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In traditional Chinese culture, funerals are a way to express mourning and respect.
However, there is a popular saying: "If a husband and wife do not send a funeral, the funeral will suffer", implying that husbands and wives cannot participate in each other's funerals.
So, why is there such a statement?
Ancient societies valued family harmony and social order.
At a funeral, couples, as the main members of the family, need to deal with a lot of affairs and relationships.
However, due to the special status and status of couples, it is often difficult for them to bear the grief of bereavement and cope with the complications of a funeral.
Therefore, in order to protect the physical and mental health of couples and family harmony, and to avoid them being subjected to excessive stress and emotional burden at the funeral, the ancients believed that couples should not participate in the funeral.
In addition to traditional beliefs and cultural Xi, there are also some factors in real life that lead to the phenomenon of couples not sending funerals.
First of all, couples are usually older and may not be physically stronger than younger people.
Participating in a funeral requires a lot of physical and mental stress and the exertion of long journeys, which can adversely affect the couple's health.
Second, a funeral is usually a sad and emotional occasion.
As the core members of the family, couples need to remain calm and stable in order to cope with emergencies and reassure their families.
If couples lose control of their emotions or become unwell at a funeral, it can cause unnecessary distress and stress to family members and other participants.
In addition to the above two reasons, personal choice is also an important factor in determining whether a couple will participate in the funeral.
Some couples may choose not to participate in each other's funerals because of personal beliefs, emotional needs, or other reasons.
In this case, we should respect their choice and not impose interference or pressure.
At the same time, couples can also express their remembrance and condolences for their deceased loved ones in other ways.
For example, they can set up a commemorative tablet in their home, place a tablet** or hold a family commemoration event.
These are ways to keep their love of life and anticipation for the future while reminiscing about the past.
To sum up, the saying "if a husband and wife do not send a funeral, the funeral will suffer" reflects some concepts and considerations in ancient culture and real life.
Although this notion has faded in modern society, there are still some people who adhere to this practice.
We should respect everyone's choices and beliefs, and give them appropriate understanding and support.
At the same time, we should also inherit and promote the positive elements of traditional culture to promote family harmony and social progress.
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