There is a saying that "the disintegration of adults only happens in an instant", and different people may feel the emotions of "inner breakdown" at different moments. Some people may be in the process of preparing for the exam day after day, some people may be when they submit a large number of resumes but do not hear back, and some people may be when they see that they have been admitted to a better university than themselves but have been admitted to a better university, etc.
Does it make people "collapse" if they do better than themselves in the exams of their classmates?Perhaps, here's an example. The actor was later admitted to the "211" university of Xidian University, let's call him "Xiaoxi".
Konishi and Zhang Ming are from the same place, they used to go to junior high school together, and Konishi's grades were very good at that time, while Zhang Ming's grades were average. According to Konishi, Zhang Ming's grades in junior high school were far inferior to him. But for some reason, Konishi doesn't like Zhang Ming.
Why do boys with good grades hate boys with bad grades?There are no unwarranted likes or dislikes in this world. Is it because Zhang Ming's popularity is better, or is it because he is scheming, or he likes to play with right and wrong, or other reasons?Who knows.
After the high school entrance examination, Zhang Ming, who had average grades, was admitted to an ordinary high school, barely exceeding the general high school line, while Xiaoxi successfully entered a key high school. In the three years of high school, the two should not have crossed paths much. After the college entrance examination, Konishi happily stepped into the "211" university of Xidian University. Maybe Xiaoxi thinks that if there is no accident, Zhang Ming will be able to go to an ordinary undergraduate at most.
Things are always changing. During last year's winter vacation, Xiaoxi, a sophomore, saw Zhang Ming post a status in the circle of friends: "There is no winter that can't be passed, and there is no spring that can't come back." However, Zhang Ming's address is displayed on the Beiyang Park Campus of Tianjin University, which makes Xiaoxi wonder, what does the old classmate do at Tianjin University?
Full of questions, Xiaoxi took the initiative to contact Zhang Ming and learned that Zhang Ming was admitted to Tianjin University through repeating. Soon, Konishi sent out a transcript of their chat with a caption "Mentality Collapsed".
From their conversation, it can be seen that Xiaoxi originally thought that Xidian University was quite strong and had a sense of superiority. However, when he saw others entering Tianjin University, he silently felt that he was inferior to others, but he was unwilling to accept this reality. In general, perhaps Konishi is the kind of person who is "conceited but inferior", with a narrow-minded heart, and his words seem indifferent but imply subtle "jealousy".
After reading their chat logs, none of the netizens sympathized with him, but instead blamed and ridiculed him.
It has been said that "jealousy makes him unrecognizable and revealed";Someone joked that after reading this dialogue, I feel that 985 is indeed more powerful than 211;Others said that they should "stay away" from such people. He didn't like Zhang Ming before, maybe it had something to do with his own personality, right?It's also possible.
Xidian University originally had a good reputation, and the alumni employment situation was also quite good, so Xiaoxi did not need to feel jealous. Zhang Ming's measurement and control major is also very good, Xiaoxi seems to use a sentence of "that is true" to belittle the other party, this is not what a mature college student should say. If he "collapses" because of this little thing, then he may often be in this state in the future, today is someone else's college is better than yours, tomorrow it may be someone else's job is better than yours, and the salary is higher than yours
People will meet many people who are stronger than themselves in their lives, not only that, but also those who are not as educated as themselves but make more money and live happier lives, and even meet people who are not as capable as themselves but are promoted faster and have higher positions. At times like these, instead of wasting your attention on trivial things, you should improve yourself more and strive to do better.
What do you think?