Many parents will worry about their daughters falling in love during adolescence, because many children at this stage often put their school Xi aside and only think about love when they fall in love, which is the most worrying point for parents. Therefore, as parents, regarding the problem of early love of 14-year-old children, we should give them correct guidance to prevent it from affecting their learning and Xi.
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How to enlighten parents when a 14-year-old girl falls in love
1. Guide children to establish a correct view of love.
Adolescent children fall in love, because their minds have not yet developed and sophisticated, and their emotions about love are not sophisticated. Therefore, parents need to guide their children to know that there are many meaningful things in life in addition to love, and then carry the children's attention, focus on their future development, and then concentrate on learning Xi to lay a solid foundation for their own boastful future.
2. Don't be in a hurry to deny your child.
Parents can discuss this topic with their children in a more calm and open language, so that children can feel that they are respected, their feelings are accepted, and they can understand their own situation better, and perhaps the children themselves will fundamentally stop thinking about love.
3. Timely communication between parents and teachers.
Many times, parents are not able to understand their children's behavior at school, and most of the time, parents need to cooperate with teachers. When it is found that the child has a tendency to fall in love, parents should communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, so that the teacher can think of a most suitable way for the child to educate their children with the parents through the embodiment in the school, so as to achieve the perfect cooperation between home and school, and better educate the child.
4. Reflect on your family.
Sometimes 14-year-old girls talk about love and early love is also related to family, such as poor parental contact, busy with work and less with children, usually do not pay attention to caring for children, single-parent families and other problem families. When children lack the warmth of the family, they simply carry their emotions to their peers, forming a high degree of emotional dependence on the same sex or the opposite sex. Therefore, parents should reflect on their own families, improve the family environment, care more for their children, and give their children a sense of care and security.
What are the manifestations of early love in girls.
1. The effect suddenly declines.
Although some children will grow into each other's early love, and the effect will increase, but this is only a small amount. After most children fall in love, there will be a significant decline in the effect. Some are only temporary, while others plummet, and they can't come back for a while. Children who are in early love, especially when they are just together, are especially fond of wandering Xi listening to lectures. Girls, in particular, will be more affected.
2. Initially try to ask for pocket money.
Young couples will give each other gifts when they are in early love. Whenever a child finds that he or she can't afford money when he gives a gift, the first person to look for must be his parents. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the fact that when their children initially try their best to ask you for pocket money, and always complain that the pocket money is not working, they should be vigilant.
3. On school uniforms and accessories, letters that have nothing to do with their names appear.
Children's early love often can't escape the teacher's discovery, and the experienced class teacher is very brief to find the clues during the secret investigation. However, now that the students' "anti-detection" knows that they are also improving, smart students will not be too obvious.