Moving is a common thing in life, whether it is due to the needs of life or a change in the family, it is a common turning point in life.
A new place represents the unknown and anticipation, while an old place carries the past and memories, and there are many things to remember at this critical time.
For the current generation of young people, moving is all about moving from one place to another, just bringing their necessities with them, and what they don't need to throw away.
But in fact, there is a saying among the elderly: "If you don't throw away three moves, you throw away the good luck powder." "Do you know what these three are?Don't ignore it.
First: Don't throw away family memories.
Home is where we grow up, where we spend time with our loved ones, and where we make countless precious memories.
Whether it is joy or tears, it is like a heavy photo album, recording the growth and changes of the whole family.
But if you throw these things away when you move, you lose your original self and lose that part of your emotions.
Before graduating from university, Yingkou lived with her parents in the old neighborhood. After working and saving some money, the family decided to sell their old house and move to a new one.
When she moved, in order to save trouble, Yingzi threw away many toys and photo albums in her childhood collection, she felt that these were old items, and it was useless to keep them, so it was better to throw them away.
But then Yingzi regretted it, and when she was in trouble, she remembered the bear that her grandfather bought for her and the photo album that recorded the family's happy scenes.
However, the dolls and photo albums that carried the past have long been lost to her, and even if she regrets it now, she will never find them again.
Home is a container of memories where we have footprints around every corner. That corner is the game of childhood;That window is where we peek into our dreams.
Memories are a part of our lives, both good and bad, and they shape our character and trajectory, so don't easily throw away the things that carry your memories.
Second: Don't give up on your old relationship.
When we live in a place for a long time, our relatives and neighbors around us are our important social relationships.
However, many people completely cut off ties with their previous place after moving and want to leave the past behind and start a new life.
In fact, this practice is not advisable, because feelings are the most precious wealth in life.
Wei Dong, 40, and his wife spent all their savings to buy a new house in the city because their son was going to school in the city.
From the moment he moved home, Wei Dong decided to cut ties with the people of his hometown.
He didn't want his new neighbors to know that he was from the countryside for fear of affecting his son's friendship and education.
Because of Wei Dong's ruthlessness, friends and relatives no longer contacted their families.
Every holiday, Wei Dong can only spend time with his wife and children, and no one can come to visit, let alone visit their family.
In fact, whether the family is happy or not has a lot to do with the prosperity of the family, if you choose to abandon your neighbors after moving, then your family will gradually become cold and impersonal.
Over time, this apathy can have a serious negative impact on your family.
Third: Don't throw away your family's cultural heritage.
Every family has its own cultural heritage, which is the memories and rules left by the older generation.
If you throw it away, you will ignore the family lineage and you will meet with misfortune.
Mr. Ji never cared about family affairs. After the death of his parents, he and his wife moved in with their son.
When he moved, Mr. Ji lost his family tree and some of his grandfather's relics.
In his opinion, these are old things, they have no value to preserve, and they take up space, so they are lost.
But later, when his son got married and wanted to invite his relatives, Mr. Ji became worried. The family tree records the names and addresses of all relatives, and now Mr. Ji doesn't know anyone anymore.