Before entering college, there is a more pronounced hierarchy of teacher-student relationships between students and teachers, and their communication with each other is mainly based on academics, except in high school, when students are under increased academic pressure and need additional support and guidance from teachers.
Once you're in college, it's different. Students have counselors and teachers *** private communication has become more frequent, involving leave, reporting, etc. In particular, the class leaders have closer communication with the teachers. While this convenience provides more opportunities for communication, it also creates the possibility of sending error messages. Sometimes, when you can't control the speed of your fingers, you can mistakenly send a message that should have been addressed to someone else, and it may even contain some embarrassing words.
For example, a boy mistakenly sent an annoying message to a counselor who was supposed to apologize to his girlfriend. When a student opens the chat box, he may have sent a message in a hurry without carefully confirming the identity of the other person. Such coincidences are not uncommon, and some news can be misleading, while others can be embarrassing.
The boy wanted to apologize to his girlfriend, but instead inadvertently sent the passage to the counselor, bothering the latter. Faced with the teacher's questioning, the boy could only quickly explain: "Teacher, you listen to my explanation." The teacher understood the situation, perhaps to tease him, and made him feel a little nervous with an understatement.
In college, small conflicts between couples are commonplace, and as a counselor teacher, I have seen many sweet moments and daily noises of college couples, which have long been commonplace. However, when a student sends me a message, sometimes the teacher also unconsciously falls into a bit of narcissism, as if the student is confessing his feelings for himself.
There are also some teachers who always like to preach, emphasizing helping students establish a correct view of love. Sometimes students send schedules to counselors, and at the same time, they express their love in follow-up messages with earthy love words, such as "stinky treasures", hugs, etc., which makes the teacher feel quite embarrassed and even blush. The love life of a college student looks very sweet, and the gossip teacher also feels that he has succeeded in "touching porcelain".
Some parents will also send the wrong message in the class group, after all, there are too many work groups, and they are often confused, but even college students, no matter how vigilant they are, they will inevitably make mistakes. A parent actually confessed "I miss you, husband" directly in front of the counselor, and this sudden confession is difficult to deal with.
Such a mistake directly leads to embarrassment, especially in the case of regular meetings with the counselor, how much time does it take to get rid of this embarrassment and face the teacher again?Therefore, it is best to reply to messages carefully when you are not clear-headed, so as not to regret it afterwards.
What makes students even more worried is that they accidentally call the wrong name, sometimes by mistake, sometimes they can't help it. What is especially heart-wrenching is that when students send complaints about the counselor to the counselor himself, these students really become "conspicuous bags".
A teacher wrote a paper version of the material for the student, but on the way back, the student complained to a friend that "her words are too floating" and attached a "map of evidence". The teacher's response was simple and cute: "Floating?."This made the students feel deeply embarrassed to be caught, and they no longer dared to send messages while walking, because no one knew where the message would be sent in the next second.
Of course, there are also some college students who have a very close relationship with their counselors and treat each other like real friends. Since many of the instructors have just graduated and are able to get along more closely with their students, their day-to-day interactions are usually less inhibited, and many students are envious of such teacher-student relationships.
One student deliberately adopted the attitude of "I must commit this cheap" and said some earthy love words to the counselor. This caused the counselor to fall into a panic, and the reply box was repeatedly edited, which was really difficult to deal with the student's humor. This kind of non-offensive dialogue is a great Xi for students, especially those who have not yet experienced college life.
It is indeed embarrassing to send the wrong message, and students should understand the importance of maintaining a good relationship with their advisor before entering college. The message was sent incorrectly, and the embarrassment is certainly there, but the way it is handled is also critical. It's okay to be honest and admit your mistake directly, or to use a lyric to lighten the mood, and it's okay to be generous, it's important that the student is able to solve it properly.
Since the relationship between a college counselor and a student can affect a student's academic and graduation development, this may not be well understood for students who have just graduated from high school. Although college counselors may look like "deans" on the outside, they are actually busy with jobs, so if students can be good communicators, proactive, and willing to help teachers with chores, then they will also be rewarded.
The most direct reward is the scholarship place, although good grades do not necessarily get a scholarship, but if the student has both excellent grades and is recognized by the counselor, then more rewards can be obtained. Therefore, students should be mindful of their words and actions and avoid rash complaints about the counselor.
Today's topic: Did you laugh at the messages sent by these classmates by mistake?