Since the premiere of "It's All Good", Gao Lu has once again become the focus of the audience's attention because of his role as "Wu Fei" in the play.
Compared with the cold character of "Lin Xiaoniang", the tolerance and understanding shown in the play have successfully touched the hearts of many audiences.
She couldn't understand why a woman with a higher education would choose a man like Su Mingzhe who was both face-conscious and extremely selfishWhen I first saw this scene, I always thought that divorce was the best choice for Wu Fei.
When I read "It's All Good" again, I suddenly realized that the real "ruthless person" is actually her who settled in the United States."
After the death of Su's mother, the true face of the Su family was completely presented in everyone's sight.
As the youngest daughter-in-law in the family, Julie burst into tears and was short of breath at the funeral. In daily life, he misses his mother-in-law very strongly, and often keeps nagging about Su's mother's merits.
Compared to Wu Fei, he shows two completely different emotional states, there is no sadness at all, and his calm attitude makes people feel both cold and ruthless.
When Su Mingzhe lost control of his emotions due to the death of his mother, Wu Fei still deeply missed his career and the opportunity to "date".
It is clear that the relationship between the eldest daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law appears to be quite distant. Although she is my granddaughter, I have always maintained a cold attitude towards her. If she is really concerned, she will do her best instead of finding all kinds of reasons and excuses to shirk it.
From my personal point of view, Wu Fei is a very sane person, because the sudden death of Su's mother caught both of them off guard.
Those who have passed away, those who are still alive still need to move on with their lives. Life is like the temperature when people drink water, and Wu Fei knows the real relationship between her and Su Mingzhe.
As a mother of a child, it is understandable to worry about your baby's capriciousness and feel a little unbearable.
Wu Fei clarified the facts for Su Mingzhe and his leaders at the first time, which also reflected his benevolence and righteousness. His death reminded me of his mother, my mother-in-law. Regarding why he did not choose to return to China to express his condolences, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is vividly shown in the following episodes.
As the eldest daughter-in-law of the Su family, Wu Fei needed Su's mother's support the most during pregnancy.
According to traditional Chinese Xi, it is Li's responsibility for her in-laws to confinement her daughter-in-law, but Su's mother chose to refuse because she felt troublesome.
In order to completely cut off Wu Fei's thoughts, he made up a "lie". Due to Su Daqiang's hearing loss, he could not fly.
At first, Wu Fei never expressed doubts or sympathy for his in-laws' hard work. After the death of his mother-in-law, he raised his son and daughter alone and took them to the hospital. In the end, he brought his mother to his side and experienced the most difficult time of his life.
Wu Fei's mother chose to retire early for the sake of her confinement, which led to some losses in her property.
As a daughter, she doesn't actually care about anything?No, Wu Fei is an extremely rational person, and she can be at ease with what she encounters without touching her own interests.
After Su's mother's funeral, Su Daqiang expressed his desire to move to the United States. The "lie" was finally coldly presented in front of his eyes, and Wu Fei completely changed his worldview.
From the perspective of the daughter-in-law, this attitude of "rejection" and "coldness" may be unbearable for anyone.
Considering the predicament faced by Su Mingcheng and Su Mingzhe, it is obvious that the old family is more considerate than the second child. However, Wu Fei, as the eldest daughter-in-law, was "ignored" by her mother-in-law, which made her realize what she had done wrong
Julie burst into tears, this is because she did receive the sincere care and care of Su's mother.
Wu Fei received the same meticulous care and well-prepared meals as his family treated his daughter, which was a special treatment he had never experienced.
In this context, Wu's irrational behavior, I think, is reasonable.
Why do you call her a "ruthless person"?
After learning about Su Mu's untruths, Wu Fei did not carry out any form of "tossing", but calmly made a choice to punish the other party in the other party's way.
Su Mingzhe actually didn't understand why Su Mu would take such a differentiated approach. We may be able to understand the feelings of the wife, but the deep pain is difficult to detect.
Why did Su's mother lie and take different attitudes towards her two daughters-in-law?Why would she do that?Considering Su Mingzhe's identity background, he is an American student and a proud star in his family.
In Su's mother's opinion, Wu Fei's daughter-in-law may not be worthy of her child.
Born in Shanghai, the daughter-in-law is full of intelligence and pride. A strong woman like Su Mu, in order to consolidate her position in the family, always wants to suppress each other.
In the family, the status of Wu Fei and Su Mingzhe is particularly important. The audience can clearly feel that the decision-making power of the family is completely in the hands of the woman, especially Su Mingzhe's mother
The next thing to discuss is the issue of geographical distance, which is not only a geographical distance between China and the United States, but also involves the issue of elderly care.
Wu Fei and Su Mingzhe were thousands of miles apart, and frankly, there was not much expectation between them. His choice was too simple – all he had to do was do what he loved. Only by choosing Su Mingcheng and Zhu Li is the most appropriate decision, so there will be a different way to deal with it.
