The affectionate care that parents have for their children is to see them thrive and enjoy health and happiness. However, as children enter the student stage, the care of parents gradually evolves into a focus on studying hard, going to university, and pursuing graduate school.
Children may not realize why the daily routine, which once required only a good meal and a punctual sleep, has become difficult to return. Parents put more expectations and efforts into their children, and this gratitude is also mixed with an indescribable and indescribable sense of discomfort.
A parent's speech at the parent-teacher meeting of students has aroused widespread attention and discussion among netizens, and even formed some extreme opinions. What's going on?
At a parent-teacher conference in the second year of junior high school, although the academics were not as heavy as in high school, they still brought great pressure to parents. The diversion policy of the high school entrance examination has made many parents feel uneasy and troubled.
Students may not be aware of the outcome of the triage, but parents are aware of it. They themselves have been the beneficiaries of the diversion, and perhaps they have been victims. Therefore, they are giving their all to hope that their children will be able to move forward at this important time.
A parent stood on the podium, his eyes flashing with visible excitement, his cheeks flushed with excitement, and his voice choked to emphasize the importance of learning and his own sacrifices.
She expressed: I have never been addicted to mobile games in front of my children, nor have I participated in mahjong games. Whenever my child came home, I didn't hesitate to sit next to him, and I couldn't even sit up straight.
I firmly believe that my persistence will make him understand that because the second year of junior high school is a crucial stage, and once the balance is lost, it will become difficult to try again in the third year of junior high school. I don't want him to face the pressure of society too early and endure too much hardship. Therefore, as parents, we can only work harder, increase the time of companionship, and hope that our children can cultivate more gratitude.
After this parent finished speaking, some students were really moved to tears. They lamented the greatness of motherly love and watched her sit on the sidelines, regardless of exhaustion for the sake of companionship. They believe that as long as the mother puts in a little more hard work, the child can become better.
However, in the discussion in the comment area, this layer of emotion was torn apart. It has been pointed out that perhaps only the parents themselves and the students who were emotionally aroused at that time were truly moved.
Education should be rational guidance, and the biggest controversy about the mother's dedication is why she acquiesces in the child's acceptance of such sacrifices. Junior high school is not easy, after school, what role can my mother play by sitting next to me?
Think differently about whether parents are really willing to have parents sit and watch all the time while students are learning. What's more, even if he sits next to **, he keeps emphasizing that his waist is almost unable to stand up, and it is obviously illogical to use this as a reason for students to endure hardships, and it has a certain moral kidnapping color, which makes people feel suffocated. The parent seems to be moved by herself, believing that as long as she does her best for the student, the student will be able to study well.
In closing, she also emphasized that she hopes that students can learn to be grateful. Is this hard work a transaction, or something else?Is there a contradiction in her rhetoric?
In addition, some netizens questioned why some parents think that only by studying can they find a way out. This statement seems a bit too general, and it has to do with the individual's vision and social level.
In the case of a wealthy family, such a notion may not be found. Many merchant families prefer to let their children practice in the business field, and cultivate them through practical experience. For academics, as long as the grades are good, continue to study, and if they are not good, they will follow the fate, and will not be forced.
For those who have ordinary families, lack social support, and are unable to provide any help in their life and career development, they may only be able to understand through reading. This is a deficiency for them, not an inadequacy.
Author's Message: Although this parent was criticized for being too self-touched, and many netizens were disgusted by her self-righteous moral kidnapping, we cannot deny her dedication and sacrifice for the sake of her students.
The paradox is that she has chosen the wrong way and approach. This parent seems to lack the right understanding of improving student achievement, giving appropriate freedom, and establishing self-discipline.
In her opinion, as long as you behave pathetically enough and keep emphasizing in front of students, you can motivate students to study hard. If not, then it will be labeled as unfilial and ungrateful and unappreciated.
Such accusations usually make students compromise, and although it may not be psychologically pleasant, after all, parents have no malicious intentions, and children are difficult to blame. However, when encountering some rebellious children, such fragmented thoughts and passionate speeches with crying all the time may have the opposite effect and make them more tired of learning.
Moreover, if parents cannot change this way of self-touching and forced emotional output, even if the child does achieve excellent academic results and embark on the road to success in the future, the relationship with the family may not be truly intimate.
During the school years, it may be present for a long time due to an emotional deficit. Especially when parents use some means, although students may not develop hatred towards them, they may also lose some closeness, which is the price of the means.
Therefore, it is advisable to consult with local teachers and relevant education professionals on how to effectively motivate students to learn, rather than indiscriminately pouring bowl after bowl of motivational rhetoric.
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