The basis of marriage is love, but love does not always start from the end, and if the husband and wife do not get along harmoniously, there will be a lot of deviations in the middle of the marriage.
But marriage is not like love, you can turn away. Marriage is a responsibility, a responsibility to your partner, even if you don't love it, a commitment to the family.
Even if you have a new favorite halfway, you can't ignore the original marriage, but handle it properly.
So, if two married people have real feelings for each other, there is only one way out, and that is divorce, and then they can start a new life.
Love can be said to be transferable, but marriage has to come at a heavy cost.
The uncertainty of love determines its changeability, and the two people who decide to take marriage as a contract may not be able to go to the end.
After all, before marriage and after marriage are two things, two people who are suitable for getting along before marriage may not be able to get along well after marriage.
There are too many couples who frown because of the pressures of life. No matter how much love was before, in the end, because of mutual incomprehension and self-grievances, the original love turned into complaining.
And once the marriage appears, in this case, the appearance of the newlyweds becomes extraordinarily fresh and beautiful, like a fish that is accustomed to life at the bottom of the lake and suddenly comes ashore.
But marriage is not a joke, there are too many people and things involved here to say the end, unless you pay a heavy price.
After all, for two married people, once they have made up their minds to be together, they must first deal with the original marriage.
If you always choose to run away and hide, you will not only harm your significant other life, but you will also bring untold pain and suffering to your family.
Therefore, before making such a decision, both parties need to think calmly and not be selfish.
Otherwise, in the end, all other family relationships will be forced away because of your irresponsibility, except for having each other.
If you can't move on from your last marriage, you can't really start a new life.
Truth be told, to end a marriage cleanly and without interfering with a new life, you need not only a strong heart, but also a heart that goes all out.
Some people obviously have a new relationship outside of marriage, and they also want to be with the person outside of marriage, but they can't let go of the wealth and affection in their existing marriage.
Therefore, he enjoys the beauty of the affair with the man he has an extramarital relationship, but he is unwilling to make it clear to his family that he is irresponsible for the injustice of the other half.
Such a choice seems to be good, neither to atone for the sake of appeasing the family, nor to quarrel with the other half.
But in fact, for two married people, if it is not as good as the current marriage, when the day they are discovered by their families, the two can only fall into the abyss of depravity.
In the eyes of the world, you have become disloyal and irresponsible, and your true feelings are no longer supported by others.
People are destined to not be able to live in a secret world, unable to completely detach themselves from the satisfaction of family and loved ones, so if the relationship is not blessed and supported by relatives, everything will become very difficult.
Therefore, if you believe that the other person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, then be prepared to face storms from your current family, but more importantly, to face disappointment and blame from your current partner.
Indecision can't solve the problem, a quick solution can.
Running away will only make the problem more serious, and timely honesty will lead to forgiveness, the desire to be stripped from the current marriage, and a new life can be started.
It's normal to feel scared because if you confess you will be accused of betrayal, but indecision will only hurt two people who love you deeply.
Or, you can't make up your mind because after weighing the pros and cons, you stop moving forward and you don't love the lover who is also going through the trials of marriage for you.
So, it's actually a great opportunity to test your feelings for each other, if you really love each other as you think you are, and if you can really do everything for each other.
If your answer is yes, then you should address the issue quickly, even if you explain it clearly to the person now and handle it properly.
Although, in the face of your behavior, you will feel angry and aggrieved at the moment, as long as you sacrifice enough and your attitude is sincere enough, you will not leave a heart that has long drifted away.
The risk of feelings is high, and the edge of the beginning is not a**. But one thing, no matter what happens to the last two people, not hurting each other is the best option.
It is only when you break up from your previous marriage completely and peacefully that you can feel comfortable together after the divorce.