On the Internet, such a topic was inadvertently clicked:
What is the most troublesome thing for parents during this special period?
The most commented comments turned out to be"The child is addicted to games, can't control it, and goes crazy
1 Affects the body
Once the child is addicted to the game, he will put all his mind on the mobile phone or computer, the most common way is to take advantage of the parents' rest, hide in the bed to play mobile phones, play games, parents sometimes think that the child is resting. What's more, they will secretly play games until midnight, which not only seriously affects sleep, but also overuses their eyes, causing great damage to the body.
2 Difficulty concentrating
Once a child's mind is used in games, he will be like losing his soul, he will not pay attention to other things, and he will not want to write homework or read every day;Especially in class, the attention will be very inattentive, the state of the learning Xi is very poor, the teacher is frequently criticized, or the school is punished for copying, etc., the learning Xi will naturally plummet.
3 Disgusted with school
Children who are addicted to games, their minds are full of games, they are not in a state of class, they don't have the heart to listen to what the teacher says, they can't write their homework when they go home, and their homework is difficult, so they want to play games more and more, and the vicious circle will only make children reject the school, so they begin to lie, from the initial anxiety to the later peace of mind.
As long as parents find out that their children are addicted to online games, they will be frightened, psychologically anxious, eager to catch the child immediately, a beating, in order to pinch off his Internet addiction, so that most parents feel at ease, most parents are this way, but the result is often that the mobile phone has fallen countless units, and the hangers have been broken several times, but the child has not repented at all;So a desperate heart overwhelmed the parents, and the parent-child relationship deteriorated even more. In fact, the most important things are often ignored by parents.
Parent-child activities are very popular in recent years, parent-child activities are a series of outdoor activities led by parents to participate and cooperate with each other in the form of families, in parent-child activities, which can not only exercise children's independent ability, but also enhance the feelings between parents and children.
Here are a few recommended ways to interact with parents and children, which may be helpful to you
1.Make eye contact
A newborn baby spends a lot of his day in a big sleep, so you should very much cherish the limited time he has to open his eyes, look at him, and let him see you. Babies have the ability to recognize different faces of people very early, and I believe you must hope that your children can remember the appearance of their parents as soon as possible. Then every time your baby looks at you, his memory has accumulated a little more.
2.Talk, the more the merrier
Perhaps, all you get at first is a blank look from your baby, but don't give up and pause where you want him to respond, and give your baby some time. It doesn't take long for your baby to pick up the rhythm of the conversation and fill in the gaps you leave him with a friendly "babbling".
3.Enjoy the exchange of delicious moments
Breastfeeding is a great opportunity to connect with your baby. Humming softly or talking to him as he sucks sweetly, even just caressing his soft hair, will deepen the bond between you once again.
4.A game of sticking out your tongue
Studies have shown that babies as young as two days old are able to imitate simple facial movements – an early sign of their problem-solving skills.
5.Look for yourself
Let your baby see themselves in the mirror. At first, he may think it's another cute little friend, and then he will find that he can make that "little friend" wave and smile – a game that all babies will love.
6.Scratch
Scratch the soles of his little feet, or gently tickle him, and he will be happy. And, laughter is the first step in developing a sense of humor.
Toys are not only used to play, but also should be helpful to children, it is recommended that parents should choose more educational toys, educational toys can not only exercise children's concentration, observation, hand-eye coordination, help children with mental training, improve children's IQ, reduce the time to watch TV and play with mobile phones, but also let children play more and more!
For example, for small babies, you can choose some early education toys that grind ears. Older children can choose toys that require hand-eye coordination to exercise their hands-on skills.
I highly recommend this "live" paper toy from Japan - "Shocking Jaw Drop: Nakamura Kaiji Dynamic Paper Toy" to help children develop their intelligence.
Origami originated in China, and after it was introduced to Japan, it developed rapidly, and even became a "quintessence" art. In homeschooling, Japanese parents are very supportive of their children's play with origami.
When I saw this set of small toys, I couldn't believe that they were made of paper, they could jump and jump, and the children cheered and refused to let go.
I was also planted in an instant.
Penguin bombs, flat paper shells, casually thrown away, immediately surprise bounce
At present, the Chinese version has been introduced in China - "Shocking Chin Nakamura Kaiji Dynamic Paper Toy".
Surprisingly, after the improvement of the Chinese version, there is a pressure line on the paper mold, and the child can easily fold it with a pick.
Such a fun handicraft, children can make it by themselves!It's so attractive.
In my experience, as long as you can keep your baby busy, she won't want to watch TV or play with her phone.
Sure enough, after buying it back, my baby and father rushed to play, and one big and one small were dragged back to reality.
If you want your child to let go of electronic products, dark punishment is the next policy, setting rules is the middle policy, and realistic attraction is the best policy to cure both the symptoms and the root causes.
If you're also concerned about your child playing with electronic devices for a long time, try these paper devices, which will be a great playmate to bring your child back into the real world.
I summarized it all:
Isn't one of the big attractions of the screen the visual impact?The switching of colors and pictures makes children unable to stop.
But what is on the screen can be seen by the child, but not touched.
The visual impact brought by the paper mechanism is created by the children themselves!
You see, from a simple piece of paper, the child folded and folded, and became three-dimensional!
Buckle it again, put on the little mechanism, mom, it's moving!
This transformation from 2D to 3D made Xiao Juan scream in surprise: Mom, look, a carriage pops out of the pumpkin!
Compared to other toys, it helps children open up a whole new world.
My biggest feeling is that the hidden small mechanism can inspire children to observe, and science is the foundation of learning Xi all science.
The second is the expansion of thinking. It leads children from flat to three-dimensional, and then to bouncing, and children's spatial reasoning and logical thinking are expanded step by step. This will be very helpful for learning geometry and physics in the future.
In the process of splicing, children will invest great patience and enthusiasm, and their concentration, ability, and hands-on ability can be improved, and they can really use their hands and brains.
Dad and child rush to play, and then divide labor and work together to complete a work. A paper mechanism that fills the whole family with laughter.
Wow, there is a frog hidden in the crocodile's mouth, oh no, it's a turtle, oh no, it's a little crocodile.
If you want your child to put down their mobile phone, if you want to accompany the baby with high quality, you might as well try the paper mechanism, it will bring you multiple surprises.
The original version that a friend carried back from Japan before cost more than 200 yuan. After the domestic improvement, 8 more toys were included, and the price was only 99$9!
99.9 yuan, make 18 paper toys, one is only more than 5 yuan, and it is only the money of a popsicle, which can make the child put down the mobile phone and play happily for many days!
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