From the perspective of China's social class, Sun Lanxiang was born at the bottom of the countryside and is the poorest family in the countryside, so it can be said that Sun Lanxiang's social environment is the lowest. She did not go to any good school, did not receive any education, did not receive a good ideological and political education, and even dropped out of school and went home to work as a farmer before graduating from junior high school. However, through unremitting efforts, she successfully crossed multiple levels, not only entered the top universities that everyone envied, but also won the wishes of everyone, became the daughter-in-law of the deputy secretary of the provincial party committee, and stepped into the upper echelons of society.
Sun Lanxiang has gradually grown from a poor woman to a real golden phoenix, what does she rely on?
It seems to me that with these five conditions alone, it is possible for her to turn around beautifully.
1. She came out of the shoulders of her parents and brothers.
Sun Yuhou, the head of the Sun family, believes that knowledge has the power to change a person's destiny. He first raised his younger brother, Sun Yuting, and although he failed in his education, his faith was not changed. Later, he worked hard to educate several of his children, and this belief deeply affected them. Sun Shaoan did his best to support his younger brother and sister's studies.
The Sun family's deep belief that knowledge has the power to change people's destiny is also the primary factor for Sun Lanxiang to enter junior high school, high school, and eventually university.
If she doesn't, she may give up her studies because of her poor family and being able to read a few words and write her name, as many rural children do.
She has a strong first foundation and strong beliefs, but she needs full support to ensure that she can continue her education.
Although the Sun family's financial situation is not well-off, the whole family is very united and close. The eldest brother, Sun Shaoan, has always unconditionally supported his sister's studies, and no matter how difficult life is, he firmly supports his sister to continue to go to school. When my sister was admitted to high school, the family bought her a bicycle and a schoolbag, and gave her a certificate, which was the best encouragement and praise for her daughter. That year, Sun Lanxiang learned that the junior high school course would be extended by half a year, and in order to alleviate the financial pressure on her family, she decided to give up her studies and return home to help. After learning of this situation, her father first expressed his support for her continued education and conveyed this message to Sun Shaoan, who patted his sister on the head without hesitation:
What's the big deal if it is extended for another half a year!You are about to finish junior high school with a lot of effort, how can you choose to drop out of school?After finishing junior high school, you plan to continue your high school career in Harashi!By then, your second brother has also returned from school. Me, my father, and your second brother, all three of us are working hard, can't we afford you alone?..
Although their conversation was sincere and lighthearted, it was a daunting task to provide an orchid for the three of them. Especially considering that Sun Shaoan and Sun Shaoping have reached the age of marriage, and there is a paralyzed adult grandmother on the bed, there is a lot of money to spend at home, but Sun Shaoan did not think too much, he firmly asked his sister to continue her studies.
As time passed, the family was separated, and the eldest brother who supported the whole family was also separated, which made Lan Xiang feel very frightened and worried. Because she knew that her eldest brother's father was a poor man, and her mother was even more disabled. Sun Shaoping took over the responsibility of his eldest brother, began to work hard to earn a meager income, and fully supported his sister to continue her education, from high school to college, Sun Shaoping was a strong backing.
The second pillar of Sun Lanxiang's ability to enter high school and college is the unwavering support of her parents and older brothers. They carried Sun Lanxiang on their shoulders, which meant that Sun Lanxiang walked out of the countryside and entered the university, and finally became a bright golden phoenix.
In a relationship of mutual assistance between siblings, if the other person is willing to lend a hand, it is out of deep affection, and it is their duty not to lend a hand.
The two brothers of the Sun family were like a relay baton, one after another on Lan Xiang's side, giving her support and help. So, what exactly is it about Lan Xiang that deserves their all the effort to help her?
2. Lan Xiang is a reasonable and grateful person.
Lan Xiang has been very sensible since she was a child, and when she was only four years old, she began pestering her father to weave a small basket for her, clasping it tightly around her arm every day, and then waddling under the dirt slope outside the yard to collect firewood.
There's a four-year-old kid who is still playing and causing trouble, but Lan Xiang already knows to help the adults. Even though she was just collecting some firewood, it was enough to make her parents and older brothers feel heartache. With such heartache, they naturally care more about her and want to take better care of her.
The home welcomed guests and prepared delicious food for them, but not all of them were finished and there was always more to come. Every morning when my grandmother eats breakfast, she always likes to leave some dishes for the guests to eat well. Every time a guest leaves, Lan Xiang disappears, and she always finds a place to hide. She understood that these delicious foods should be tasted by her grandmother first, so that not only her grandmother could not eat them, but also her father and brothers could enjoy them, because they had to work and work hard in the mountains.
