I believe that many people have the experience of borrowing money, as the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow and repay, which is unanimously agreed by everyone. So whether you borrow money or are borrowed, you want to pay it back as soon as possible. If one day you borrow money, but the other party doesn't want you to pay it back, will such a good thing happen?The brothers are still settling accounts, not to mention that they are not blood relatives. If so, there must be something else going on.
Mr. Chen got married the year before last, because there was still a gap of 150,000 yuan in the down payment for buying a house, he asked many people but did not borrow it, and finally had to find his aunt. Unexpectedly, the aunt, who was not wealthy, readily agreed. After 2 years, Mr. Chen saved up 150,000 yuan and hurriedly sent it to his aunt, but the aunt said that the money should not be returned, but you have to be responsible.
My father died when I was 4 years old, and the family had no breadwinner, and life was tight, and all the income was dependent on my mother working in the fields. Because the family was poor, my mother had to borrow money every time I went to study. Every time I borrowed money, my mother came back with red eyes, and she couldn't borrow it once or twice, so she basically asked half the village to get it.
So since I was a child, my biggest fear was borrowing money, and I know that many people don't borrow, not because they don't have money, but because they are afraid that they won't be able to repay us if they borrow. It's just that I didn't expect that one day I would still have to ask someone to borrow money, and once I borrowed it, it would be a large amount.
When I was about to get married the year before last, in order to give my wife a stable place to live, I decided to buy a house in the county seat. It was only after looking at the house that I knew that the down payment was 260,000, and I only had 110,000 in my hand at that time, so it was impossible not to buy a house, so I could only grit my teeth and borrow it from relatives and friends.
I found a lot of people, but they didn't want to borrow, and in the end I really had no choice, so I had to call ** to my aunt. My aunt is 65 years old, and she is alone, and she borrows money from her, which is really unbearable to be honest. After all, everyone is so old, not to mention whether they have money or not, can they wait until I repay it if they borrow it?
To my surprise, after I explained my intention to my aunt, my aunt asked me how much I was missing, and happily asked me to get the money in two days. The money for the house was finally settled, and my hanging heart was also relieved. It's just that I'm a little confused that my aunt has so much money, of course, I just thought about it, and didn't dig into it, after all, there is nothing more important than buying a house and getting married.
Two days later, I took the money and bought the house smoothly and the wedding was held as scheduled. On the day of the wedding, the aunt came, she came with a gift of 10,000 yuan, I was particularly surprised, the aunt borrowed money, after all, this is to be repaid, what is the purpose of such a big gift, usually between relatives everyone defaults to 300 within 300, can package 500 is already very generous. It wasn't until I went to pay back the money that I realized that my aunt was doing this for a purpose.
After getting married, my wife and I were frugal, so I thought about paying back the money to my aunt as soon as possible, after all, she was also old and lonely, so it was better to keep some money by her side. After saving for more than two years, I finally got together 150,000 yuan, and the next day at dawn, I ran to my aunt's house.
When I arrived at my aunt's house, it was almost noon, my aunt was cooking, she was very surprised to see me, I should be at work at this point, but now I appeared at her house, I happily said to her: "Auntie, I am here to repay the money, if it weren't for your help the year before last, I wouldn't have been able to buy the house so smoothly, and the wedding date may be postponed." I'm embarrassed to borrow it for so long, but now I've finally saved enough money, so I'll pay you back quickly. ”
After listening to my intentions, my aunt wiped her hands on her apron, walked out of the kitchen, stopped before and after me, and said, "The 150,000 yuan I gave you, you don't have to pay it back." As soon as I heard that I didn't have to pay it back, I hurriedly stuffed the money into my aunt's hand: "Then what's the matter, 150,000 is not a small amount, you are alone, and this money should be kept for you for the elderly." ”
My aunt put the money on the table, came over and grabbed my hand, patted the back of my hand, and asked with a smile: "Yes, it is my pension money, so the money is given to you, and you have to provide for me in the future." "I was a little panicked when I heard it, and I said that it was a loan, but I didn't mention the matter of pension.
The aunt continued: "Do you know where this money came from?I, an old man with no income, how could I have so many deposits, at that time, I mortgaged the house in the county town to the bank and borrowed it from the bank. In the past two years, because I had no money to repay, the bank auctioned the house, and I became a dishonest person. "I finally understood that my aunt not only had the money to lend me, but also wrapped up such a big gift.
The aunt also said that the price of the house has risen a lot in the past two years, and if she didn't take the house as a mortgage back then, it would have appreciated a lot now, far more than the current 150,000. So my 150,000 is completely not enough. She said that she would not accept the money now, and let us provide for her in the future.
I was speechless by my aunt, and I didn't know how to reply to her for a while. In the end, I had to drop the sentence "I'll discuss it with my daughter-in-law" and ran away. After all, it is not easy to raise an old man, there are parents at home, and the daughter-in-law's parents are still alive, so it makes sense to raise anyone, and it is not the turn to raise an aunt no matter how you say it. It's just that who makes himself the first to lose?What to do or discuss with your daughter-in-law!
In the eyes of many people, the relationship between aunts is not so close, but they are also biological sisters in their mother's generation, breaking bones and connecting tendons, taking care of aunts is the same as taking care of their own parents. What's more, she helped us so boldly before, and because of my relationship, the house was auctioned, and now she has difficulties, and we can't ignore it. In the end, my wife and I decided to provide for my aunt and pay her back a lot of money.