Obviously, Wu Fei and Zhu Li are very different in personality and behavior, and the latter seems to be easier to manipulate compared to the former.
Julie is a person full of emotions, and although she and Su Mingcheng have divorced, at family gatherings, she still thinks about past feelings and shows a high level of compassion in her character.
However, Wu Fei's situation was completely different, as long as any interests were involved, she would immediately become alert.
When purchasing a residence, he made it clear that he wanted to use the old mansion **, and cleverly named Su Daqiang's retirement residence Su Mingzhe, and every step of the planning seemed very careful.
In addition, whenever it comes to the affairs of the Su family, Wu Fei has his unique way of dealing with them and strategies.
To take a simple example, when she learned that Su Daqiang was about to get married, she immediately thought it was a very good thing and agreed with both hands.
Considering that the father-in-law was cared for by others, it is unlikely that he would make noise in the United States that would affect his daily life.
However, when he learned that the other party intended to add the nanny's name to the real estate deed, Wu Fei immediately demonstrated his astounding analytical skills and strategy.
She first got in touch with Su Mingyu, and then with Mingcheng, and expressed very different views to the two.
Mingcheng's weakness lies in Su Mu. He thought that if his mother-in-law was not around, his son would definitely not love him so much. Regarding the degree of her mother-in-law's love for this son, although Wu Fei did not express it clearly in words, she was very clear in her heart. Even Mingyu will take action when Mingcheng is emotionally impulsive, and the participation of such a player adds an extra layer of security to him.
Her sanity allowed her to stop Su Mingcheng forcefully, and the problem would not become too big. In addition to these, tensions between family members can also be eased by improving emotional intelligence.
No matter from what point of view, Wu Fei is always a person who can sit back and enjoy his success.
In addition to these, when Wu Fei encounters some more complex problems, he can always find Mingyu as soon as possible and express his predicament in a detour way, instead of being honest with each other like Zhu Lina.
Frankly speaking, Wu Fei currently lives in the United States, she is very familiar with every member of the family, and her character is very innocent
Compared with Zhu Li's confusion and miswords, I think such a person is more suitable for deep friendship, and it is obvious that Wu Fei does not belong to this kind of person.
Su Mingzhe likes to be the center of attention, and Wu Fei rarely gets involved.
But as long as it comes to her quality of life, she will not hesitate to stand up and clarify her position as soon as possible.
From a certain point of view, this kind of behavior may win the respect of men to some extent, but in my opinion, this is the most real side of life, which deserves to be carefully experienced and savored by everyone.
After Su Mingzhe lost his job, Wu Fei took on the heavy responsibility of the family alone.
In such an environment, Su Mingzhe still pretends to be very fat and proudly plays the role of "great filial son", which is fair to Wu Fei
In order to put a stop to her husband's misconduct, she suggested that the child be brought back to the country and raised by the parents themselves. Su Mingzhe finally decided to postpone it, hoping to avoid his wife's sharp spirit, and he never really understood Wu Fei's decision.
From my personal point of view, Wu Fei and the people of the Su family are very clear, and this is not her personal fault.
When faced with such an ambiguous in-law, if Wu Fei chooses to obey, then she will only be able to face a piece of chicken feathers in her life. Fortunately, despite her "ruthlessness", her rationality is excellent.
Wu Fei never made any calculations against the people of the Su family, he just silently stayed in his own small world, living a quiet life behind closed doors.
From the beginning to the end, he only made a simple request to the Su family, that is, to take care of the confinement, but such a small request was finally refused.
In addition to these, Su Mingzhe is still continuing to send money to his family, from the perspective of a bystander, I think Wu Fei's "ruthlessness" is more out of interests than out of favors.
For many years, the couple was barely dependent on family members. Therefore, maintaining a respectful observation attitude for a long time is also a way of thinking in Wu Fei's heart.
If you can't even maintain your face, you have to force yourself to "rush to the boss", which is the biggest sorrow in life.
In the face of Su Mingzhe's lifestyle, Wu Fei was not because of her indifference, but because she knew that the plight of her in-laws' family was so complicated and tricky.
Mingyu was beaten, Mingcheng was detained, Su Daqiang had to eat and drink, and Wu Fei saw it very thoroughly.
In order to take care of his elderly father, Su Mingzhe not only tried to reduce the financial burden on his wife and children, but also did not hesitate to ask them for money, this kind of selfish filial piety is really regrettable.
Finally, in the midst of all the trivialities of daily life, Wu Fei gradually became more pragmatic, and her indifference and selfishness became her protective colors.
Some people say they have a deep affection for Julie, believing her to be a kind-hearted and principled person.
I have a different perspective on the subtleties of everyday life. Only when Su Mingyu took off the fig leaf did she truly realize her mistake, otherwise she and Su Mingcheng would still be lying on the credit book with no gain.