Sun Shao'an lives in a dilapidated cave in the former Shila brick, while Lan Xiang is in high school. She prepares meals for her brother every day to make sure he has a hot bite to eat after a tiring day. When his brother forgot his birthday, Lan Wu not only remembered it, but also celebrated his brother's birthday.
Sun Shao'an, the rock-solid man who knew that his sister had saved three yuan in the bursary and bought him cabbage and white flour steamed buns, was celebrating his birthday with a strong spicy smell welling up in his nose and tears in his eyes.
is so reasonable, and knows how to care for her family, such a sister is really worthy of the care of her brothers.
After the separation, although Lan Xiang felt sad and scared, she was able to understand her eldest brother and sister-in-law, who had already given too much for this family and should be separated. Therefore, when the eldest brother handed her fifty yuan, she firmly refused.
She didn't want it, not because she wasn't short of money, but because she really needed it. She was desperate to buy a short-sleeved blouse, but she firmly refused because it was given to her by her eldest brother behind her sister-in-law's back. She didn't want her eldest brother to get into trouble, she wanted her eldest brother to live more spacious and comfortable.
After Lan Xiang successfully entered university, her second brother Sun Shaoping carefully prepared all kinds of items for her college life, including a leatherette suitcase, three sets of summer clothes, and many necessities such as soap, toothpaste, toothbrush, handkerchief, and cream. But her brother sent her to school, not her sister who came up with it herself, so she was very happy. Lan Xiang almost burst into tears when she saw everything that her second brother had carefully prepared for her. However, she suppressed her emotions and couldn't express her gratitude to her second brother excessively, as doing so might hurt the feelings of the eldest brother, especially considering that the eldest brother had already put a huge amount of effort into her studies before she left home.
Such a sensible and grateful sister, everyone will do their best to help her.
Through these two points of view of Lu Yao, we deeply realize that to achieve a certain goal, it is not the efforts of one person, but the joint efforts of the whole family. Each of us is a member of a family, and it is a responsibility and obligation to contribute to others. In this journey, we must hold strong faith, love each other deeply, support each other, and remain united. We must learn to influence others with a loving heart, because everyone will encounter some difficulties and problems that need to be solved together. Those who receive assistance should be grateful so that they can feel fulfilled and support you wholeheartedly.
This reflects the uniqueness of the Chinese. From the ancient times when the big family wanted to prosper, it needed the joint efforts of the whole family, to the later collective production, which was actually an idea, that is, everyone's strength should be concentrated together, so that no matter what difficulties we encounter, we will not be afraid and can overcome them.
Lan Xiang's rapid rise from a woman from a poor background to the upper echelons of society was not entirely due to the support of her father and brother, which was only a key factor in her success. Most importantly, she has to be resilient and constantly learning and exploring in order to adapt to the highly competitive and unpredictable business world. To forge iron, she must rely on her own abilities in order to move forward, which is a key ingredient in her success.
3. Lanxiang is a girl with clear goals and great integrity.
Can you still recall the experience of Wang Manyin accepting **?
When Lan Xiang and Shaoping returned home, they found that their sister Orchid was talking to her mother with tears streaming down her eyes on the kang, she was already overwhelmed with fright, and her mother was helpless and could only cry with her, and the two children were also scared to cry loudly. Standing on the kang, the grandmother could not hear the situation clearly, and mistakenly thought that something major had happened, so she cried loudly.
When the house is in chaos, Lanxiang realizes that she can't help, so she decides to feed the pigs.
It's really fascinating.
The house was in chaos, there was obviously no preparation for cooking, and soon my father and brother would come home for dinner, and the two nephews were crying uncontrollably, and no one cared about them anymore. Mom watched from the sidelines, feeling very uncomfortable. However, instead of cooking (since she is over thirteen years old and has mastered the art of cooking), she does not help coax her two little nephews, but instead chooses to feed the pigs.
Since the "bank" in the family is the money for the sale of pigs**, she and her second brother need to withdraw funds from this "bank" to pay for school fees, buy books, and other necessary learning tools.
In other words, the pig was seen as the future hope of the family, and in that era, providing food for the pigs was more critical and urgent than cooking and caring for the little nephew.
Lanxiang quickly locked to the heart of the matter and clarified her direction, so she decided to have a clear goal to feed the pigs.
When Lan Xiang was in junior high school, she considered giving up her studies because the junior high school curriculum needed to be extended for half a year. But with the persuasion of her father and older brother, she decided to study hard and was determined to attend university to meet her family's expectations of her.
