Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Once, in a book, I saw such a sentence: "No matter when, be a good girl who is not improvised, not discounted, not cheap, and not bad." ”In this life, it is not easy for a woman to manage her own life.
I take care of my career and often lose my family;I take care of my children, but I can't take care of myself;Take care of yourself, and don't care about the ...... of others
There are too many roles given to women by the years. Men, I hope to find a good woman who is knowledgeable, virtuous and kind.
In the eyes of men, what kind of woman is a first-class good woman?A woman who does 4 points.
I know a brother whose wife is actually very average-looking, but they have a good relationship as husband and wife. Every time I had a party with him, he would praise his wife from the bottom of his heart.
His wife followed him from his hometown to the city to develop, and he did not have a high education, but he was very studious and worked hard to study.
Not only did she set up a stall to sell breakfast, but she also took care of the children, and the house was also kept in order so that he didn't worry about it.
Around her, there are some people who think that she is from the countryside, has no appearance, and is not educated, and is not worthy of him. But he felt that he could find such a woman who knew cold and hot, could live, and felt distressed, which was a blessing from his previous life.
His wife's business was very good early, and now she has a store, and she earns no less money than him, and the two of them live very happily.
In the eyes of men, women who have love in their eyes and careers in their hearts are the most admired and admired.
Sociologist Davis said: "To give up one's responsibility to work and to society means to give up one's better chance of survival in this society." ”A good woman lives with herself and a purpose.
Not only can they live their own value, but they can also share the pressure of supporting their families. Have the ability to make money and have the backbone of self-reliance.
Such a woman has a powerful aura of her own, which is more practical than being pretty.
When two people live together, there will always be friction.
In men's hearts, really good women are very good at managing emotions and solving problems.
Orison Madden writes in The Capital of a Life: "At no time should one be a slave to one's own emotions, one should not subject all actions to one's own emotions, but should control them in turn." ”When encountering problems, women can quickly stabilize their emotions and will not be reluctant for a little thing.
The man came to coax and gave the steps down. No matter who is right or wrong, you can maintain your sanity and communicate well. Such a woman is the most cute for men.
Because, in the process of staying together, for men, solving emotional problems and running-in is more important than blindly pulling emotions.
A good woman, when she is angry, knows how to accept it when she sees it.
After the run-in occurs, the pros and cons will be analyzed, reasonable, and methodical. No matter what happens, we will first understand the cause and effect and empathize.
Not too willful, know how to measure. Willing to actively solve problems through communication.
Know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, and solve large and small contradictions.
A good woman, empathetic, cooperative, knows how to maintain family harmony, understands the general situation, and takes the overall situation into account.
One woman can affect three generations of a family. Especially, their own next generation.
An excellent and good woman cares about her children's education. In the process of raising children, they can persist in learning Xi and constantly improve themselves.
Gu Jia in "Thirty Only" is a particularly excellent woman.
Old open company, she can help pull business and solve the crisis. At home, she will decorate her home very warmly, giving children a better environment for growth and learning Xi.
She knew that when her son was wronged, she could also show her strong and brave side, and go to vent her son's anger alone.
At home, she can not only take care of her husband, but also take care of her son's daily life.
She has never lacked the company of her children because of her career, and she can balance her family and career well, and do her best to do her best.
Men working outside the home can bring more wealth to the family and promote the development of the family. As a wife and mother, you can determine the happiness index of the family and whether it can maintain stability.
A really good woman knows how to run a family and educate her children.
Educating children, as parents, also needs to grow.
In the process of educating her children, a growing woman can constantly reflect on her own behavior, continue to learn Xi scientific parenting concept, and constantly surpass herself, so that her children can grow better.
A good woman is the "financial commissioner" of the family. The family is very good at managing big and small things.
In particular, I will be more attentive to the management of money.
Know how to be diligent and thrifty, do not spend extra money, and do not spend indiscriminately. They can leave some savings to cope with the crisis, and they can also open up channels to make money, know how to invest and manage money, and maintain economic stability and development.
There is a saying: "Men are rakes for money, and women are baskets for money." ”A really good woman has a plan for life and knows how to manage money reasonably.
Not only can it ensure that family members have a relatively high quality of life, but also save a lot of money.
Being good at managing money is a particularly remarkable talent in itself.
A good woman is like a pearl necklace with a soft, sparkling light.
Elegant, intelligent, talented, with high emotional intelligence, not satisfied with the moment, will continue to grow.
Know how to manage love and express love. When a man is with her, he will feel at home.
If you work hard to run your career and educate your children well, you will have a more reasonable plan for yourself and your family.
Man, when you have such a wife, you must cherish it. Cherish her dedication and love her well, and men will live more easily and happily.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.