The 56-year-old aunt cried that the water in ballroom dancing was too deep, and dancing ballroom dancing made me lose everything
Many people are still passionate about dancing despite being told that ballroom dancing is risky. But what if something happens?After all, it will be you who will regret it. In fact, there are many other ways to exercise and pass the time. It doesn't have to be ballroom dancing, because there are too many accidents in this event.
I hope that this case will be brought to the attention of the elderly. Try doing something else, and you don't have to choose ballroom dancing. Don't wait until something goes wrong to realize it's time to jump again. By then, it was too late. What the hell is going on?Let's take a look at this case. The 56-year-old aunt shared her story:
I'm homeless now. It's all my fault. My husband and I spent 30 years together and should have been happy. We have children and grandchildren, and we have a pension. Why did I ruin all this?Because my husband doesn't want me anymore. I apologized to him and asked for a chance.
I vowed never to make the same mistake again. But he replied to me: "If an apology can solve the problem, do you need the police and the law?"I warned you not to go ballroom dancing, you have to go. Now that there is an accident, who is to blame?"How many times did he tell you over and over again?
You're going to jump like this now. Go back when you find the answer, you want to dance so much, now I'll set you free. No one will care about you in the future. You can do whatever you want. He slammed the door shut.
My son advised me, "Let's go back to my hometown for a while, and then come back when he is angry." "Now they can't persuade him, after all, it's really my fault. I cried, very sadly. I caused all of this. I hope that through my personal experience, I can remind all seniors.
I went ballroom dancing because I was too bored. At first, my husband scolded me. "There are so many other things that can be done, so why not do it," he saidI replied, "It's not interesting to do anything else, no one is with me." But ballroom dancing is different, with someone to accompany you, and you can also exercise. "Please don't blame me for this, I'll take care of it.
Hearing me say this, my husband is even more angry. He stressed that it was not a matter of proportion, and that it was dangerous for a woman to go dancing. He offered to wait until he got off work before jumping with me. He was a security guard and only left work at 9 p.m. I replied, "I have already come back from dancing after you get off work at 9 o'clock, dancing so late affects your sleep, and you are also tired, you should rest." "So I decided to jump on my own, and he just had to come back and get some rest. I promised him that he would never go home past 10 o'clock, at most 9 o'clock, and never more than 10 o'clock.
My husband was so angry that he wanted to dance with me, but I didn't. In addition to the fact that he doesn't have time, I don't want to jump with him because he's clumsy. He doesn't understand romance and always steps on my foot when dancing. Many women are reluctant to dance with their husbands for different reasons, and here are the reasons for me.
I didn't listen to my husband's advice, so I went for the jump anyway. Every time he came to pick me up, I was already home. I told him that I would come back around 9 o'clock, but most of the time I came home after 8 o'clock, and like many older people, they came home after 8 o'clock to take a shower and sleep.
My husband wanted to come and see me dancing, but I always came back too early. He didn't want to see me jump, he just wanted to know what I was doing, or to supervise me. I told him that this surveillance made me feel constrained and that I would not allow him to come to see me again.
We got into an argument because of this, and he rarely came to see me. If he leaves work too late, I'll be done dancing. While dancing, I got to know a man in his 60s named Lao Zhang.
Lao Zhang invited me to dance together, and he said that dancing can exercise and make friends, and that when you are old, you need friends and be happy. I think he has a point. I used to have a sore back, but after dancing, I felt that my back was not sore, my legs didn't hurt, and I didn't even have trouble climbing the eighth floor. It's all thanks to ballroom dancing.
Lao Zhang actually suggested that I go to his house with me today. Although he didn't say it directly, I sensed his hint. He told me that there was only one person in his family, and then said that there were a lot of things I liked at home and that he would like to go to dinner together.
We're just friends, so how could he ask me to go to his house for dinner?I began to wonder what he was dancing with me. It was obviously to exercise, but I thought he had other intentions and wanted me to go to his house.
When a man invites a woman to his house, there must be something going on, right?I don't dare to think about it. I declined his invitation, no matter how much he tried to persuade me. I can't dance with him anymore.
Lao Zhang didn't just want to invite me to dinner. I didn't tell my husband that if he knew, he wouldn't let me dance with him anymore. I found a new dance partner, Lao Liu, who is not much older than me, 59 years old. He has retired due to illness.
Lao Liu was very good to me and took the initiative to take care of me. I like people to be nice to me, so I slowly accept his kindness. He often invited me to drink water and sometimes took me out to eat and drink milk tea. At first I refused, and people with families can't easily accept this.
But Lao Liu is too enthusiastic, I can't refuse. Gradually, we did more and more things and even went shopping together. If you don't understand our relationship, you will think that we are husband and wife. I realized that Lao Liu didn't just want to dance, otherwise he wouldn't be so enthusiastic and even spend money.
Every time you go out to eat, you spend a lot of money. I began to distance myself from Lao Liu, and realized that he was not simple, and he didn't just want to be friends.
Would you be nice to your friends for no reason?Will you spend money on friends for no reason?There must be a purpose. When I understood this, I quickly left.
Why can't men just enjoy dancing?I just want to dance to the heart's content, but they always complicate things. Why?Isn't it possible to simply dance?I thought that only some people would be like this, but I didn't expect that Lao Liu would also be included.
I told my friend about it, but I didn't expect a man named Lao Chen to be very disgusted with those who thought too much.
Lao Chen complained to me: "Why can't they focus on dancing?"We dance to exercise and make friends. These men are truly black sheep. "At first, I agreed with Lao Chen, so I danced with him. At the time, I thought it was just a very rare case, and it was definitely not for everyone.
So, I didn't pay much attention to what happened before, after all, nothing happened. It's just that I discovered their motives. Now I have found a more upright person, so I took the initiative to invite Lao Chen to dance with me.
At the beginning, I thought Lao Chen was quite good, at least more sincere, and had no bad intentions. Despite this, I didn't expect Lao Chen to think deeper.
On the surface, he was just dancing with me, but in reality he was duplicitous. Give me gifts frequently and convey some subtle messages. At one point I thought he was teaching me, but then I realized that he was trying to express his wishes, but I thought I didn't understand.
Later, I learned that Lao Chen's intentions were even more excessive. He has a wife, but he wants to have an affair with me. "Although we have our own partners, it doesn't affect our private relationships," he said. This is our private matter, and we have the right to pursue happiness and excitement. ”
He thinks we're a good fit and we're happy and happy together, especially when we're dancing. But I felt that he was trying to force us close to me, and even forced us to be together, which scared me.
I pushed Lao Chen away and left in a hurry. When I got home, my heart was filled with fear. My husband came back and asked me why I came home early and didn't we go dancing with me todayI deliberately didn't work overtime, I wanted to dance with you.
I finally understood that only my husband was sincere to me, and that other men were hiding their minds when they danced with me. Lao Chen, Lao Zhang, Lao Liu, they ostensibly danced with me to make friends and fitness, but in fact, they had their own ghosts. They don't do it sincerely.
I decided not to dance anymore and was almost on the verge of danger. I have a loving and obedient child with a happy family. Anything that concerns them will be a tragedy. I'm already a mature person, and I don't deserve to ruin everything for social dancing.
I don't dance anymore, I only watch TV and play with my mobile phone at home in the future, and I will never touch social dancing. It seems that women should not dance socially because those men have bad intentions. Not every woman can see through it, and not every woman can escape it.