homework ahead of time and avoid impromptu situations.
Third, parents can encourage their children to seek help from teachers or classmates. If children encounter difficulties in homework and do not know how to do it, parents can guide them to seek advice from teachers or classmates to help them solve problems and improve their learning Xi.
Finally, parents should work with their children to plan Xi and recreational activities during the summer vacation to help them establish good time management and XiXi habits. During the holidays, parents can encourage their children to participate in some meaningful extracurricular activities and carry out some challenging Xi tasks to improve their children's overall quality.
In conclusion, parents play an important role in their children's education. We are not only our children's supporters, but also their guides and supporters. Let's work together to create a better Xi environment for children so that they can have a happy holiday season. I'd love to know your thoughts on this issue. Please leave a comment in the comments section and discuss with us.