If you want your child's grades to improve, learn to play with your child first!
In China's educational environment, many parents go to great lengths for their children's grades. However, we often overlook an important fact:To improve your child's academic performance, you must first learn to play with your child. This view is not groundless, but is based on in-depth research and observation of the family education of a large number of 985 college students.
I once asked a mother who scored more than 700 points in the college entrance examination how she managed to educate her child so wellShe said that she didn't care about studying, she just played with her children from an early age!I'm curious, what to play?Can you do a good job in learning?She said: "Children can play whatever they like, such as all kinds of chess, reading, badminton, table tennis, and play with them whatever they like." "I was quite skeptical at the time, but then I thought about it, it actually makes sense, the family atmosphere is very good, the children feel the love of their parents, and at the same time, these games are also good for intellectual and physical development. The family atmosphere is important when the child is young, and the school atmosphere is important when he grows up. Although it can't be generalized in points, there are some inspirations!
First of all, play is a child's nature and an important way for them to learn and grow. Through games and activities, children are able to engage and understand the world in an intuitive and vivid way, thus developing their observation, thinking and creativity. For example, in playing puzzle games such as Lego and puzzles, children need to use their brains to solve problems, which undoubtedly helps to improve their logical thinking and problem-solving skills. And these abilities are also very important in learning.
Secondly, a good parent-child relationship is a stabilizer of a child's academic performance. By playing with their children, parents can gain a deeper understanding of their children's interests, personalities, and needs, thereby building a deep parent-child relationship. This intimate relationship allows children to feel the love and support of their parents, which can lead to greater confidence and motivation in their studies.
Furthermore, play can help children develop good study habits. Taking mathematics as an example, parents can stimulate their children's interest in mathematics by playing math games with their children, such as Sudoku, Blackjack, etc. When children realize that mathematics is not boring formulas and calculations, but a fun and challenging intellectual game, they will naturally be more engaged in learning.
In addition, play can also help children develop perseverance and the quality of not being discouraged when frustrated. In the game, children will encounter various difficulties and challenges, and by solving problems and overcoming difficulties with their parents, they can gradually learn to persevere and not give up. This quality is also invaluable in learning and can help them cope better with setbacks and failures.
So, how do you become a parent who can play with your children?First of all, parents need to change their mindset, not to oppose learning and play, but to organically combine the two. Learning shouldn't be boring, but fun and exploratory. Parents should encourage their children to learn through play and help them discover the joy of learning.
Secondly, parents should be actively involved in their children's games and activities. Playing with your child allows them to better understand their needs and interests, while also strengthening the parent-child relationship. In the game, parents can appropriately guide their children to think and solve problems, and help them improve their abilities.
In addition, parents should also give their children enough freedom and space to explore and discover. Don't interfere too much with your child's play and learning process, but let them learn to think and explore on their own. When children encounter difficulties, parents can give appropriate guidance and encouragement to help them overcome difficulties and build self-confidence.
To sum up, to improve their children's academic performance, parents need to learn to play with their children. Through play, children can develop an interest in learning, develop good study habits, and establish a stable parent-child relationship. At the same time, children can also learn to persevere and not give up in the game, so as to better cope with setbacks and failures in learning and life. Therefore, parents may wish to put down the pressure of homework supervision and cram school, and play more with their childrenLet's enjoy the quality time with our children together!
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