Li Hua and Xueping's marriage has always been enviable. After four years of free love, they entered the palace of marriage with the blessing of relatives and friends, and have been married for nine years and become parents of two children.
Outsiders see the happy side of Li Hua and Xueping, but since giving birth to her second child, Xueping has never slept well, dark circles and dark spots make her look less like a 35-year-old woman, more like a 50-year-old.
Men are visual creatures, and love for women begins and ends with appearances. Li Hua came into contact with young and energetic girls at work, and whenever he came home from work, he began to think about the yellow-faced woman he was going to face, and Li Hua would have the idea of escaping.
He would always stay in the car for a while, smoking cigarettes one after another, until Xue Ping asked him where he was and the meal was ready, and he slowly went upstairs.
The woman's sixth sense is very keen, and after feeling that her husband is deliberately estranged, Xueping, who originally liked to complain, is now no longer chattering all day long. Li Hua quickly sat on the sofa and watched TV after eating, but Xueping hadn't started eating yet, and she was still busy serving the two children.
Although the older children have been able to eat by themselves, they are restless every time, throwing chopsticks everywhere, and they need Xue Ping to watch them to calm down and eat;Children also need Xueping to feed them mouthful.
After the children were full, Xue Ping ate a few bites of the meal that had been cooled down in a hurry, and then hurriedly began to bathe the two children and put them to sleep.
By the time the children finally fell asleep, it was already half past nine in the evening, and Xue Ping was still busy cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, washing clothes and mopping the floor. She was exhausted from completing these chores before she could finally take a shower and rest.
And Li Hua was like a ** person when Xue Ping was busy alone, and he didn't care about Xue Ping's hard work at all. He was always watching TV, watching the news or ball games, and even if there was no program he was interested in, he would lie on the sofa and sleep, and he would not ask Xue Ping and the children about it.
In Li Hua's view, he works hard outside to make money for the family, and he needs to enjoy it when he returns home. The wife should be responsible for taking care of the children and doing household chores.
Li Hua doesn't seem to understand the responsibilities she should bear as a husband and father at all, and she doesn't understand why Xue Ping has changed from the initial nagging to the current silence.
He mistakenly thought that the tranquility in his ears was happiness, but he didn't realize that it was the dead silence in Xue Ping's heart. Xue Ping has been completely disappointed in Li Hua, and would rather live alone with her children than face someone who doesn't love her all day long.
On an ordinary night, Xue Ping was planning to divorce, and she walked up to Li Hua with a few pages of paper, which read "Divorce Agreement". Yes, Xue Ping decided to divorce and expressed this decision firmly.
For Li Hua, he was shocked by Xue Ping's decision, but he would never wronged himself, nor would he give in, and he would not lower his posture and ask Xue Ping to stay.
Okay, divorce, that's exactly what you said, don't regret it in the future!You're almost forty years old and you still want a divorce, don't forget, if you leave me, who else will want you!Xue Ping didn't say much, she decided to raise the child with Li Hua, but she was worried that the child would be wronged, so she took the initiative to offer: "The eldest child belongs to your custody, if you can't take care of it well, I can help you take care of it."
Li Hua has never taken care of a child, there is no family affection between him and the child, and he is naturally willing to accept such a good thing.
Li Hua owns two houses, and Xueping asked for one of the small houses and started a new life with her two children. The older children go to school, the younger children go to kindergarten, and Xueping goes to work during the day and takes care of the children at night.
Her goal in life is simple, to work hard, work hard to earn money, and support her children.
However, those who work hard will always be favored by God. In the supermarket where Xue Ping works, a man three years older than her has a crush on her. This man is honest and dutiful, and has had a brief marriage before, but has no children. He admires Xue Ping very much and is willing to raise two children with Xue Ping.
However, Xue Ping's heart was injured, and it was not something that could be healed overnight. So, after accompanying Xue Ping for more than a year, this man slowly opened Xue Ping's heart.
And Li Hua's life after the divorce has become extremely difficult. He initially felt much more comfortable about his life, but as time went on, he realized that there was no one to cook hot meals for him, no one to do his laundry, no one to clean the house for him.
What made him even more emaciated was that his mother had another heart attack and was hospitalized, and he didn't know how to take care of her at all, because Xue Ping used to take care of his parents for him.
After leaving Xueping, Li Hua has been living a very difficult life, and he began to realize how good Xueping is. However, Li Hua, who has a strong sense of vanity and is unwilling to bow his head, will not take the initiative to find Xueping.
He had been waiting, waiting for Xue Ping to regret it and come back and ask for reconciliation. But after waiting for more than a year, he didn't wait for Xue Ping to ask him to remarry, but learned the news that Xue Ping planned to remarry. After learning the news, although Li Hua was hit hard, he still didn't want to lower his posture and still wanted to fight for a chance.
Perhaps for men, a little pride in their hearts is more important than anything else. But true happiness does not lie in the eyes of others, nor in the pursuit of grand causes, but in having a lover who is truly with you.
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