After clarifying her learning goals, Lan Xiang did not mention dropping out of school again, but devoted herself wholeheartedly to her studies and was determined to enter university for further study.
She excelled academically and remained in the top three of her grade, whether it was Math, Foreign Language, Physics, Chemistry or Biology, and she was almost always filled in on these functional exams.
At this age when flowers are blooming, other girls are grooming themselves and experimenting with shampoos, creams, oils and even lipsticks, but Orchid has almost nothing but a bar of soap and cheap face oil in a shell.
Lan Xiang never really paid attention to her beauty, she never compared herself to others, and she never envied the beauty of other girls, so her life was always so easy.
Her goal is very clear, she is not to compete with others for beauty, nor to show off to others, her purpose is to study and take university exams.
For Lanxiang's age, having such a clear goal and firm determination is difficult for ordinary people to achieve.
Not only does Lanxiang possess shocking determination, but she is also a very resilient young woman.
4. Orchid shows a strong spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement.
When Lan Xiang was in urgent need of a short-sleeved shirt, she did not ask her eldest brother for fifty yuan, nor did she ask her second brother for help, but went to the hospital to get a mud bag in person.
For girls, carrying mud bags is not only a labor-intensive task, but also a task that requires courage to complete. However, Lan Xiang managed to overcome her inner turmoil, so on the spur of the moment, she decided to go to the hospital at night to get mud bags.
She felt extremely tired and sore after work every day, but Lan Xiang continued her work with determination. That's because she fell in love with the space industry, she said. It was on her way back from her hospital work that she developed a strong desire to fly into space, which led her to set a clearer goal for her flight, and finally chose astrophysics as her major direction.
Only those who are independent and do not want to rely on others can fly higher and farther, and Lanxiang is such a person.
In addition to having a unique personality, Lu Yao also provides Lan Xiang with a wise mind and a beautiful face.
5. Both wisdom and beauty.
Lan Xiang has a high sensitivity to numbers, which is her talent that no one else can match.
In the book, it is described that on one occasion, the teacher showed a complex mathematical formula and wrote it on the blackboard. When he finished drawing the equal sign, Lan Xiang immediately stood up and told him that it was equal to zero. I asked her why she didn't write it at the endAfter half a day of hard writing, the teacher's mouth opened wide in surprise, but he couldn't open his mouth for a long time.
Lan Xiang is a very intelligent person who loves learning and works hard, and success is almost impossible, so after unremitting efforts, she successfully entered the astrophysics major of North China University of Technology with excellent performance.
Lan Xiang grew from the daughter of a poor mountain village family to a student at a national key university, which is like a carp jumping over the dragon gate. She made the first jump in her life and managed to get out of the countryside and leave the Loess Plateau, where the land is loess with her back to the sky.
He met Wu Zhongping by chance in that place, and during one class, when she saw the seat next to Wu Zhongping, she quickly used mathematical logic to deduce that the seat was reserved for her by Wu Zhongping.
Since then, they have gradually become close, learning and discussing various issues together. With a long time with a classmate who shares the same interests and ideals as them, the relationship between them gradually warms up, and the initial simple classmate friendship gradually evolves into a romantic relationship.
They are able to come together not only because they have a deep emotional foundation, but also because they enjoy the same status in society, including the same educational background and knowledge, as well as common dreams and interests. Therefore, it is completely understandable and acceptable that they were able to come together.
However, the ugly daughter-in-law always needs to see her in-laws, not to mention that Lan Xiang is so beautiful.
When Wu Zhongping's parents learned that their son's girlfriend was from a rural area, they were very unhappy. However, when they saw such a personable and beautiful young woman as Lan Xiang, and completely devoid of the characteristics of a rural person in speech and behavior, they were very happy, and did not know what to do. So they decided to introduce their son to her. Wu Zhongping's mother suddenly changed her previous unpleasant mood and soon developed a good impression of her daughter-in-law Lan Xiang, who was not yet married.
Lan Xiang won Wu Zhongping's heart with her intelligence, knowledge, and interests, and earned the respect of her future in-laws through her beauty, words and deeds. She grew from an ordinary peasant woman to a senior engineer. This marked the second major change in Sun Lanxiang's life, as she not only left the countryside, but also stepped into the upper echelons of society.
In the work "Ordinary World", Lan Xiang is described as a character full of luck and happiness.
She lives in a warm and happy family, with parents and older brothers who love her deeply. After unremitting efforts, she successfully entered the university that everyone envied, and met Wu Zhongping, who had the same interests and dreams as her. She married the deputy secretary of the provincial party committee, which made her life go through many levels of leaps, and finally rose to the top of society and became a real golden phoenix.