If life is regarded as a game of chess, then the outcome of life is determined by the pattern of this game of chess. The winners of the chess game are often those who have the measure of first giving and then taking, the height of the overall situation, and the strategy and momentum of strategizing to win a thousand miles. We all have to learn to be such a chess player.
There is such an intriguing saying: big things are difficult, look at the responsibility;Adversity and good times, look at the degree;When you are happy and angry, you can see the self-cultivation;Gain and loss, look at wisdom;Be bigger and smaller, look at the pattern!The reason why many big people can succeed is because they began to build the big picture of life from the time they were small people.
What are the characteristics of a person with a pattern?
When faced with a problem, jump out of the question
As the ancients said, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. People with a big picture never get themselves into a problem, they always solve problems perfectly, and they take all aspects into account.
This ability can effectively expand our landscape, but it requires us to train ourselves to look at problems from the perspective of a bystander, so that we will think more comprehensively. It's easy to see others, it's hard to see yourself, and it's even harder to see what you can do.
We are all selfish and will always be biased towards ourselves, but when the problem you face no longer involves yourself, you will look at the problem more calmly, and the solution you think of will be more perfect.
2.Don't stick to immediate interests, be a long-termist
Always only see the immediate gains and losses, complacent for the sake of temporary interests, but do not know how to think for the long term;Such a person, even if he succeeds for a short time, can only retain his reputation for a while, and cannot enjoy the glory of a lifetime. The difference between an excellent person and an ordinary person lies in whether he has a long-term thinking.
Whether you know how to consider the problem from a long-term perspective and solve the problem from a higher perspective is the key to the success of a person's pattern.
There is such a saying on the Internet: "People who spend a second to see through the essence of things, and those who spend a lifetime unable to see the essence of things, are destined to have completely different fates." ”
Excellent people are never in a hurry to succeed in a moment. They know how to delay gratification and give themselves enough time to make the best choice.
3.Take a long-term view
Everyone wants to be famous, but to achieve such a result, you must have done something right.
At the beginning of the career, we must have a long-term vision, not only greedy for immediate small profits, but also consider long-term reputation and interests.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to make money, but it also depends on what kind of money it is, really do a good job in quality, good reputation, and making money is naturally a matter of course.
A person who really has a pattern knows what he wants in his heart and what path he should take, and he will work hard to correct his mistakes and improve his self-cultivation.
If a person does not have a pattern, he will only see the immediate gains and losses, but not the long-term benefits.
If you want to have a good development, you must first improve your own pattern. When you don't know how to improve the pattern, the first thing to do is to read more books, how to add your knowledge in the books, will improve your pattern.
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Pattern" book from the cultivation pattern, from the thought, action multi-faceted exposition of the importance of the pattern, interspersed with a variety of interesting cases, very readable, practical, want to achieve great things people must first have a big pattern.
Vision》The vision determines the world, opens the way to broaden your horizons, and takes advantage of various opportunities to see more and better. In this book, we will teach you the importance of vision, give practical methods, and lay a solid foundation for a brilliant life.
Emotional Intelligence "Emotional intelligence determines the source energy of your life's direction, improving emotional intelligence can allow us to obtain a broader space for development, this book teaches you to face family, work and unexpected time, to maintain positive combat effectiveness.
This book tells you how to increase your knowledge and improve your pattern, the more well-informed people are, the more humble they are, because they know that the world is big and the individual is small, so the more understanding and tolerance they can be towards others.
Strategy》Knowing strategy will allow you to do more with less. This book tells you that in order to achieve one of your goals, you need to make corresponding plans according to the situations you encounter in advance, and finally achieve your goals, open up your life pattern, and move towards a brilliant life.
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